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My friend wont leave the guy i like alone :(
My friends little sister is 15 i look at her as my sister, she is obseced about this 20 year old guy. He thinks shes cute and all but doesnt want anything with a 15 year old. For the past few weeks me and this guy have been talking and hanging out, we both like eachother. Niether of us want to hurt her, but she wont leave him alone it effects us on moving in to a relationship. I have thought about trying to interduce he to other guys, is that a good idea? what do I do if it doesnt work? All I want is to date the guy without all the drama.
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im sorry dear, but its called rape... an he will go to jail..
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You need to back off until this 20 year old guy grows a backbone, and tells the little sister it's noway, noteva, going to happen.
He's the adult here, and he's being a chicken shit and his 'not wanting to hurt her feelings' is almost as bad as lying to her. It's giving her hope and leaving her confused.
It's his reponsibility to put an end to it. Clearly and firmly. Until he does that, you can't be with him.
Introducing her to other guys, is just making excuses for this guy. Don't do that. Tell him he needs to tell her, clearly, that it's a no and then stop having contact with her.
It's his job to end the drama. You can be supportive, but you can't do it for him.
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I agree with the first user
He needs to act like a man and tell her she is too young, As long as he keeps her hanging she is never going to really get it. At 15, She is legally not able to date anyone over the 18. If this guy were to ever make a move he'd be looking at pedophilia. That's disturbing. Plus, Would you really want to date a guy that can't be man enough to tell someone they are too young for him? Sounds like a little boy to me
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I think that you should sit down and talk to the girl and give her a reality check. shes 15 and the guy is 20. thats not a great thing.
and i guess its okay for you to date him if atlease your the same age as him.
go a head and introduce her to other guys and if that doesnt help, then just try to be there for her.
& another thing, if the guy doesnt want anything to do with her then, let him tell her himself.
Hope i helped :)
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I think that is a good idea. The more guys that she sees that are around her age then it should make her forget about the guy that you like. I think that your friend's little sister should hang out with other friends and go to the mall or other public places to meet guys. Also, the obsession that your friend's sister has for her crush is going to be very hard to let go, but if she is willing to understand and for you to give her a scenario to put her in your shoes then she should get the point.
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He's 20 freaking years old. He needs to man up and tell the 15 year old she is too young! If he can't do this simple thing then you need to question whether he has enough guts to be a good man for you.
Besides, a jail cell and sex offender registration awaits if he doesn't tell her to get lost and then gives in to temptation. Tell him to blame it on your state's penal code if he just has to be a pussy about it.
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