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future boyfriend?
So I went to this dance with a guy friend who I have always kind of had a thing for. But we were going as friends along with the rest of our group. he was really sweet like getting in the car and at dinner like "anything for you ashton" and other things like that. and then at the dance since were all freshmen it was like awkward whose gonna be the guy to get the dancing going and he was the first one to be like "ashton lets dance". he took me by the hands and wrapped them around me and basically never let go for the rest of the night. it was really cute dancing and fun :) just like holding, swaying, grinding, slow dancing the wholee you know.
his friends say they've never seen him act like that and they all think hes really into me, even the guys.
so one of my friends texted him and he said he had a good!!!!!! time with exclamation marks and everything when ever she brought me up and he said he realllllyy wants to get to know me more and hang out more.
I really like him, so idk what to do.. i dont want to lose my touch or him forget about what we had.
- love struck
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You can't be scared to move things forward, if you are happy and he is happy then don't make it a stand still, you'll never know-
As for losing your touch. Touch? Is this some kind of power, or sensational feeling you create towards someone? Then you can never lose that as long as you remain yourself. Let whatever "Future" expectations, ideas, theories, hypothesis's, about what you two can be and just be happy for what you two are. Friends? Is this what you "have". I'm sure he will never forget that. A guy never forgets who he has danced with, especially a slow dance. So I say, move forward, but also - don't go on the assumption he likes you the way you do, just because your friends think so, he is a different person of course. With intentions and theories of his own. So if you choose to believe whatever you didn't see, but what your friends saw, that he acted differently when he was with you, than of course! He likes you (to what extent) you have affected him. So continue to grow, continue to do.. whatever it is you do- things will work out, its all in time.
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Response to my Comment: "You clearly didn't read."
I only tried to help. I apologize for whatever I said if it has offended you. Next time I shall put my words into a better understanding and maybe you can help me better understand what I got wrong. Is it that you don't want to move forward with this guy? I saw it as a mere hesitation to the response of the dance, that you saw this to becoming something more and you didn't know what to do..
And hey, if not- its cool.
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just start a casual conversation with him and maybe he will ask you to hang out and if he doesnt then you ask him if he wants to do something or you could get a bunch of people together and make it kind of a group date thing and if you dont want to lose touch then just find time to talk to him about anything im sure if you talk to him more he will ask you to be his gf
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