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Alright ive heard from my friends that one of my guy friends is gonna ask me out. I dont see him like that at all though, and i dont wanna go out with him but i feel so bad turning him down cause hes really nice and i dont want him to be mad at me for it. How can i let him down easy?
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Hey. I would tell him that you really want to be friends with him but you feel that if you go out it will ruin your relationship. This will probably make him feel better and less hurt but I wouldn't do anything until it happens. Just be really nice to him (as I'm sure you already know) and stay friends. He will probably appreciate that you value his friendship. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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This sounds stupid but agree to go on a date and see if you like him!
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Wow, this is a toughy!
Don't worry, it's okay to see him differently than he sees you, I doubt he'll be angry with you. He might be alittle upset though.
When he asks you out just tell him that you think he's a great guy, but you don't see him like that, and you just dont think it would work out between the two of you. But remember, he had to work up the courage to ask you out, so when you tell him your answer make sure you take his feelings into concideration, and let him down gently. Hes going into this expecting the best preparing for the worst, he'll deal with it. But remember to try and have things planned to talk about next time you're alone with him, so it isnt awkward.
Good luck, I hope I helped.
Love,
angie91
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Tell him you don't want a relationship right now, or, you thing a relationship will ruin your friendship, and you don't want that. :)
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