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prom dancing and date issues
ok my prom is coming soon and i can not dance at all or i guess you could say that i am self conscious and think that i am a bad dancer i have never really dance in front of people before so i cannot ask if i am bad but i no that i am probably stiff so what can i do to become or comfortable before prom and learn more dance i no that there will be grinding at the prom and just regular dancing what ever that is
so i can i make sure i don;t make a fool of my self in the grinding and other types of dancing also i can not find a date no one want o take me i have not asked alot but i want to be asked not ask my self where should i try looking for a date and i am 17 and have never had a boyfriend or been kissed ( just never been asked out and is not religious reason) born in America Boston
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The best way to get a date is to make yourself available. Not desperate, but available. Just ask around. If theres a cute boy that you/your friends are close to, ask around to see if they have a date already. If not, make the first move. Dont ask him to the dance, but make friendly conversation and after a few days, causally bring up the dance, and mention that you dont have a date. Then drop the subject. If he wants to go, he will ask you. If not, let it go and move on to someone new.
And if nothing turns up, you could always go with a group of friends. (Boys and girls mixed, or just girls). You never know, there might just be a boy at the prom!
About the dancing, your best option is to watch what other people are doing, and copy them.
Goodluck at the dance!
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Hey you know what maybe a lot of people have wanted to ask you out but they are just as shy as you are so don't be scared to make the first move. Also if your not comftable with dancing you could practice. I think they sell some tapes on ballroom dancing. Or if have a friend or something you could probably practice with her. Anyways don't forget the most important thing. Just trust yourself and have fun cause a prom is not everday it happens. Hey and who knows you may even get your first kiss.
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