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trust?
Ok, well i have a friend who likes this guy. Two of my other friends were trying to get that guy to guess who liked him because they already knew. Well the girl who likes the guy (we can call her shelby) the guys name ( we can call him max). My two other friends named (cassie and katie) were talking to eachother about how shelby liked max. Well this guy came up to me and said "do you know who likes max?" i knew but i wasn't going to tell him. i said "yeah but i am not going to tell." He begged and begged and begged and i finally said "Joe i am not telling you!" Then he asked "Is it shelby?" I just looked down at my work and he said "It is is'nt it?" I still didnt say anything. Then he finally said "dont worry i wont tell anybody." I said "ok dont tell anybody and keep it a secret. Then shelby found out that i told him and was really mad at me and cassie becasuse when cassie was talking to katie about it she accidentaly slipped and said shelby's name so shelby forgave cassie because she knew it was an accident but she thinks i told joe but actually he guessed it and i know that i should of not gave it away but o well it's to late now. But i wrote her a letter telling her what happened and i dont know if she is mad at me or not. I know she thinks i should of said no when joe said shelbys name but i didnt really think. Sheould i be the one who she is mad at or did i do anything wrong? I dont know if i am the bad person in the situation or good. Please help!
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Hey. Well you're definitely not the "bad person" in a situation like this that is so silly. But, when you told Shelby this she probably felt hurt that she couldn't trust you. That kind of stinks that she forgave your other friends but what you have to do is gain back her trust. Try talking to her again or making her something that shows how sorry you are. I know that probably sounds really corney but it might work, hey everyone likes when people makes things for them. I wouldn't say though, well... cassie and katie told too because that will just look like you're trying to get them on her bad side too (as if you didn't know this). I really hope this helped and good luck she'll forgive you soon, you can't get this mad over a silly crush forever =)
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hey, alright so i would be mad at you too. its only common sense to tell the person no even if they guess it. i know you might not have been thinking, but it was a really bad thing to do. you know probably lost shelbys trust. you need to gain it back. explain to her the situation once more. you need to ask her what you can do to gain her trust back.
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did he freak out when he found out?
nope.
Was he happy?
i don't know. was he? if he was, that probably means that he likes her, which was doing Shelby a huge favor.
if she stays mad at you, tell her to go to anger management. just kidding .. that would piss her off more. she shouldn't be mad at you .. or anyone else. she needs to just chill and no, you didn't do anything wrong. you had no clue he was gonna guess her and you didn't want to say the wrong thing.
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