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Best Friends For Never? :[
I've been friends with this girl[emma] ever since we were 5. We have always been super close & we told eachother everything. She has been ignoring me lately & shes been rude. Like for example: Her 13th birthday was the 21st of Jan. and she didn't invite me. We had even talked about what she was doing for her birthday. So when her mom called earlier to talk to my mom she said that she didn't invite me because i would've felt left out with emma's school friends. Her school friends are really good friends with me though.
Ugh it makes me mad & even sad. I cried about it once or twice & i cant get over it. How can she just turn on me like that?
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That's a long time to be friends with someone, so it's cool that you've had a really long friendship.
People change, though. Especially girls. You guys are teenagers, it's normal to drift away from your friends sometimes. Or maybe she's going through a bitchy stage. Most girls do that & totally ditch their best friends to go hang out with other people who aren't going to be there for them like their best friends are.
Talk to her about it & tell her that she's hurting your feelings. Ask her if it's something you did, or if one of the girls doesn't like you.
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people do it all the time. but if she really cared shed treat you better. if your good friends with her friends then what her mom said was just some made up excuse and if shes your best friend there would be no reason for you to be left out. i think you need to have less to do with her because negative people only bring you down and its really not worth the happiness. some friends come and go and youll have plenty of chances to make new ones. there is an abundance of diffrent people out there to meet.somethings arent meant to be and things change constantly. if you want you can confront her about it but if this persists id say move on.
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Wow, that's a long time to be friends with. Good friends that are royal and true to each other is hard to find...rahter yet having at least one is uber fantabulous.
The old saying: people change. Girls, esp teenagers with hormones...we're changing constantly and getting influenced by others who are not as important as the factor they're influencing.
She may be developing new interests that might bore you or not relate to you at all. Maybe she wants to hang out with those girls because they seem cool to her in one way or another. Or like the person below me said, one of the girls or the whole group of girls might be influencing her choices towards you.
Just talk to your friend and tell her how much you're hurting her and you want to know if it's something you did, if she's just losing interest in the friendship, or if it's becasue of one of the girls. Tell her that you won't be mad as long as she tells the truth (no matter how brutal it may be)
good luck =]
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Well theres two reason either she thinks you did something to her or one of her friends doesnt like you and shes influening emmas decision either way I think you should talk to her about it and find out the real reason
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