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Gosh...i think im attracted to him
a couple of days ago, a friend of a friend sent me a message on facebook. I expected another inaporiate 'whats up ma?" or "hey you look good". Instead i got a shy greeting from Brian. Ive seen him around before though we've never held a conversation. Well sooon enough we started talking some more as friends and we say hi in person now.
i get butterflies everytime i see him..could this be atrraction..??
i havent felt this way in a whilr...
help?
16/f/junior 17/m/senior
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I think that it might be an attraction because having butterflies in your stomach is just a beautiful way of feeling for someone. I think you should be friends with him and see what you guys have in common and see if you actually like him. You do not only want to be physically attracted to him and not care about his personality. You should hang out and try to see if your friendship could go somewhere. I know that I had an experience that I had a crush on an older guy and I had butterflies in my stomach, but it was infatuation that I had felt.Hope this helps!
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Getting butterflies is definitely a sure sign that you like someone. Although I would suggest that you talk to him a lot more before you pursue him.
Instead of just saying hi, try to bring up a conversation with him. Is there anything on his facebook that the two of you are both interested in, does he play a sport? You could maybe talk to him about that.
I'm a bit older than you and I make sure that before I decide that I like a guy that I talk to him. Just because he's cute doesn't always mean that I'm going to like his personality, or that our personalities aren't going to clash.
Good luck!
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