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First Time


Question Posted Friday June 24 2011, 5:48 am

Sorry if this is in the wrong category for Sexual Health and Reproduction.

So I am 15, and a male, thinking about having sexual intercourse for my first time.

I don't really have a private place to do anything sexual, and my girlfriend suggested a movie theater but I am not sure what could happen if we were to get caught. What would happen if we got caught? I told her i wasn't to sure about being in a movie theater. She said she would atleast give me head, but i still am not sure if we should even do that there because it is still a public place. What would happen if we were caught while she was giving me head? What are your thoughts about this?

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StarChild217 answered Saturday July 2 2011, 7:13 pm:
Think about this...do you really want your FIRST time to be in a dirty movie theater or the back seat of some car?? You want to enjoy it and I would assume you want your girl to enjoy it. Obviously you feel like you two are ready. Ok so would it really hurt to wait till you guys have some privacy so you can take your time and enjoy what you're about to experience?

Another thought...how would you guys explain to your parents that you were thrown out of the movies because you were screwing or getting head? Think about it...

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SergioILoveYouBaby answered Friday July 1 2011, 2:18 am:
Hi There(:
All I can reallyy say is DON'T do it in a parking lot. Me and my Boyfriend went to see a movie and ended up in the parking lot waiting for our parents. We ended up having sex. we were in a little bit in a hurry to finish bbefore our parents came. He ended up popping my cherry becuz he was trying too hard. Make sure you have a proper place where you are in NOO hurry.
xoxo
Dakotaa.

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solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday June 29 2011, 12:27 am:
You would be ejected by the theater management and barred from the property. You would also have the police involved and likely charged with a lewd act and indecent exposure and have a sexual offense listed on record. That's what would happen. Not worth it.

Also, put yourself in the mind of other theater goers and what they're there for and anyone else who has to sit in the same cinema. It's a very bad idea. Find a private not public place as when you get caught no matter where in public you can wind up in legal trouble and a reputation that can't be erased.

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pervertedbutcool answered Saturday June 25 2011, 12:14 pm:
if you do wanna do it it would be best in the back seat of your car if you have one and wnat to do so privately...or in store room or a room no one is at..and if you were caught well then your in trouble scause your underage

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lovealways1221 answered Saturday June 25 2011, 1:25 am:
ew.. no. don't do it in the movie theater. That's literally disgusting, i'm sorry haha. Put it this way.. lets say you're at a movie theater and in the corner of your eye you see 2 people having sex.. wouldn't you be grossed out??? That's what other people would be thinking if they saw you 2 having sex.

Also.. having sex for the first time is a SPECIAL thing.. You don't want to look back and think "my first time was in a movie theater.." that's so un-special. If you have to wait a few extra days so you can do it in a bed, then wait. Sex shouldn't be rushed. Especially your first time. Take your time and do it at the right time.

i honestly can't tell you where to do it. You could try your bedroom (but then you've got your parents haha) you could try in the car, in a private park, at another friends house. but honestly those places aren't ideal for your first time.

Oh and just one more thing.. I don't mean to sound like a parent (considering i'm 18) but be safe. please. and make sure it's with the right girl. think about this before you actually do it. It's really not a big deal if you wait until you're older or when you find the right person.

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julie75 answered Friday June 24 2011, 5:14 pm:
A lot of theaters have hidden cameras to prevent people from video taping the movie, so even if nobody sees you, the camera will. Try to sneak a couple of blankets out and head to the park after dark. Find a dark spot away from the road and you can probably get away with a quickie before anyone comes along. My only other suggestion would be at your parents house in the basement. I hope this helps and good luck.

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