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I dont feel the spark when i kiss my boyfriend....
Ok so My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months, when we had our first kiss i felt something i never felt before, im guessing that's the spark, So we just kissed like normal (not making out ) then after 2 months of dating we decided to start making out, every since we started making out i dont feel the spark .... Is this normal, I love kissing him and all but i havent kissed him normally for a month now :/ i havent felt the spark for a month, should i tell him or... Can i make there be a spark when we make out ?
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"true love is not about the hugs and kisses, the "i love yous" or the "i miss yous" but about the chills that hit every part of your spine when you think about each other."
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If you are not feeling "the spark" maybe its just not meant to be.. you dont want to stay in a relationship if you are not happy.. let him know how you feel maybe he is feeling the same way... best wishes to you and dont give up there is someone out there for you :)
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well if he makes you happy thats the real spark you don't need some kiss to make you feel something for him sometimes you don't always feel it but if you care for him and he cares for you thats all that matters
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Making out is diffrent then just kissing. Making out is taking a new step and you may think you like it but not haveing a spark may be saying you really don't really like it so a normal kiss to you may mean more
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Well there isn't always a "spark" when you kiss someone. Like the person below said, you just get more comfortable with them.
If you still like them and want to be with them then it's fine.
If you're saying you're losing feelings for him, then that's different and it's probably not because of the kissing. It's just the feelings for him.
So if you know how you feel about him then that should help you out.
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How do you feel about him? About your relationship with him? kissing aside. Do you feel comfortable and safe with him? Do you like spending time with him?
Quite frequently the initial massive spark of passion and excitement fades into sweet comfortability. Then you have to work at keeping it exciting.
This, specifically, is nothing to worry about if you're willing to try, the question is do you love him, do you want to be with him, do you feel happy with him?
Answer that question and you'll have your answer.
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If you aren't feeling the spark in your relationship then you should tell your boyfriend you just aren't feeling it anymore. Sometimes people loose feelings for another person and that is okay but you should really be upfront and honest about it instead of leading him on.
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