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What actually does my bf think...?
I am of 16 and female....it my first love ever....i love him a lot and i know he love me too...but i dont what had happened to him, his reaction was changed suddenly....he always says i love u a lot and i cant live without u,u r too sexy, too beaution,amazing,etc.....i love him too...and i know i cant live without him....suddenly his reaction towards me changed and he started saying dont text me or dont call me by mistake also...i will change my no. And will never talk to u.....it hurted me badly....i love him madly....seeing his changed attitude made me cry....and made me to do hillarious things like cutting my hand with knife,etc.....i know he love me more than anything in the world but at the same time i cant bear his changed behaviour too.....please give advices....i need u all... Thank you!
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Sweetie, no man is worth hurting yourself for. You are a beautiful girl that deserves to be treated with love and respect. Don't let this guy decide your happiness. Anyone who treats you badly is not in love with you. He is using your kindness and love to get what he wants. All guys are nice at first but how they act later down the line is the true person. Please leave this boy alone. He does not deserve you. I know it is not easy but if you would just try and open yourself up to meeting new people eventually you will find yourself so much happier.
You are worth so much more than this. Please please please I beg you do NOT hurt yourself EVER again. Talk to your mom, your friends, anyone who care and I know a lot of people do. If you want to talk with me I will giv eyou my number. You are WONDERFUL, BEAUTIFUL, KIND, LOVING. Anyone guy would be lucky to have you as their girlfriend. Your boyfriend is a looser. Leave him sweetie. PLEASE!!! There are so many people out there that care and love you including me. I love you.
I'm so sorry you are going through this :(
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first of all just becasue of your bf being a jerk dont mess yourself up! if your bf is saying all of these cruel things, in my opinion i dont think you guys ahould be together.
If you guys can work it out then that would be great! you guys should talk everything over, tell him how you feel before it's to late and he says stop talking to me or something!
you are your own person and don't let anyone take that away from you!
"sometimes the best way to get someone's attention is to stop giving them yours"
maybe ignore him for a little and if he really loves you, he will come back calling you and wondering what happening with you.
hope i helped and good luck!(:
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You are only 16 and you think that this is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with... that could happen but its highly unlikly... sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel... he doesnt need to be treating you bad like this... if he doesnt agree and change his ways then its time to move on you are so young and you have your whole life ahead of you this wont be the last of love for you he either needs to be a better boyfriend or get lost stay strong best wishes for you
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First of all, you are only 16 he isn't going to be your only love, it seems to me you just like how he made you feel and thats understandable but there is so many other people out there you shouldnt waste your tears on a jerk you have all the time in the world to find someone who will put your ex to shame theirs so much more to life that you have let to learn and the cutting forget about it having someone make you feel that low is never worth it it hurts now but time only heals
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Don't cut yourself that is bad and you need to ask him why all that happend
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The Only Answer Is: Do not react in violence towards yourself.
Although this behavior is really hard too deal with, it will happen again.
He may even be coming up for the next step.
Do not freak.
If this behavior continues, sit down with him and discuss how you feel.
If all else fails. Let the behavior continue for a while, as this may just be a stage. It will pass no matter what. Don't worry(:
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You really should get the mind set that he "loves" you out of your head. People who love each other don't find it hilarious when one cuts themselves, and threatens to change their number.
Reality is, At one point in time your boyfriend may of cared for you, He could of been a great guy etc. but people change. Sometimes people aren't always what they appear to be. If your boyfriend finds it hilarious that you cut yourself......Your boyfriend has some serious issues.
So for my advise; Dump him, He is treating you like shit and is abusing you mentally and there is absolutely no need for it. There is also NO excuse for it either whether he is having a bad day, joking, or even "going through a stage" talking to him about how it makes you feel may not solve the problem considering your boyfriend seems to think it's "funny" to intimate you. I wouldn't stick around and tolerate this crap, You deserve better and normally when people abuse someone they don't stop unless they seek help for it. Ignoring the problem and letting him put you down and threaten your relationship will eventually somewhere begin to take it's toll and I don't recommend sticking around if he isn't willing to shape up. You are 16 years old, You CAN live without him and yes, You will also find someone else who will treat you right and respect you. This asshole needs to be curb stomped because honey, This isn't love. As long as you continue to be in a relationship like this you will continue to allow yourself to be hurt and abused. You need to get out and leave him the sooner you realize you are better off the better you will be.
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