Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


Viewing Questions


View: Search Options...

He's confusing me!!


Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 12:21 pm

Okay so I've asked this question before but I didn't exactly word it right so I didn't really get good results, so here it is. I have a huge crush on this boy ( let's call him dave ) and he's told me he likes me, but made it clear that now is not a good time for a girlfriend, I don't really know how to explain our relationship, its pretty confusing but my friends call us "the couple that isn't dating" so that's kind of what's going on there... Anyways, one night dave and I were talking and we got onto the subject of this other boy at our school ( lets call him mark ). Now dave and mark aren't exactly friends but they are friendly, if that makes any sense. So I told dave that I didn't really like mark all that much, and dave seeme...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More Love Life Questions ]

i wish i could be myself around him


Posted Wednesday December 3 2008, 11:51 pm

18 female.
i have somewhat of self-confidence only because every guy i pretty much meet tells me i'm so gorgeous (sorry not to sound conceded) and sometimes i do believe i am pretty, but other days i will just hate the way i look. i'm somewhat outgoing, around people i know pretty well and i do talk around people i just meet but why is it that i feel so shy and feel like i can't be myself around the guy i like? i've known him for about 3 and a half years now, but i just always think about what i'm going to say before i say it because i don't want to say something stupid, i don't act crazy around him because i'm afraid he will think i'm annoying, or just plain weird. i am a fun girl to be around though, but around him i am a sort of d...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More Love Life Questions ]

future boyfriend?


Posted Wednesday November 26 2008, 11:44 am

So I went to this dance with a guy friend who I have always kind of had a thing for. But we were going as friends along with the rest of our group. he was really sweet like getting in the car and at dinner like "anything for you ashton" and other things like that. and then at the dance since were all freshmen it was like awkward whose gonna be the guy to get the dancing going and he was the first one to be like "ashton lets dance". he took me by the hands and wrapped them around me and basically never let go for the rest of the night. it was really cute dancing and fun :) just like holding, swaying, grinding, slow dancing the wholee you know.

his friends say they've never seen him act like that and they al...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More Love Life Questions ]

Grinding/Fast Dancing at a dance


Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 5:25 pm

16/f

2 weeks ago i was at this dance thing at school and there was this guy i talk to a lot and i think i have a crush on him but i dont really know for sure if i do. At the dance there is a lot of grinding going on and stuff like that and he came up to me and started dancing with me. I got kind of turned on when he was dancing with me and i think he was too because i think i felt his boner but i'm not sure.

Ever since then I can not stop thinking about him and i keep on thinking about him in a sexual way. Is this normal for me to think about him like that after just grinding with him? I am going to hang out with him again so should i bring this up with him in a nonchalant way? I feel weird and creepy saying t...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More Love Life Questions ]

What can I do soothe my raw nipples?


Posted Saturday August 30 2008, 2:25 am

My boyfriend was sucking on my nipples a lot for a couple of days and now they hurt very badly. My nipples hurt to touch. When a shirt runs over the nipple itself it feels like sandpaper. I'm afraid to wear a bra because it might rub against the nipples when I move. My boyfriend kissed one of my sore nipples since it wasn't feeling good, just as a sweet gesture, but it felt like grinding sandpaper against my nipple too. It even hurts for my nipples to get hard and pointy!

It's just really uncomfortable and frustrating to put on clothes and not have them rub against the nipples.

What can I do to make my nipple pain go away? I am totally clueless and feeling very uncomfortable! Please help me figure out ho...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) | More Injuries Questions ]

my novel


Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 1:13 am

this is a short part of my novel that i would like some feedback on. like i'm just wondering, does it make sense?here it is :
The next thing she knew, she was so close to him she could smell his Armani Acqua Di Gio cologne. Scott’s hands were holding her hips, and she was moving her hips into his. His head was over her shoulder and their cheeks were touching. She loved being this close to him, and decided she wanted to stay like this forever. Britney Spears’ ‘Break the Ice’ was playing as she placed her hands on top of his and they linked fingers.
“Ooh, looks like we’re alone now,” the lyrics played, but she could only wish they were really alone. She turned her head towards his so their faces were only an inch ...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More School Questions ]

Kittens teeth


Posted Friday August 8 2008, 6:24 am

I have a 24 week old kitten, and whenever shes eating, or closes her mouth after yawning or something I hear a clicking sound, like her teeth are grinding together, it doesn't seem to bother her and it hasntbeen happening for too long but is this normal or should we get her checked out?

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More Pets Questions ]

I feel sooo bad.


Posted Monday August 4 2008, 9:12 pm

Fourteen Female.
Okay so I hadn't seen Benamin since Friday and he wanted to see me, and my parents were out and still aren't home so I was like come over it'll be fun.
Well we were ust hanging out, like usual. Were friends, that yeh a little bennifits but it's just fun [[and no nothing below the belt.]]
Well Friday night I got Breaking Dawn-- an amazing book and we weren't doing much so I started reading it while sitting in the recliner chair. So he started messing with me and was like "Your such a nerd- only you would read with ME in the room." Which is true, a lot of girls in my school like him.. and like obsess.. =X
so he climbed on me, and tried taking the book away and he had my legs pinned with h...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) | More Friendship Questions ]

i cant believe he would hurt me this way!


Posted Thursday July 17 2008, 4:08 am

so i dated my x for about a year..and we broke up when i moved & we stil basically talked and saw eachother alot...and he dated 3 girls behind my back& i found out from my friends.. i forgave him and moved on..but there was this party..and i went to it just to see him..and when i walked in ,,,i saw him..but it was so dark so i didnt know if he saw me or not..anyways...he out of the bue starts dancing with this chick & she's grinding all up on him! and im standing no less that 8 feet away from him in the corner with my friend..then after they stop dancning, he s lookin around the room...then he glances at me & then walks over to me and is like wasup? i didnt know u were here! then he was like... when did u get here? and he w...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More Love Life Questions ]

intimidated


Posted Friday June 27 2008, 6:47 pm

Hi!
okay so my friend and i went to a 21 and under club last weekend and we saw some really cute guys. Just as i had finally gotten up the courage to ask one to dance this blonde perfect girl comes up and asks the one i wanted to ask to dance. they danced together pretty much the whole time i was there although my friend said he didn't look to interested in her. Every time he would walk away from her or she would walk away from him, my friend would beg to ask him to dance, and believe me i wanted to but i just felt intimidated by the other girl. She looked perfect and was kinda slutty so she was grinding insaneish on him and i am soooooo not slutty and thought how could i compare with that.
i guess im asking which girl would ...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More Love Life Questions ]

scared!


Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 1:27 am

hey i was searching columnists and i found yours and decided to ask you...sry this is a little long...i just really need help...

a little more than a week ago i was messing around with my boyfriend and doing a little dry humping and he took his penis out and kinda thrusted it in and out for a few seconds but not all the way in...just sorta a tease cause we were both virgins and just really horny and wanted to see how it would feel
i cant fully remember but im pretty sure i gave him a blow job a little before this all happened and he came in my mouth and i swallowed it and then he put his penis away and we just started making out and messing around again then that happened and im scared that i could be pregnant
...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More General Sex Questions Questions ]

Does he and do I ?


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 12:00 am

[[ i\'m a 13 year old girl in middle school ]]

okay. so, i like this guy named jack. and a while ago i wrote something in his truth box on myspace that said \'you need to grow your hair out again. it looked much hotter not buzz cut. youre really hott but a jerk. and pretty funny but still mean.\'
because hes really hott, but a jerk to everyone. well the next day at school in first block, he said something to me about a truth box but i couldnt hear him so i was just like \'whatt?\' and he just said ask me in second block. but i forgot about that so i couldnt. then when i was looking at this other guy\'s profile, i saw that jack had commented him and said \'hey i think hailey wrote in my truth box that im hot but mean. w...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More Love Life Questions ]

this girl is playing extreme hard to get


Posted Monday May 26 2008, 12:59 pm

she is 14 and i am a guy and im 13. But iv gone through all puberty so im very mature for my age in how I act and look. we went to the same school but shes out already and comes back for her graduation tomarrow. i love her but i really dono if i like her enough to date her. i go to great skate every friday night and she goes whenever she isnt goin to a party or the mall soo she goes to great skate once every 3 weeks. At great skate everyones grinding flirting or making out. she likes these two guys, last time they were in court and didnt show she looked so hurt.both times before that they came and they were like on her or had her or her on them, in their arms :(. they were always hugging her and her friend and they kept pickin her up, they ...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More Love Life Questions ]

young life summer camp


Posted Friday May 16 2008, 12:11 am

anyone who has ever been to a young life summer camp , i might be going this summer for the first time, i went to winter weekend but never summer camp and i am just wondering: at the dances and proms and stuff, do people actually dance? like normal grinding dancing? or do people just stand there or dance weird because i know it is lke a christian thing even though no one i know that goes to it is good it just seems like they would be scared to grind in front of the counselors and stuff. so yeah i don't care but i was just curious if people dance like they do at school dances and parties and stuff. probably not as dirty? but idk. and also do people hook up because i've heard of people making out at the camps but i think some people might thi...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) | More Love Life Questions ]

dances


Posted Friday May 2 2008, 11:17 pm

how do you grind with guys at dances? how do you make out with them at dances while grinding? what do they do, and what should you do? and do you grind AND make out at the same time? thankz

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More Love Life Questions ]

Love Songs/ Dance music


Posted Monday April 28 2008, 5:47 pm

So i'm having a "dance party" in about 2 weeks and i really need some good dancing music to put in a playlist for the party. i need like "grinding" songs almost.. sorry if you're against that "type" of dance or don't even consider it dancing, but thats the kind of music i'm looking for..

also if you have and love songs that would be really helpful too, seeing as i really like this guy but idk if it'll ever work out =/

[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) | More Music Questions ]

prom dancing and date issues


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 6:24 pm

ok my prom is coming soon and i can not dance at all or i guess you could say that i am self conscious and think that i am a bad dancer i have never really dance in front of people before so i cannot ask if i am bad but i no that i am probably stiff so what can i do to become or comfortable before prom and learn more dance i no that there will be grinding at the prom and just regular dancing what ever that is
so i can i make sure i don;t make a fool of my self in the grinding and other types of dancing also i can not find a date no one want o take me i have not asked alot but i want to be asked not ask my self where should i try looking for a date and i am 17 and have never had a boyfriend or been kissed ( just never been asked out a...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More Work/School Relationships Questions ]

I'm so confused about my ex boyfriend


Posted Saturday February 23 2008, 7:32 pm

17/F, During the dance, my ex boyfriend who dumped me last year kept staring at me and my date(my guy friend)from the beginning to the end. then, while my date and I were dancing, my ex walks next to us, and he was freaking and grinding hardcore with this girl. I think that he was trying to get my attention or make me jealous. When we were leaving, I noticed that my ex kept looking at me in the parking lot. do you think that he still has feelings for me?

[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) | More Love Life Questions ]

Im the single friend, alone and surrounded by relationships.


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 8:13 pm

So first of all I'm a sixteen year old junior. I have my tight group of friends, 7 other girls, who I'm practically always with. I am pretty well known around my school, not for anything bad, I just am involved in a lot around my school. I have no problem meeting or talking to people, I'm not socially awkward. The problem is that recently my friends have ALL been in relationships. We all have jobs and sports, so schedules conflict. But when they dont, they all hang out with their boyfriends. Its not that they've never been in relationships before, but now they are all in relationships at the same time. I'm extremely alone. I've never been in a relationship, never been kissed. I have been asked to dances, which leads no where except the boy ...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More Love Life Questions ]

dancing


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 3:10 pm

Prom is comming up soon for me and its not that i cant dance... i live in a small town where nobody dances. and i feel that if you go to a DANCE.. you should dance. (prom is the only dance i want to go to because i need to save college money.. so this is my first one).. but i know they will play some rap or hip hop and i want to be able to dance to it. if i try to dance to it "the way i feel" i dont move and i just stand around because i dont get how people dance to that stuff(grinding???? i dont even know what to do with that). can anybody tell me how im supose to dance any moves or whatever that people do or soemthing because i feel REALLY dumb being a girl and not dancing.. please help or explain anything. thanks.

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) | More School Questions ]
Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker