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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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She just won't get a clue!


Posted Thursday January 25 2007, 8:29 pm

Alright, there is this girl at school(Let'scall her Olivia), and she is REALLY REALLY annoying...if you walk faster than her, she;ll start saying in a whiny voice "Hey, wait, wait for me!" or something, and she cuses a lot, she flips people off, and one day, when I came into school late, she tried to hug me, but I was like 'I don't want to hug, but it's great to see you!' and then my friend calley came up and hugged me and I hugged her back. And yet Olivia honestly won't take a hint! Also, she;s one of those girls who won't stop doing something if you tell her to stop. Like, with another friend,Olivia wouldn't stop hitting her, now there is a place on me where you can hardly touch and it tickles and such. Well, she won't stop and...

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qutoes


Posted Thursday January 25 2007, 7:25 pm

okay so i hate how in my groups of my friends im the only one who has had a lot of bad things happen to me. and i just want a good quote to put in my profile saying something around these lines. you dont know anything about my life so stop judgeing me. you dont get why people cut themselves or try to kill themselves. or idk. really but something like that. please help

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16 Birthday Party


Posted Thursday January 25 2007, 7:22 pm

hey, I'm having my 16th birthday party soon and i need to know of some ideas of what to do at it. i have music and ddr, but i cant think of anything else. any ideas would be GREAT!
by the way, it will be at my house.
thanks
x0


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Real friends... old friends... ?Where do I come in??


Posted Thursday January 25 2007, 7:12 pm

My OLD best friend was the greatest for 3 years, or so I thought, I found out she lied and wasn't even my real friend for the first 2 years, and she does little things just to make herself feel better and me feel worse. This may seem kinda stupid and conseted but after being taken advantage of for 3 years it's a big thing/ But anyway, I realised she's really insecure, not that pretty or cool, and I'm MUCH prettier than her. SO after she told all these people lies about me I stoped being her friends, and made friends with my best friend in the world Meg, and we're so good together and we get along great but being friends with her and not my old friend has comprimised my friendships with a lot of my old friends. SO that makes me really sad, a...

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Talk to me


Posted Thursday January 25 2007, 6:03 pm

I really just need someone to talk to, my best friends mad at me and I sadly, have no one else to talk to. I'm under a world of stress. I don't know what to do.

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friends and doctors appointments


Posted Thursday January 25 2007, 3:49 pm

15/ female
a few months ago my friend (15/female)told me she was going to have sex with her boy friend(16 male) of like 5 months. I didnt think it was a good idea, since I thought he was kind of a jerk and a druggie. But I tried to berealy supportive and a good friend, and she promised to go to a doctor, but her mom is sorta verbally abusive, so shes worried the doctor will tell. Well I suggested she go to a teen clinic near her house, and she went but it wasnt open
well then she went ahead and had sex, but she said she wasnt going to do it again. and that shes on this new medication that says she shouldnt be sexually active
well she lied and told my friend four weeks later that they had sex again. So I brought it up, a...

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Caught between Married Couple


Posted Thursday January 25 2007, 3:39 pm

I asked a question regarding a married couple that I'm friends with a couple of months ago. I know the wife had cheated on the husband. Since, I've remained silent about the situation and vowed not to be in a position to witness that again. Well, the wife made a new friend recently and the girl has practically moved her & her two kids in with the couple & their 3 children. Anyways, his little girl pulled me aside after church last night wanting to talk to me and she was upset because the girl and her kids had practically moved in and taken over her bedroom. The couple's two boys are having to share a bed, and the friend is sleeping in the bed with the husband and wife. A friend of mine saw the friend & the husband at the grocery...

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right catagory? sorry.


Posted Thursday January 25 2007, 3:28 pm

Alright ive heard from my friends that one of my guy friends is gonna ask me out. I dont see him like that at all though, and i dont wanna go out with him but i feel so bad turning him down cause hes really nice and i dont want him to be mad at me for it. How can i let him down easy?

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Posted Thursday January 25 2007, 5:49 am

After 3 years in a relationship (2 of these living together), my boyfriend and I (we are 21 y.o.) broke up on good terms. I initiated the break up. We had been best friends for over 5 years at the time of break up but we agreed the relationship was not working and we were better off just as friends again. He said he still loved me and that he couldn't live without me in his life. I felt the same and we said we would try our best to maintain a friendship. He had no other good friends and neither did I.

For a couple of months we seemed to remain friends, but he became distant, making excuses not to see me and avoiding my calls, though denying he had found someone else (he is not the type to move on quickly, so I believe this is...

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hopeless friendship?


Posted Wednesday January 24 2007, 11:33 pm

16/f
Me and my friend, lets call him chester, always fight. Like we are in fights every other week, or last year we where. The last time we had gotten into a fight was in august.

We are yet again in another fight. I dont think he cares about our friendship. I talked to him the other day and told him what was bothering me and all. Then he said he had to go.

The next day i asked him where that left us? if we where friends, not friends, or whatever. And he said "idk i dont have answers only ears"

I really dont know if i want to try to be friends anymore.

Im the one who always tries to fix our fights, im the one who starts to talk to him. It just feels like he does...

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Best Guy Friend.


Posted Wednesday January 24 2007, 11:28 pm

My best guy friend usually helps me through everything, he seems to understand and listen. But recently he hasn't seemed to care about me as much. He used to call a few times a week and ask how I was doing, and if I had a problem we'd talk it through.

It's been 11 days and he hasn't called once. I feel like he really doesn't care about me anymore. Today he helped me with a problem but only because I told him I had one, and I felt like he felt he HAD to help me. I only see him on the bus to school, and I never ask about it. I don't know, I've tried talking to him about the not caring thing and he says, "How am I supposed to know you have a problem if you don't tell me?" I mean yes, that is understandable, but he used...

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Best Friends For Never? :[


Posted Wednesday January 24 2007, 10:46 pm

I've been friends with this girl[emma] ever since we were 5. We have always been super close & we told eachother everything. She has been ignoring me lately & shes been rude. Like for example: Her 13th birthday was the 21st of Jan. and she didn't invite me. We had even talked about what she was doing for her birthday. So when her mom called earlier to talk to my mom she said that she didn't invite me because i would've felt left out with emma's school friends. Her school friends are really good friends with me though.


Ugh it makes me mad & even sad. I cried about it once or twice & i cant get over it. How can she just turn on me like that?

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I lost my best friend forever...


Posted Wednesday January 24 2007, 7:59 pm

He's one of my best friends and I love him so much. (as a friend) but ive secretly liked him the whole time and i can tell he's liked me back. =) but then today at school i heard from my friends that he was absent all week and it wasnt because he was sick. and he wasnt skipping either. he left. he left the school and transferred. i found out this morning and later today at recess i was crying so much i made a huge scene because i wont see him again. this happened with one of my other best friends. we lost touch because he left the school and nowhe just laughs at me and i dont wanna face that with someone i like even more. hes the SWEETEST guy ive ever met and he was always there for me. i need him by my side. i dont know what to do! i cant ...

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what should i do


Posted Wednesday January 24 2007, 6:28 pm

my friend's dad is really abusive + she only trusted a few people to know. one of those people spilled the beans and told the school. she said she's being called down to the office alot to be quesioned. 5 times in two days. she said their guhna ask anyone whos been to her house how her dad acts i dont wanna be the reason she gets removed from her house, even though i know shes in a bad sitch + she already told them about how he's abusive. what should i say?

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Between a rock and a hard place.


Posted Wednesday January 24 2007, 6:27 pm

(14, female)
My past boyfriend and I broke up about three
weeks ago after he cheated on me with the girl
I already disliked. After the breakup, I became
good friends with my old boyfriend, Michael.
My best friend, Annie, had a huge drinking
problem last year, and got to the point where
she had 30 minutes to live after alcohol
poisining. After about 9 months of trying
to change her around, she broke our trust and
drank again.

So to get me through the problems, Michael and
I became best friends again. At one point I
totally fell for him when I realized how great
he was. But I'm having such a hard time trusting
people after my lates...

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My friend is forgetting us all


Posted Wednesday January 24 2007, 12:52 pm

All right, my friend and her boyfriend (they're both 16) have been going out for about 8 months now, and neither I nor my friends have seen much of her at all. Honestly, we get to talk to her for more than 5 minutes about once every couple weeks, and it's really getting us all down. We've tried talking to her, but it's practically impossible because she gets defensive and then drags us into an argument, instead of talking and understanding. I understand that now she's got a boyfriend who she cares about we're not going to see as much of her, but it's been taken to an extreme.

I just really don't know what to do about it. I'm really close to her, and it's getting me and my friends down. We don't want to lose her, but it's frustrating that she's dropped us for a boy.

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What's his problem?


Posted Tuesday January 23 2007, 6:23 pm

Last year, I was best friends with this kid, Michael. Since August, he's only said maybe five words to me. PLUS he lied to me during that time and it's not just one of those little lies. He posted a bulletin on myspace that was something like, "UGH! I HATE MY MOM. JUST CAUSE I HAVE FRIENDS THAT ARE OLDER THAN ME DOESN'T MEAN I CAN'T HANG OUT WITH THEM! IT DOESN'T F***ING MATTER IF I SMOKE!" A week after that he called me and said, "God, I can't believe she broke up with me. I hate her!!!! I DON'T EFFING SMOKE," and I said, "I know, I know." Now I'm pretty sure he lied to me cause I read his comment on his friend's myspace and it said, "So you got some "candy" for friday," which might mean it...

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USER uSeR....HELP ME!


Posted Tuesday January 23 2007, 6:13 pm

Theres this girl and her mum and they come by our house when they need help with money, food, babysitting,etc. I don't mind but recently it's been often and they only come when they need help.

Today she came and asked us to keep her daughter..and I told mom enough is enough and not to keep her (she as=lso bothers me ALOT). And she owes us $240.

Should I change my mind/

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trust?


Posted Tuesday January 23 2007, 6:11 pm

Ok, well i have a friend who likes this guy. Two of my other friends were trying to get that guy to guess who liked him because they already knew. Well the girl who likes the guy (we can call her shelby) the guys name ( we can call him max). My two other friends named (cassie and katie) were talking to eachother about how shelby liked max. Well this guy came up to me and said "do you know who likes max?" i knew but i wasn't going to tell him. i said "yeah but i am not going to tell." He begged and begged and begged and i finally said "Joe i am not telling you!" Then he asked "Is it shelby?" I just looked down at my work and he said "It is is'nt it?" I still didnt say anything. Then he finall...

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shes my friend shes also gay only i know


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 10:21 pm

my friend was over my house she acts like a stud we switched cell phones for 2 day during them 2 day i got over 15 messages from her girlfriend saying stuff i dont even want to mention should i ask her is she gay or play like i dont know


sinceraly "cluless"

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