Well, I have a problem. I like this guy, but he recently broke up with his girlfriend like a week ago. And I want him to ask me out cuz he used to have a crush on me. And now, I like him. He says Im cute but nothing happens. He wanted to kiss me when he was dating her. But, the problem is that, she's one of my best friends. And he broke up with her but im scared to go out with him because I dont wanna hurt her feelings. And she still likes him, but she doesnt know that I like him.
lightoftruth923 answered Thursday June 23 2011, 2:06 am: Well I would wait awhile. If you do go out with him, it will hurt her feelings. Plus this girl is your best friend. It is your choice to go out with him and all but still, it's kinda a back stab move.
There is a chance you'd lose her as a friend. I'd always choose friends over the guy because friends are usually around longer than the guy is.
So it's all up to you. If you do decide to go out with him, make sure you wait awhile and that you tell your friend. [ lightoftruth923's advice column | Ask lightoftruth923 A Question ]
a13d answered Wednesday June 22 2011, 7:43 pm: Hey there(: I agree with the first person I would wait a while until you go out with him because your friend and this guy just broke up. I would go out with him though don;t let your friend hold you back he isn't hers anymore, he's free. I did this once like me and my fried liked the same guy and he went out with her first and I got soo mad at her but it didn't last long and we were back having sleepovers and things. Then they broke up and later on I went out with him she was mad blah blah then we were friends. So she may be mad at first but she'll get over it and eventualy start liking someone else. I would calmly tell her that you like him but you don't want him to come between your friendship, and see what she says. My main thing is go with your heart if you like him DEFINTLY go out with him, but I would wait awhile before you do. I hope I helped good luck(:
xoxo Madison [ a13d's advice column | Ask a13d A Question ]
alazaeedoll14 answered Wednesday June 22 2011, 4:42 pm: if they bearly broke up you shouldnt go out with him yet, because she still likes him and it would hurt her feelings. Also shes a BEST FRIEND of yours, would you be willing to lose her as a friend over this boy? [ alazaeedoll14's advice column | Ask alazaeedoll14 A Question ]
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