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USER uSeR....HELP ME!
Theres this girl and her mum and they come by our house when they need help with money, food, babysitting,etc. I don't mind but recently it's been often and they only come when they need help.
Today she came and asked us to keep her daughter..and I told mom enough is enough and not to keep her (she as=lso bothers me ALOT). And she owes us $240.
Should I change my mind/
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It does sound like they're taking advantage of you guys but maybe you're the only people they can turn to. What are they going through? Maybe they're very embarresed but they don't say anything and just keep coming. I would talk to your mom and tell her how much these people are hurting the both of you. Tell her that she really has to talk to these people and I'm sure she'll understand. If not I would take it upon yourself and talk to them nicely about thir situation. Although, I'm sure your mom will be understanding. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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This is the time where they need you most, but it sounds to me like they only come for help and stay away whenever given the chance. Not so friendly! Why can't they just ask a relative or friends? But be there for them because if you ever have a problem they will come through for you! Life has its rewards and God will reward you someday. So this decision is really all up to you but my opinion is to keep helping out. Good luck and hope i helped! <3
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hey, well it depends if this person is close to you or not. if not then i would sit down and have a talk with her. let her know that yes, you will take her daughter but that this needs to be occuring less. so yes, i would change your mind FOR THIS ONE TIME ONLY. let her know that your serious about her coming around for help all the time and that it needs to stop. be firm about it. but let her know that its okay if she needs something sometimes. actually i changed my mind. do that even if she is close to you. because she cant rely on you for everything. it may be harsh, but its just reality.
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My uncle owes my family somewhere arond 5,000-7,000 dollars
it bothers me ALOT
and theres noting you can really do to change your mind that quickly and i can see how it would bother you i would just talk to ur mom about it and get her side of things first before you jump to conclusions and change your mind.
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