My best guy friend and I were planning to go out after summer ended, but he just told me that he doesn't want to anymore. How do I get over him because everytime I see him I want to cry.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? dancedance42 answered Monday June 20 2011, 7:12 pm: I agree with the person below me...you really can't change the way he feels.
I kind of went through a similar thing. I was completely in love with this guy and he seemed to like me too, but then out of the blue he started dating some girl and they've been together for almost a year.
It was really hard at first, I was completely heartbroken. I thought my world was ending and I would die an old cat lady (not really, but it was bad). I was upset for a while, but then I realized it was stupid. First of all, everything happens for a reason, and if we are meant to be together it will happen one day. In the mean time, I occupied myself with other things, hung out with friends, and met new people. In fact, I found someone else who is more my type, and really likes me for me!
Don't worry about him- you'll find someone better. For now, enjoy who you are, enjoy being single, and enjoy your friends! Who knows, you might find someone you like even better!
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nikz answered Friday June 17 2011, 2:30 pm: he probably met someone else over the summer or he just feels that it would be weird considering he is your friend either way i doubt you can change his decision unless you want to speak to him about it, for now you have to cut off all contact with him which means texting, phonecalls and even seeing him for atleast two weeks this is not guaranteed that it will work but it would help a lot, if you really want to get over him all you can do is move on, as soon as you get that new guy trust me your feelings will go away in an instant
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