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Does he and do I ?
[[ i\'m a 13 year old girl in middle school ]]
okay. so, i like this guy named jack. and a while ago i wrote something in his truth box on myspace that said \'you need to grow your hair out again. it looked much hotter not buzz cut. youre really hott but a jerk. and pretty funny but still mean.\'
because hes really hott, but a jerk to everyone. well the next day at school in first block, he said something to me about a truth box but i couldnt hear him so i was just like \'whatt?\' and he just said ask me in second block. but i forgot about that so i couldnt. then when i was looking at this other guy\'s profile, i saw that jack had commented him and said \'hey i think hailey wrote in my truth box that im hot but mean. whats up?\' and so then i commented jack and was like \'i did nott write anything in your truth box. i dont know what youre talking about!\' but then i looked at the comment that he wrote in respond to my message in the truth box which was \'ya i no i neeed to be nicer and sorry 4 wat ever i did to you yer right i am a jerk and im tryin to work on that if you dont mind tell me who this is\'. and i thought that was really sweet, so i commented it back \'i know that i said this wasnt me, but this is hailey.\' and he commented it back \'who is this\' and i said \'what do you mean? this is hailey\'. but then he commented it back \'okay i know this is one of your friends\'. then i commented it back \'jack i swear this is hailey. you can ask me anything that happens in first block or at lunch and i promise i\'ll know it.\' but he didnt comment back. then at this party on the last day of school i got one of my friends to ask him if he likes me and she said that he said no. so i was kinda upset and all, but then just thought whatever and acted like i didnt care even though i totally did. so i was grinding with all of these other hott guys and my other friend came and told me that jack looked sad so she asked him whats wrong and he said i dont know if hailey wants to grind with me. and i was really happy and all. so then jack came up to me and we started grinding for like two songs. then we didnt really talk anymore but i didnt exactly care because i was just happy that i grinded with him. then i went on vacation the next day for a week and when i got back i read something that he put in my truth box. it said \'sorry but i jus don\'t like you i meen you r pretty hot but i jus dont like your personality maybe next year though\'. i got really upset about this because i thought that he liked me. i commented it back \'its okay, i understand.
but just out of curiosity what about my personality do yu not like ?
thanks i guess. see yu next year.
\'. but he never responded and this was like a week ago. i dont even know if i like this guy, or if he likes me. i need to know whether or not whoever responds to this thinks that he really does like me or if i even like him.
thanks in advance !
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I am also 13:
First of all, I think this guy is a jerk and you shouldn't like him. However, I think yo do like him maybe a little. I think he might just like you when you are with other guys. He wants you to be head over heels for him and no other guy. Jack was using you by grinding with you, and now he is just being a jerk by saying maybe next year.
Bottom line: I am pretty sure that you like him, he is a jerk, and he likes you when you are with other guys.
**You can do waaaaaay better than him***
Hope I helped
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Lys
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It sounds like he was interested in liking you, when you were interested in other guys. He was probably excited over the idea of you thinking he was hott, and assumed you wouldn't go for other guys. Especially since he knows that he treats people wrong, and you were willing to see passed that. Maybe you liked the idea of cracking the mystery-- finding answers to why he is the way he is. Any girl can get fascinated by a good looking guy, so maybe that's all it was for you-- fascination. For him? Like I said, he probably liked the idea that you still saw something in him, even if he acts like a jerk.
Let him be. I'm not sure if he likes you or not-- but I am pretty sure that he likes the idea of you wanting him. Don't give him that luxury. Don't let him judge your personality, because he's not your boyfriend, or even your friend-- so it's not his business to. Also, who is he to judge your character, when he's been classified as a mean guy, and ADMITS to it? It's not worth it to be upset, you're better off. And for the record, I doubt he'll be worth it next year, too.
Maybe at that point, you should tell him that he's a judgmental person, and that YOU don't like that.
Keep your head high, if you can grind with any guy you want, then you should concentrate on other guys.
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