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im 17 last year of high school,track runner, a poet,and been throught the bad and worst and killer moments of relationships and the good, great, an the damn right awesome parts of it to.. been through it all for just being 17..
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Age: 17
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My friends little sister is 15 i look at her as my sister, she is obseced about this 20 year old guy. He thinks shes cute and all but doesnt want anything with a 15 year old. For the past few weeks me and this guy have been talking and hanging out, we both like eachother. Niether of us want to hurt her, but she wont leave him alone it effects us on moving in to a relationship. I have thought about trying to interduce he to other guys, is that a good idea? what do I do if it doesnt work? All I want is to date the guy without all the drama. (link)
im sorry dear, but its called rape... an he will go to jail..


my 4 year old is for lack of a better term a terrible child. he randomly screams loudly for no reason, he tries to steal things when we go ANYWHERE, he abuses our animals, his baby (7 month old) brother and me. my husband and i argue everyday over my son and his bad behavior is getting to be a problem in our marriage. he lies for no reason about things he doesnt have to lie about. he calls me names, curses at me and hits me in the face. he refuses to listen and almost always does the opposite of what is told or asked of him. we have tried everything. he gets verbal warnings, time outs, toys or favorite things taken away, soap in his mouth, even spankings. its embarrassing to take him places and im afraid that if his terrible behavior continues in public and at school CPS will become involved and i love him despite his actions.
P.S. my husband and i dont curse at one other and there is absolutely no abuse in our home where can those things be coming from? (link)
look Mrs. I'm going tell you the straight truth.. You don't need to talk a class.. your not a bad parent what You need to do its start popping him on his hand that thing away, don't buy him every little thing if he cry's good that means its working.. i know it could be heart breaking to see your baby boy cry but trust me a if You do it everything will be good.. its not child abuses its call discipline.. trust me it will help..


The guy i am in love with says that he loves me too but he never acts like he loves me..he never calls me,never cares about me.only texts me once a day or two days saying that he misses me...i don't understand him..help me plz (link)
dear, those are the guys very girl try to stay away from.. cause all they do is lie to get in ur heart and whn their there they'll break it so break it off before someone get hurt


hi my name is ozzy and need a girl i am 13 and i am 207 pound i like girls i can cuddle with and have fun with i am not the one to be in a girl pants 24/7 and i want some one that like me for who i am (link)
i wish u luck in finding the one.. i didnt start tell i was 16 and he is the one for me.. so good luck u will find the one but have fun being single too... ether way


17/f

So I have this new boyfriend and things are great.
I was talking to my guy friend who I was sorta involved with before and we got into this argument because he hates the fact that I have a new boyfriend and stuff. It got to the point where he was telling me he cares about me more than any guy I date. This guy always pushed me to do more with him all the time, but I never wanted to have sex. I always told him that making out is as far as I'd go.
Well then he was like, "It's not my fault about everything that happened. You shouldn't have lead me on by making out with me."

I'm wondering if that's true that making out with a guy means that eventually there's gonna be more.
Like, I usually wouldn't have believed this but one of my last boyfriends almost raped me cause I didn't want to do more.
My guy friend who was all mad at me was saying that if I don't want a guy to push for more, don't make out with them.
I've already made out with my current boyfriend and it scares me that he's gonna push for more.

I'll probably end up talking to him about it later but what's your opinion? I know I have this guy friend who might just be jealous but is what he's saying true?
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so wrong, anything can lead to sex not just making out.. so making out is not bad so dont be scared... i cant imagine the pain of fear that u were going through but this new guy could be a message from god saying that not all guys r like that and jerks.. some are really nice and kind and really cares, so dont break up with this new guy.. he could be the message sent to u..


This year, I'm a freshman in hs and I decided last minute to do band. Because this year, we are eligible to make state, there is alot riding on us, especially the freshman. This one senior (who also plays the clarinet) skipped August camp and started coming when school started. At first, he didn't really care until he got a primary spot. After that, he started acting like our section leader (the reason why he isn't is a long story). For our contest yesterday, we didn't have a very strong preliminary performance and nobody seemed to be too upset except for him. On the way home, I sat next to him and we talked about band and I learned alot of secrets about band. He said many inspiring things even stuff that the leadership team at our school never talked about. I really look up to him, and I know he really cares about the band. After getting to know the good side of him, I realized that I like him. I don't know what to do. (link)
dear, im 17 years old i was in the same spot but it was so different cause i thought i wasnt in love with my best friend who is a girl and im one too... so the point im trying to get at is u may think some but its not really true.. now im new on here and i may be wrong or i maybe right but u just feel closer to him, give it some time and see how it goes... good luck




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