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I don't know what to do?!?!?!
15/f
Well......There is this guy me and him are Best Friends even after we went out. He is a year younger than me but we diceied to give it a shot. We went out for like a week we wouldnt do anything like hold hands or kiss that kind of stuff because my cousis were down and they were ALWAYS around us. When we were going out I aksed why he liked me and he said the sweetest thing "I liked you the very frist day i meet you" That was sweet. But now he is going out with this girl a year younger than him and im mad because he said the only reason he is going out with her is becuase she will 'put out'. The only reason we didnt do anything was because of my family it isnt my fault.
So....my question is How do I deal with this i really like him.....and i wanna go back out with him but he is goin out with a girl 2 younger than me and 1 year younger than him.
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This is not going to be what you want to hear, but I'm going to tell you why everyone (including me) has the same feelings on this issue.
I'm going to repeat what everyone else said. I know that this guy is your friend and you have a huge crush on him, but he really doesn't seem to be worth, for a few reasons. Let me spell them out for you:
# 1 - He expected you to put out after a week and broke up with because you weren't, I am 5 years older than you and my youngest boyfriend (and current) is 7 years older than you are, the oldest boyfriend I have had is 12 years older than you are. None of them expect for girls to put out to them after a week, in fact they were decent enough to wait until the girl was ready.
# 2 - It sounds like he's using the girl that he's dating right now for sex. At thirteen, you are still very naive when it comes to things like this, in fact at fifteen you are as well. If a guy is using his current girlfriend that's a good indication that he's going to use you.
This guy made it clear to you, he just wants sex and even if he didn't he has a girlfriend.... I hate to tell you this because I'm sure that it would have irritated me to hear this at fifteen as well, but it means that you back off.
P.S. There are several guys out there more worthy of your time, just don't 'put out' quickly to them. You will be much happier if you date them for a while, before having sex.
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Your 15, you don't need to be 'putting out' at that age. Guys who are looking just for that at 14, are clearly heading down the road for some disasters and heartbreaks.
Walk away before it's too late, you clearly have more self respect than a 13 year old who is going to sleep around.
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You are 15, you do not need to be. "putting out"
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