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I am of 16 and female....it my first love ever....i love him a lot and i know he love me too...but i dont what had happened to him, his reaction was changed suddenly....he always says i love u a lot and i cant live without u,u r too sexy, too beaution,amazing,etc.....i love him too...and i know i cant live without him....suddenly his reaction towards me changed and he started saying dont text me or dont call me by mistake also...i will change my no. And will never talk to u.....it hurted me badly....i love him madly....seeing his changed attitude made me cry....and made me to do hillarious things like cutting my hand with knife,etc.....i know he love me more than anything in the world but at the same time i cant bear his changed behaviour too.....please give advices....i need u all... Thank you! (link)
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Don't cut yourself that is bad and you need to ask him why all that happend
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Ok so My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months, when we had our first kiss i felt something i never felt before, im guessing that's the spark, So we just kissed like normal (not making out ) then after 2 months of dating we decided to start making out, every since we started making out i dont feel the spark .... Is this normal, I love kissing him and all but i havent kissed him normally for a month now :/ i havent felt the spark for a month, should i tell him or... Can i make there be a spark when we make out ? (link)
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Making out is diffrent then just kissing. Making out is taking a new step and you may think you like it but not haveing a spark may be saying you really don't really like it so a normal kiss to you may mean more
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I'm 13 and I really like this guy ( I think I'm in love with him) and I know i like him for who he is and everything because we used to be really close friends but ever since he got a gf not so much. I want to know how to get his attention and become more attractive to him to get him to like me (hopefully more than hs gf). Help? (link)
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Well what you need to do is show him you are still there and try hanging out with him agin then slowly show him how you feel
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Hi, my girlfriend has her exes b-day party coming up and I don't want her to go. She says they have mutual friends which is why she is going. She also said that if it wasn't such an uncomfortable situation that I could come. But why can't I go so that I can mark my territory? He should see me and see how happy she is with me? I am scared something will happen between them because he still has feelings for her. I don't want to confront her about it because she already thinks I am insecure with our relationship but I find that she is being inconsiderate in going to this guys b-day. Please, help me in either calming me down or give me ways in which I can approach this issue with her. (link)
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I wouldnt think of her as your territory becasue that could make her feel like she is your property and that could make her feel like a ho and another you need to tell her that you would like to go and that you love to meet him and be his friend to because that would give her peace and make her think ur just being nice
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ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and a half. were both 17 we go to the same schoool. He just recently started working alot and i dont get to talk to him and i find my self cryinggg because i hate change and im used to talking to him 24/7 and i dont want to be clingy and i keep crying cuz i feel like he doesnt care and idk what to do anymore. i feel really depressed. please help me. (link)
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You should talk to him and let him know how you feel I had the same problem and one day my i told my bf that i was upset because he was working and that we didnt have enought time with eachother and he took a day off and we went out to some place special and he told me he was sorry and that he told me he hasnt stopped thinking about me and on that our relationship grew stronger
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I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time awhile back and it was my first time and ever and when I got home I checked to see if there was any blood and there was nothing. Was it possible he didnt 'pop my cherry'? The first time was kind of a quickie but then the next time we had sex it felt like he hit it hard but I never bled. I heard when a girl loses her virginity she will bleed during or after. Am I still a virgin or? (link)
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Once you have sex with a guy no matter if he 'popped your cherry' or no you are no longer a virgin and the reason you havent bleed yet was because he hasnt gone far enought in or he is smaller and it cant reach so yes you are not a virgin and just give it time you will make it there
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i have a friend whos had sex many times with many different guys. Shes really kool, but most people say shes a hoe. Shes only 13 and had sex with over 3 different guys, She even gave head to a boy younger than her, i dont know how to tell her without hurting her feelings? any sugestions would be appreciated. (link)
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Tell her its not right and that she needs to slow down tell her there are many years for that and she doesnt need to do that now and bring up the STD talk and let her know what she is doing can hurt her
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What is Love? I always hear people sayong they love someone or something but what does it all really mean? Why do people like my parents and family say they love me? Is there actually something so ridiculous and naive out there? (link)
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When it comes down to it your parents love you no matter what but when it comes down to relationships you never know I wouldnt always think its love unless ya'll are in a realationship for about a year and your feeling get stronger
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My boyfriend and I are inseperable. He treats me like gold...always complimenting me and being so caring and loving towards me. He and I get along great, with an amazing connection and a lot of things in common. He's going to the Navy in December and he says if we last until I graduate, he wants to marry me. He is already graduated, and I am a junior. He is extremely mature, and he is very serious about this relationship, and it is weird for me because I have never ever been in a relationship like this...but I am so grateful. He is amazing.
We went to his cousin's house today and ended up having sex. Although I am sixteen, and he is seventeen, we had parental consent earlier when we first started dating, and we also used a condom. It was a little painful at first, but it felt good. I've had sex before, just not as deep, and I'll admit I'm glad I waited to have sex this time. I've always rushed into it, but having such a patient boyfriend is extremely great, because my other boyfriends have always been a little pushy on the subject. Anyway, I have always been a little insecure. And being insecure gets me scared for the worst....
I am a little scared that because my boyfriend got what every guy wants, he will ditch me soon enough. I am getting nervous just thinking about it. I know I can trust him and that we have an amazing connection outside of sex, and therefore I have nothing to worry about, but I am still very paranoid. He reassured me today, but I would like to know how I can get over my insecurities...
Thanks!!! (link)
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Well I have that problem and I am not saying this is true but I would look out. One day I was talking to a guy I had a crush on for 2 years I finally got the curage to tell him I liked him and we went out he was telling me all this stuff like I love you and want to be with you forever and that he will do anything for me and then About a mounth later I heard him talking to his friends about how he is telling mmw all this so i would give him some and i dumped he right after so i would look out for any strange activity after ya'll have had sex then confrot him about it but honey you will me fine
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i know this is so weird to ask but my boyfriend is sick of missionary and i always make him do that because i dont know how to ride. he wants me to so bad but im SO nervous im going to mess up or something. dont tell me you should be honest with him and tell him blah no i just want to know the steps on how to ride my boyfriend. so please be as specific!! thankss so much (link)
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Ok honestly I would before ya'll have sex tell him you are ready to that but I have never done it before so I am sorry if I am bad. He will understand and he will let you do it to the point where you like it just try ok
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How can you tell if a girl is bi/gay? Apparently I heard something about intuition.. But what are the signs or something? (link)
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I am bi and one way I let guys or girls know that I am I would sit there and say look at that girl she is preety I would date her without really saying I was bi and usally they would get the hint but sometime girls just say it cus the think that girl is actually preety and it mean there not bi so good luck
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I'm a 13 yearold girl and I hear about people just a year older than me sucking guys dicks and having sex and stuff but I think that oral sex is disgusting. is that normal? I'm not a lesbian I just think that's gross. and should girls shave there down there hair? you all probably think "what is she talking about, she's 13?" but I want to no if I should. It would help if I got advice from girls and guys. and how old were you guys when you lost your virginity? any advice helps. Thanks (: (link)
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Well I would never do that to because I would feel like a slut because my dad always used to tell me if you do that think about all those girls that got on there hands and knees giving guys oral sex in front of a camra those are the sluts that do it for money and he said you never want to feel like a slut so there is nothing wrong with it i promise
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i'm eighteen years old.was in a relationship for the past four years.everything was absolutely fine..till my bf decided it had to end(a week back).i kinda understand why he had to do so..and totally know he did the right thing..but i'm not able to let go..though breaking up was the most practical thing to do, i'm not able t accept it..and the thing that makes it even more complicated is that we had been doing more than just hanging out.so after all this..i feel like i've been used and cheated..i'm not able to tell my parents about it cuz i'm feeling guilty.. have already attempted suicide twice but it didn't really work..i have no idea what to do,, every little thing in my life reminds me of him..i wanna hate him but am really not able to...
and knowing that he's moved on is only hurting me more...i don't know what to do and i need all the help i can get...not to get back to him..but to let go of him..... (link)
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I would try to find someone sels not as a rebound but you should really get to know him and you will casully fall for him and you find you arnt thinking of your ex its only rebound if you use him to get back at your ex that sometime works but if it doesnt try some new things like go hang with friends alot more and do fun stuff and you will forget about him GOOD LUCK
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well me and my boyfriend where playing around yesterday. his penis touched my vagina and he pre-cumed a little. after that he fingered me and i think that way the precum may have gotten into me and now i'm scared that i'm pregnant cause now is also the time when i'm most fertil :/ can precum cause pregnancy? and afterwards he also went into me for like 3 seconds but i told him to pull out. i dont think he pre-cumed when he was in me though. and i also had a few drinks which is also the reason i was so careless (is there a chance that the alcohol could've prevented pregnancy?) .. usually i always use a condom and i'm very careful. is there a high chance that i might be pregnant? (link)
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You may be pregnant. And alchol does not prevent pregnancy but might effect your child in the womb if you are pregnant. I'd get yourself tested.
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16/F A few days ago I had sex with a family friend. It was my first time ever having sex- not that that matters. He has been a family friend since was like 4. I know it's not exactly right but we both like each other so much and have good chemistry. He really cares about him hurting me during sex and also regrets not waiting till I'm 18, but now that we've done it, we don't want to stop. The other night was amazing and we both want to keep this up but without anyone finding out. I don't want to end this one bit but in the back of my mind I'm afraid of getting caught. But all I can think about is enjoying myself. What should I do? (link)
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Its ok because if you both have liked eachother for a very long time there is no harm. And i wouldnt worry about people finding out about you 2 because its not like "he is Family" So they cant get mad at you for that its human
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If you're gay or bisexual, and have come out, how long was it from the time you started seriously questioning your sexuality to the time you started coming out to people?
Just out of curiosity. (link)
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It took me a year because people tell me it could be a fase but they said after a year or two they said if you still have those feelings more then likly you are and i relized i was and i said this is who i am and if people dont like it they dont have to like me so just come out when you feel ok beause if you are worried about what others will think thats the perfect time to find out who your true friends are
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I have been trying to lose weight for about a year. I have been eating the right things, tracking my food and exercise, seeing a personal trainer, and have had blood drawn. All the blood tests come back negative for diabetes, thyroid problems, anemia, and whatever else they test for for weight problems. It is so frustrating! And I don't understand why if i'm doing the right things the weight won't come off! (And I do mean that literally. 10 pounds loss in a year is NOT losing weight! Especially when I was working out and GAINED weight.) grrrrrrrrrr! Has anyone else had this problem before? (link)
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I weigh about ten pounds less and what my doctor told me it is possily my thyrode because that is one of the biggest things that controls weight loss and they said if there is something wrong with it you may not beable to lose weigh so sure enough it was and they want to fix it so ask your doctor
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Hi, I'm a 15 year old guy and have had some family issues over the past year which have caused massive tension within my family. As a result of this, my mother has sort of lost it and it angry at me all the time. I am a straight A studet at school, and have practically no free time because I do so many other activities that she has urged me to do. However, whenever I do something other than study or clean she yells at me. Our house is always extremely messy and she has made everything my job. I have to do hours worth of dishes (we have no dishwasher), clean the bathroom which is filthy within days of cleaning it, and feed all the pets. If I don't do this because I have no free time, she yells at me and prevents me from seeing my friends or girlfriend. I feel like I never have any time to relax or be with my friends, and Mum has unrealistic expectations of me. The family arguing has gotten to the point where the only thing I look forward to in life is moving out in a few years. What do I do? (link)
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I have the same problem because your parents know you are a teen and they don't want you thinking you can go wild now and they are saying they are the adults in the house and you will do as they say thats what that mean but just think 18 you are free thats what gets me through it
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for the past year or so, I have been shaving 'down there' and ever time i do i get really itchy and small red dots in that place. But after a while they go away? WHat is up? WHat are they? Im a virgin so I know it cant be an STD or something so what are they? Also whats better to use an electric shaver, or a razor ...ps im f/15 (link)
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First you can STD can be passed through anything nomatter if you have sex or not but i shave down there too and i used to get them but what you do to stop that is shave every time the hair starts grow back because you will get used to it and thats all it is. Its a sevsitive area gettig used to something new just do i say and everything will be ok i promise :) Razor
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I am 20/f he's 26/m. This guy really likes me and we've been on two dates. I mean he came all the way from the other side of town to see me. See i can't date really, i know that sounds ridiculous but i can't tell my parents so i have to meet him in secrecy. Well anyways he wants to make it work from what he's told me. And well it's not really the whole my parents finding out, it's more i wanted a boyfriend for so long, and i was really boy crazy, but now i am just not sure i want that right now. I want to just want to focus on myself. He gave me an ultimatum saying i should just tell my parents, lie to them, because he really wants to make it work, and i am just not sure. So what should i do? (link)
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I agree i wouldn't go with him becasue he is to despreat and that shows he is to immautre and is rushing into things to fast but from now on on a realationship come out with the truth and tell your parents.
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