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Gosh...i think im attracted to him
Posted Tuesday October 11 2011, 11:16 am
a couple of days ago, a friend of a friend sent me a message on facebook. I expected another inaporiate 'whats up ma?" or "hey you look good". Instead i got a shy greeting from Brian. Ive seen him around before though we've never held a conversation. Well sooon enough we started talking some more as friends and we say hi in person now.
i get butterflies everytime i see him..could this be atrraction..??
i havent felt this way in a whilr...
help?
16/f/junior 17/m/senior
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Normal to resent that he makes me feel responsible for his happiness?
Posted Tuesday October 11 2011, 10:14 am
I am with a wonderful man whom I love very much. We are in a long-distance relationship but he is endlessly sweet, thoughtful, and loving to me. We talk every day on Skype. In most ways I feel I could not ask for a better man. But. He has been hurt by many women in the past, and he's told me many times about how for 20 years he put a wall around his heart and did not love anyone, nor allow anyone to love him, for fear of getting hurt again. He tells me that he was miserable before I came along. He also says that if I were ever to leave him, he would put the wall back up around his heart, would be miserable again, and would not even try to love anyone else for the rest of his life. (He is 50, so this is conceivable, and knowing him, I believ...
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I don't know what to do?!?!?!
Posted Monday October 10 2011, 6:19 pm
15/f
Well......There is this guy me and him are Best Friends even after we went out. He is a year younger than me but we diceied to give it a shot. We went out for like a week we wouldnt do anything like hold hands or kiss that kind of stuff because my cousis were down and they were ALWAYS around us. When we were going out I aksed why he liked me and he said the sweetest thing "I liked you the very frist day i meet you" That was sweet. But now he is going out with this girl a year younger than him and im mad because he said the only reason he is going out with her is becuase she will 'put out'. The only reason we didnt do anything was because of my family it isnt my fault.
So....my question is How do I deal w...
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am i bi?
Posted Monday October 10 2011, 3:34 pm
so there was this girl that i kinda had a crush on. shes trans. and people bash on both of us almost everyday. im a pretty girl and eveything. boys like me and everything.
but i feel so confused, please help...
i tryed to take my life the other day. because the mean things people were saying, were honestly making me wana die..
:/
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Is it the time?
Posted Monday October 10 2011, 1:47 pm
This thought has been bothering me alot lately.First,I'm 13/f.But I'm in a relationship with one of my best friend's who've i've known for a long time.He's 16/m.I really love him,and he says he loves me to death,but sometimes it doesn't feel like he does.I'm not a posessive gf,but sometimes he goes for weeks without talking,or visiting me.And when I visit him,or talk to him,he says he's been busy,but he missed me.We recently broke up,because I thought we were better off friends.But he told me that girls would sext him pics of themselves,even when we were dating.He acted like it wasn't a big deal,but for me it was.So when I had a fit,he told me he would delete them,but I didn't feel he was telling me the truth.Now,we're back together,because...
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Getting back out there..
Posted Monday October 10 2011, 9:56 am
So I am a girl 18,
I am out of school and just sit around nowadays, well you see when I turned 15 I dated this guy T for a year I broke up with him on my 16th birthday and a few days after started dating my best friend S well, S and I dated for a year as well, I stayed single after he dumped me for a long time, hoping he'd get back with me, I realized I was an idiot haha, well after about 5 months of being single I met this guy M he was great, he was my dream guy, well I stayed single for about 2 more months until I was certain I wanted to date M, well M and I dated for about 3 months basically he had sex with me and dumped me the same day I found out he had been cheating, you know, your basic brand of Jerk. Well I've been single for...
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My friend wont leave the guy i like alone :(
Posted Monday October 10 2011, 2:24 am
My friends little sister is 15 i look at her as my sister, she is obseced about this 20 year old guy. He thinks shes cute and all but doesnt want anything with a 15 year old. For the past few weeks me and this guy have been talking and hanging out, we both like eachother. Niether of us want to hurt her, but she wont leave him alone it effects us on moving in to a relationship. I have thought about trying to interduce he to other guys, is that a good idea? what do I do if it doesnt work? All I want is to date the guy without all the drama.
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Does making out mean you're leading to more?
Posted Monday October 10 2011, 1:13 am
17/f
So I have this new boyfriend and things are great.
I was talking to my guy friend who I was sorta involved with before and we got into this argument because he hates the fact that I have a new boyfriend and stuff. It got to the point where he was telling me he cares about me more than any guy I date. This guy always pushed me to do more with him all the time, but I never wanted to have sex. I always told him that making out is as far as I'd go.
Well then he was like, "It's not my fault about everything that happened. You shouldn't have lead me on by making out with me."
I'm wondering if that's true that making out with a guy means that eventually there's gonna be more.
Like,...
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don't know what to do now
Posted Monday October 10 2011, 12:25 am
so there was this guy i liked for two years (freshman and sophomore year) and then i stopped liking him whenever he got a girlfriend junior year. we were friends before i started liking him. then he found out my feelings for him and avoided me completely. but starting last year after him and his girlfriend broke up, he stared to warm up a little more to me. giving me his number and even wished me happy birthday. at the beginning of my senior year i said i didn't want a boyfriend because i had no time to keep one because i was so busy and i said i was over my crush and just wanted a friendship with him. but now my crush came back all tan, really cute, and a new and improved muscular body and i can't help but ogle him. and now he's starting t...
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Long distance relationship
Posted Sunday October 9 2011, 10:07 pm
Is anyone on here in a LDR? I'm with this guy that I really like but I'm going across the country for college and just wanted other peoples opinions on it.
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how long do hickeys last
Posted Sunday October 9 2011, 9:53 pm
how long does a hickey last
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What to talk about with my boyfriend?
Posted Sunday October 9 2011, 7:30 pm
Hey everyone(: 14/female so anyway I have a boyfriend who i love very much!(: and I tex him every other day just so i can space things out so i can have something to talk about. Now tho when we text a lot of it is just yas and yupps and hehes and thats all, I dont really know what to talk about anymore, So I need some ideas on what to talk about! and also he is always calling me sexy and beautiful stuff like that but I dont know what to call him haha! sometimes ill put baby or babe then before i send the message I erase it because i feel like what if he thinks im stupid i dont know why but, ya so if you have any ideas on what to talk about then i would love that, and good names too! -Thanks(:
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What's the best way to initiate?
Posted Sunday October 9 2011, 7:07 pm
As a guy, sometimes I have trouble initiating sex, but mainly when asking for something only for myself.
My girlfriend has no trouble with oral sex, she isn't grossed out by it, and she says she likes making me feel good. We've been together for a year, and normally she has to initiate this.
We have slightly different libidos, so there are times she'd rather give oral than have full on sex with me, or during her period.
Sometimes I end up feeling selfish when it's only me getting pleasured and she isn't in the mood for it, which is one reason why I have trouble asking her for it. People have said "just be direct and ask," but there is literally no romance in that.
Is the...
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confused about what to do
Posted Sunday October 9 2011, 6:39 pm
19/f
I am so confused on what to think or what to do. I recently got out of a 13 month relationship. Him and I have had a lot of fights in the past and this time it was bad. he broke up with me, then regretted it and wanted to take me back, but i said no because i was just fed up with all of the drama and fights. Then a few weeks later I meet this other guy named Kent. well kent and I had a great time together. we both go to the same college so we usually just hung out in each other dorms and watched movies. Then we started liking each other more than friends and decided to have a thing. we wanted to make it official but i didn't want people to think i was moving on so fast or i was just using him as a rebound (which is not t...
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DReaming about him! while dating someone else
Posted Sunday October 9 2011, 4:03 pm
I am dating this guy, we'll call him daniel. we have been dating now for a little over a month and everything has been great his sweet and awesome to be around.
Now i use to have my best guy friend, we'll call him jackson. either way we were very close and i had the biggest crush on him untill he moved away four months ago, we didnt date but i never felt that strongly for another person soo.
And lately i have been having many dreams and thoughts about jackson. even while im with daniel. I feel guilty, very guilty. i dont know what this means,or what to do. I need some help, any advice
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i think i like him but i dont know what to do about it
Posted Sunday October 9 2011, 3:23 pm
This year, I'm a freshman in hs and I decided last minute to do band. Because this year, we are eligible to make state, there is alot riding on us, especially the freshman. This one senior (who also plays the clarinet) skipped August camp and started coming when school started. At first, he didn't really care until he got a primary spot. After that, he started acting like our section leader (the reason why he isn't is a long story). For our contest yesterday, we didn't have a very strong preliminary performance and nobody seemed to be too upset except for him. On the way home, I sat next to him and we talked about band and I learned alot of secrets about band. He said many inspiring things even stuff that the leadership team at our s...
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Face to face I think he likes me, but...
Posted Sunday October 9 2011, 2:47 pm
I've known this guy named Kyle (age 17) for almost three years, and I've liked him for two. He seems like the sweetest guy in the world. He flirts with me, just the other day we were standing in the school parking lot dancing to my radio, and when we text we play silly games, like texting haha, hehe, and Lol repeatedly, and we tease each other, and he says he loves me all the time... but everytime I go on facebook, I see him seeming to flirt with two other girls, one of them being my best friend. He swears he doesn't like them, but he does like someone, and I told him I liked him and all he did was grab me and hug me... My best friend swears he likes me, but I think he might just be a total flirt... I also asked him to the homecoming dance,...
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Is it normal that my boyfriend got turned on by a cartoon?
Posted Sunday October 9 2011, 1:53 pm
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 yrs we've been through a lot including dealing with Erctile Dsynfunction for him at 21 years old. He was addicted to porn and at first it wasnt a problem but he got ED and it became a problem he seeked a urulogist and they said nothing was wrong with him physically that we should probably seek help for porn addiction. I installed a filter in his computer and since then everything was fine sure. I became jealous and paranoid after that about what turned him on. Anyway yesterday we had sex and after sex he usually can't get hard he calms down. We started watching a little kids cartoon The Avatar google it if you dont know and there was a part where the little girl about 12 years old i'd say was d...
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What have I done wrong
Posted Sunday October 9 2011, 1:08 pm
Have recently been dumped by my 50 year old girl friend and she will not tell me the truth why. Naturally I am devastated.
She had accepted my ring, money to save her home etc etc. We never ever met but I was completely honest as she was ? And had been for over 8 months. She still writes, says she wants and needs me in her life but it is very difficult. She is married but very unhappy. I am deeply in love with her and was prepared to buy us outright a home put it in her name and care for her all my life. I am 8 years older than her, retired and well off never having to worry over money. Have I over dine it? Sent too much Money $ 25000 or what. She was my last chance of true happiness. Please no talk of loads more out there. It took me 25 years to find her.
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Would a guy date a girl with acne?
Posted Sunday October 9 2011, 8:26 am
Would a guy have a girl with kind of bad acne? I have been having acne since elemetary school, and it never goes away. I've tried dermatologist and eveything and the doctors say that the medicine I use gets used to my face and the acne comes back. Sometimes my pimples get really big and I feel like my face is disgusting with scars and zits and then my face clears up and gets worse again. I think I have cystic acne. There are a few guys that have liked me, but I never talked to them because I think they may think my face is disgusting. And there has been guys that have made fun of me and have just been rude to me and call me zit face since elementary, so when a guy tells me he likes me, I just don't believe him. Would a guy date a girl with kind of bad acne?
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