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i cant believe he would hurt me this way!
so i dated my x for about a year..and we broke up when i moved & we stil basically talked and saw eachother alot...and he dated 3 girls behind my back& i found out from my friends.. i forgave him and moved on..but there was this party..and i went to it just to see him..and when i walked in ,,,i saw him..but it was so dark so i didnt know if he saw me or not..anyways...he out of the bue starts dancing with this chick & she's grinding all up on him! and im standing no less that 8 feet away from him in the corner with my friend..then after they stop dancning, he s lookin around the room...then he glances at me & then walks over to me and is like wasup? i didnt know u were here! then he was like... when did u get here? and he was like oh, my bad you had to see that ...and im like wtf?anyways..long story short...i got pissed...and i kinda cheated on him and got fingered...i didnt have sex wit the dude....but yea i love him so much and i had to be honest with him so i told him and he was mad at me for like a month then he let it go..then things where cool between us...and now he is dating this gurl and it was this big ass drama shyt goin on wit us cause i messaged her out of jelousy...and yesterday i found out that they had sex,,,,and im crushed ...my feelings are so hurt:(...and he was my first..& i was his first..i just never thought that he would do it yet with someone else...and it really hurt so bad...i cry all the time....
and when we talked on the phone he talked about my bf curently & was like he called me a bitch and im gonna fight him(hint of jelousy)but yea anyways we talked for like and hour...and then he like totally rushed me off the phone and was like i gotta go call my girl...but when he broke the news about him and her having sex....(since she had told me when we got into that lil arguement , but i didnt believe her so i asked him) and he told me it was true...i was just pure silent....and then he said who knows ..we could get back together in the future... im just living my life...and he wouldnt tell me if he was in love with her or not...and he told me it was none of my buisnesss....my questiion is ....so you think he stil loves me at all??
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I agree with triquetra. It sounds like you still love him, and that he as moved on. I suggest you try to find somebody else. I know this guy was your first, but he's not your last. Remember that.
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I'm confused. You broke up with him, yet you care that he had sex with another girl, well after the breakup. I know that he was your first, but when you 'move on' from a realtionship, you don't really care as to what your ex does with his/her life. You just let them live it the way that they want to.
I think the real question here is do YOU still love him? Not the other way round. It seems to me that he's gotten over you, but you still haven't gotten over him. Get back to me on that one.
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