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What's his problem?
Last year, I was best friends with this kid, Michael. Since August, he's only said maybe five words to me. PLUS he lied to me during that time and it's not just one of those little lies. He posted a bulletin on myspace that was something like, "UGH! I HATE MY MOM. JUST CAUSE I HAVE FRIENDS THAT ARE OLDER THAN ME DOESN'T MEAN I CAN'T HANG OUT WITH THEM! IT DOESN'T F***ING MATTER IF I SMOKE!" A week after that he called me and said, "God, I can't believe she broke up with me. I hate her!!!! I DON'T EFFING SMOKE," and I said, "I know, I know." Now I'm pretty sure he lied to me cause I read his comment on his friend's myspace and it said, "So you got some "candy" for friday," which might mean it's more than just smoking. Anyways, I have an elective with him (PA) and he's been staring at me. (Last year, he liked me but he'd always deny it when my friends would ask him. But one of my friend, his best friend, told me that he did. Plus -- he basically asked me out once or was implying that he wanted to go to the movies with me.) He has a girlfriend though, so I'm not screwing up their relationship. Today he looked like he was waiting for someone and as soon as I walked out, he followed me and was making some weird sound trying to get me to look at him. Last year when he liked me, he did things like this. I'm still mad at him and he knows it, so why won't he just talk to me or at least apologize? And what's with him staring at me and stuff?
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he needs to grow up. I've had friends like that before and i just disconnected from them because people like that arent friends and afterwards i was alot happier. he obviously doesnt value you that much as a friends or that much else either. He probably is attracted to you but that doesnt make him a friend either. yeah he probably does do drugs as well id just leave him alone because he wont change unless he wants to. i think you should reconsider your so called friendship with him. your better off without him. and in a few years you proably wont even see him.
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hey, well if you said that stareing is what he did when he liked you last year then he probably likes you again. maybe hes just shy to confront you. he is probably afraid that you will a) still be mad at him, b) ignore him like hes not there, or c) have no interest in him because he lied to you. he is probably secretly wishing that you would confront him first. if you dont want to do it in person use AIM or the phone. i would do it.
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He probably still does like you, so that's he stares at you. Well, he knows you're mad at him, so he's probably hesitant to talk to you because he might think you're gonna bite his head off. Or maybe he's too shy to do it.
Confront him.
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