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Is it normal that my boyfriend got turned on by a cartoon?
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 yrs we've been through a lot including dealing with Erctile Dsynfunction for him at 21 years old. He was addicted to porn and at first it wasnt a problem but he got ED and it became a problem he seeked a urulogist and they said nothing was wrong with him physically that we should probably seek help for porn addiction. I installed a filter in his computer and since then everything was fine sure. I became jealous and paranoid after that about what turned him on. Anyway yesterday we had sex and after sex he usually can't get hard he calms down. We started watching a little kids cartoon The Avatar google it if you dont know and there was a part where the little girl about 12 years old i'd say was drowing in quick sand screaming for help and she was screaming for help i saw my getting a smirk and then i was like whats wrong with you and he was like what nothing? and i was like let me see "down there" and he was hard not fully but almost and i was just disgusted it was a little girl fully clothed from head to toe. I was so digusted i just came home and he said he was turned on. and thats all he would tell me.I just find this so sickening i mean i wouldve understood if she had big breasts and she was older. I don't know what to do i find this sickening that i cant even trust him to look at cartoons?! Is this normal? I just honestly don't wanna go back with him after this i find it sickening. I know he used to watch cartoon porn and thats totally normal because the girls have huge breasts and they are doing sexual acts but this was nothing sexual. What do you guys think?
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Errr...This is by far the weirdest question I'm about to answer these days and trust me I get some weird ones.
Your boyfriend needs help, Maybe he really does have a porn addiction but I think there is more too it then that. Getting turned on by little kid cartoons is not normal. I am going to have to agree with the others it sounds like he may have a thing for the kiddos and I think his best be is to see a psychiatrist. However, If I were in your shoes....I'd probably jet too.
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That is majorly screwed up. He needs a therapist. I just hope he doesn't have any kiddie porn on his computer then he could be in a world of hurt legally.
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I think your bf needs to see a pyschiatrist who deals in sexual dysfunction. To get aroused over an adult cartoon okay, over a child cartoon no.
To me, and I'm not a doctor, says your boy friend may have some pedophile issues. I could be wrong and he might not even be aware of these issues in a conscience manner. Still discussing this whith a doctor trained un this area is to my way of thought the proper thing to do..
If your boy friend has ever asked you to dress up as a school girl for sex then it could be a bigger issue. If he has you would be correct to stay away from him.
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