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What to talk about with my boyfriend?
Hey everyone(: 14/female so anyway I have a boyfriend who i love very much!(: and I tex him every other day just so i can space things out so i can have something to talk about. Now tho when we text a lot of it is just yas and yupps and hehes and thats all, I dont really know what to talk about anymore, So I need some ideas on what to talk about! and also he is always calling me sexy and beautiful stuff like that but I dont know what to call him haha! sometimes ill put baby or babe then before i send the message I erase it because i feel like what if he thinks im stupid i dont know why but, ya so if you have any ideas on what to talk about then i would love that, and good names too! -Thanks(:
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Heyy,
okay so i had this problem with my ex.
I would talk about any passions of yours-or any possible career you want to go into when your older.
This will show that you are mature, and he'll respect you. Plus, it means he can answer back about his plans for the future, and you'll get closer. Also guys love girls who are passionate about things. As for names, hun ?
This is quite cute and worked for me. What I find helps too when i'm sending rather blush worthy texts is (and this works) to send it quickly, and leave your phone somewhere and go and distarct yourself with something else. (like tv) then come back to your phone when your sure hes replied-cos then its like its taken time for everything to sink in.
Good luck :)
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First of all you will be pleased to know I am not going to patronize you. I am 20/F and remember having a boyfriend or two when I was 14.
You can ask him how his classes were that day, his strong subjects and weaker ones. Try and learn a little about football, his team or whatever sport he likes, guys love it when girls actually understand their likes and dislikes for example my boyfriend loves WWE wrestling and I did a little research and until I confessed I hadn't seen a single match or show before I met him he had no idea!
As for names if he is calling you 'sexy' and 'beautiful' feel free to do it back but maybe swap 'beautiful' for 'gorgeous'. Either way I am sure he'll tell you if there is a name he doesn't like that you use.
A name I tend to use alot is 'honey' mainly because my boyfriend started it and it got stuck in my head. I tend to use 'love' or 'dear' when I am being sarcastic or my patience is wearing thin haha.
Hope this helps.
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First, you're 14. You don't have a lot of life experience or knowledge yet, so of course you don't have much to talk about.
My advice? Relax and just enjoy each other's company. You also don't have to text him and he doesn't you. You being with him is enough.
Here's something they won't teach you in school, too: men aren't verbal. We get socially rewarded doing stuff, especially if aggression is involved, not constantly yapping like girls do. So if he doesn't say much it isn't because he isn't interested in you. It's because he has been raised to be strong and uncomplaining. Let his actions speak and don't expect a guy to be your personal entertainer.
Also, keep things simple. Don't overthink things.
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