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is it wrong?
I'm a 13 yearold girl and I hear about people just a year older than me sucking guys dicks and having sex and stuff but I think that oral sex is disgusting. is that normal? I'm not a lesbian I just think that's gross. and should girls shave there down there hair? you all probably think "what is she talking about, she's 13?" but I want to no if I should. It would help if I got advice from girls and guys. and how old were you guys when you lost your virginity? any advice helps. Thanks (:
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Well I would never do that to because I would feel like a slut because my dad always used to tell me if you do that think about all those girls that got on there hands and knees giving guys oral sex in front of a camra those are the sluts that do it for money and he said you never want to feel like a slut so there is nothing wrong with it i promise
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- Yes its normal to think that at your age.
- Its the girls decision if she wants to shave down there or not. Its her vagina so she can do whatever she wants with it.
- I lost my virginity when I was 18. I'm still 18 haha. And you know what? i'm not ashamed of it. I'm not ashamed or embarassed that I waited so long :) I'm actually proud of myself because I know i'm smart and responsible, and I waited until it was with the guy i'm in love with. unlike other girls who have sex at 13 and don't even realize what could happen..
if you want my advice- wait until you're older. your brain doesn't fully devlop until you're 18 or 19.. you're not mature enough to have sex. Yes you are capable of having sex, but you have no clue what sex means.. its a special thing and its only for people who are mature enough to realize what could happen. Let me ask you this? Are you old enough to take care of your own baby?? No. You're in school. you have other things to worry about like acne and periods. Babies are the least of your worries so don't have sex until you're mature enough to have one.
To all children under the age of 16 and are having sex... i hope you have a baby and realize what a stupid mistake you made and learn your lesson. Karma.
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Yes, that's normal. You may change your mind when you're older, you may not. Plenty of people are still repulsed by the idea once they've lost their virginity. At 13 I don't think you should be 'sucking guys dicks' (as you so eloquently put it) anyway so it's not something you need to be worrying about right now.
What you do with your pubic hair is your personal choice and depends on what you feel comfortable with. Some women remove all their pubic hair by shaving, waxing or with a hair removal cream, some just trim, shave or wax certain areas to keep things neat and some just leave the whole thing au naturale. It's very much your decision. Don't do it because you think you should or because you think that's what a guy will want, do it because it's what YOU feel most comfortable with.
I was 16 when I lost my virginity and in hindsight I wish I'd waited a while longer. I did it because I just wanted to get it out of the way, which is is not a good enough reason. When other people lost it has absolutely nothing to do with when is right for you and you shouldn't feel pressured because 'everyone else is doing it' - they aren't. Do it when you feel 100% ready, both emotionally and practically (that means getting your contraception sorted BEFORE it happens) and preferably with someone you trust.
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First, at your age, a lot of false or highly exaggerated rumors get passed around. So don't believe anything you hear until you have verifiable proof beyond a friend telling you, "I know a guy who did this." Lotta blowhards out there seeking to bring attention to themselves with bullshit stories.
As far as your feelings about oral sex, that is pretty normal, When I was in junior high, the thought was disgusting to me, too. But As I got older I not only began doing it, I positively love it.
On the shaving issue, that is up to you. You should keep your pubic hair trimmed so it looks neat, but some guys like women to have hair and others like the vaginal area bald (I fall in the latter camp). Different strokes for different folks.
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I think it is disgusting to that is very normal you have your own opinion. And with shaving, it is your choice. Some girls do others dont. But shaving once in a while and or letting your bush get to big can make you feel very clean down there. And if it does get to big it sticks out of your bathing suit and its just a whole big mess down there.
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It's probably a good thing you think that's disgusting because you'll want to wait a little longer to lose your virginity. The longer you wait means you'll gain more life experience and you'll make smarter choices when it comes to guys. I fooled around and did stuff with other girls when I was 14 but I didn't lose my virginity to a guy until I was 16. If you want to keep your pubic hair trimmed, that's a personal choice. It's one you should make on your own and not let anyone else decide for you. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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alot of people find that oral sex is disgusting especially at your age thats why we have the power of choice so it is completely up to you but you should wait a couple of years before you start having sex, i lost my virginity when i was 17 and i started shaving down there as soon as i began to grow hair i find it to be more comfortable but once again that is entirely up to you and don't worry its completely normal to think about sex at this age but also your body is still developing so you should definately wait
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For the record: I'm a 26 year old girl :)
I'm gonna tell you the same things I told my little sister (who's now 19), or would have told her, had she asked the same questions you did.
- I'd say yes, it's normal; I felt the same way when I was your age.
- Shaving is entirely up to you (and don't believe anyone who tells you different!) I don't think you need to worry about it yet. However, I started shaving when I was a few years younger than you, because I was a competitive swimmer... it's really your choice. If you're comfortable with not shaving, then don't! Either way, be careful :)
- I was 16 1/2 when I lost my virginity. That probably sounds pretty old, but at the time, I was only the second girl in my group of friends (we're talking 20+ girls here) who'd had sex. I waited until I was ready, and until I was with someone I was comfortable with and trusted. I would've waited longer, if necessary!
Good luck, don't stress, and try not to care too much what other people think - it's what YOU think that matters.
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I think those are both normal
I started shaving when I started growing hair there.
I didn't really know anything sexual that young though really.
But I did lose my virginity when I was fifteen, it's only natural you are curious about these kind of things at your age. But really you only have one virginity so be careful not to regret your first time. I thought oral sex was disgusting for a long time. It is kind of gross but it's just something most people either ignore or get used to.
Sexual curiosity is part of adolescence and is perfectly normal.
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