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don't know what to do now
so there was this guy i liked for two years (freshman and sophomore year) and then i stopped liking him whenever he got a girlfriend junior year. we were friends before i started liking him. then he found out my feelings for him and avoided me completely. but starting last year after him and his girlfriend broke up, he stared to warm up a little more to me. giving me his number and even wished me happy birthday. at the beginning of my senior year i said i didn't want a boyfriend because i had no time to keep one because i was so busy and i said i was over my crush and just wanted a friendship with him. but now my crush came back all tan, really cute, and a new and improved muscular body and i can't help but ogle him. and now he's starting to be more of a friend to me like joking around with me and talking to me and i won't admit this to any of my friends but it's hard for me to not like him when our friendship is going back to the way it was freshman year. i missed my friendship with him whenever he avoided me and i'm happy to have it back but at the same time, i feel like i'm getting those feelings back for him and i don't want that because 1. i'm afraid that i won't give him the time he wants 2. he just thinks of me as a friend 3. i would actually want to tell him about my feelings for him and try to make it work but then he might go back to avoiding me and i really don't want that. what do i do about this? please help. what do i do about this situation with him i'm sorry this is so long but i really needed to say all of this.
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First make sure that you are really interested in this guy. I agree with the other responder to this question, if he avoided you because he found out that you have feelings for him he may not be worth it. However we don't know him, so we could be completely wrong as to what happened. It could be that one of his girlfriends knew that you had feelings for him, and got jealous, and told him to leave you alone.
I would make an effort to try to get closer to this guy, call him on the phone and hang out with him. Really make sure that this is a person that you would want to date, because you still sound a bit uncertain.
If something is going to happen between the two of you it will, and it will either work or it won't.
Good luck!
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You have to make sure that you actually have feelings for him and you also have to be sure that he likes you for who you are and not because of sex. You have to find out the reasons why he broke up with his past girlfriends and if he still talks bad about them. If he talks bad about them and imagine if you were one of his ex-girlfriends and if he was talking to some other girl about you then you could tell he is a jerk. Why would a guy avoid a girl if she has feelings for him? Maybe he liked you too or he felt unsure of what he felt for you and did not want the friendship go any further. I think that you should get to know him better because I have a feeling that this guy is probably not worth it. Why should you do all of the work if you like him? Let him sort of blossom and you have to sort of let him open up to you about what his feelings are for you. Also, look at the way his body language which is so important in knowing if a guy likes you or not.
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