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what qualities does girls like in men?
Posted Friday February 24 2012, 6:37 pm
what qualities does girls like in men?
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curiosity or dilusional
Posted Friday February 24 2012, 3:35 pm
this is not re: a relationship that I am currently in, but I need more of a realistic perspective to ensure that I am not overanalyzing/overthinking the situation. Last year I began attending a new church, and a guy caught my eye and vice versa (as there was an indefinite blank stare). This wen on (more from his end than me) until recently. Now I notice that if I discern he is watching/staring, I can never catch him. It appears that he "just" turns his head before I can see him. We have never conversed but I noticed he seemingly gets upset if a male sits next to me/near me i.e. he will turn his body in disapproval (in such an obvious way). Could it be that I remind him of someone, or am I over-analyzing the situation.
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Need advise on pre marraige in law issues
Posted Friday February 24 2012, 1:06 pm
Hi ,
I am in this relationship for the past year n a half. It started off as a family friend proposing this guy but we ended up meeting in private n falling in love before this could happen the formal way. His parents were totally against it since they thought he could do better and I was not their choice. After a long battle he convinced them.Engagement n wedding dates got finalised and broken off in a week since his mom kept constantly trying to find faults with me n my family n spoke rudely to my dad. with such things happening me n my guy ended up fighting over everything n he complained about our fights to his family n my dad. Hence I had to call it off. But we still love each other n panning to still make it work . he is going ...
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Distrust..and more distrust.
Posted Friday February 24 2012, 10:37 am
Okay, so to start off my boyfriend is very insecure. He's the kind of guy who thinks being friends with guys,is no good. Also if I'm smiling and talking to guys, he'll instantly expect that I'm going behind his back and doing something wrong. This lead me to believe something was not right with him and, what if something was going on behind mine?
Haha, and here's where things get great.
The other night I had the chance to casually look through some things on his laptop while he was out for about 10 minutes. I know this is wrong, but I have things that can back me up. He is constantly looking at my phone, facebook messages, and is basically an overall controlling in his actions. I accidentally left my computer ...
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Boyfriend troubles :'/
Posted Friday February 24 2012, 10:27 am
I'm 15 and so is my boyfriend. He and I have been dating for about a month and 2 days now. I love him to pieces <3 But it also bothers me that he wants to hangout almost all the time. I've told him that I'm a cheerleader and he knows that. (im a competitive cheerleader) He gets upset with me when I cant hangout with him. :'/ I really want to spend time with him, but i dont know what to tell him, if im busy again. I dont want to get him getting upset with me. His friend told me one day that if I dont hangout with him, He's gonna break up with me. Can someone please help me.!! (:
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issue with girls
Posted Friday February 24 2012, 4:52 am
I have a boyfriend which every girl seems to like. I've been getting threatening phone calls from girls. What should I do?
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My boyfriend is not romantic
Posted Friday February 24 2012, 1:34 am
My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now. I have come to accept the fact that he is just not the type who give gifts and all. But i thought at our first valentines together, he would at least give me something. I am not materialistic but im sure i am not the only one who wishes that our special someone will put some efforts in surprising us during special occasions. My birthday passed, Christmas and new year, the only gift he gave me is the couples ring we both buy for each other. Dont get me wrong, i know he loves me, i am certain of that. He knows how disappointed i was last valentines day because he led me to believe he is up to something. I am not wishing he'd be all hopelessly romantic, but on love days i really really wish he'd grow a tiny bone of romance.
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Forever Alone
Posted Friday February 24 2012, 12:26 am
Hey!I’m a 16 year old girl from New Jersey and I AM SO LONELY. Like I’ve been in relationships before but for not more than a couple months. I really would not want anything more than to be in a relationship with a guy for like a year or longer! However I’ve talked to guys in my town and who go to my school before, and I do not like anyone of them, they all do not know how to treat girl’s right and respectively. And any guy who does is already taken. I’m seriously so sick of being single and really want to meet some nice cute guys. I’ve tried some online dating sites, and all I found were horny males. That is defiantly the opposite of what I’m looking for. I have tried to have my friends from out of town hook me up with some o...
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im confused if i actually like him?
Posted Thursday February 23 2012, 10:44 pm
16/Female
So I thought i fell for my bestfriend about a month ago and now im not sure whats happening. We are basically in a relationship, (we hang out a lot, kiss, cuddle) and its been fine, we are both happy. since we have became more than friends he has changed. he isnt fun and doesnt joke around anymore, he has become really quiet. im confused because i thought i liked him but im never excited to see him or talk to him. i want to kiss him but when we do its nothing special. i know its normal for some people not to get butterflies in their stomach when they are around people they like, but the other two guys i liked before always gave me butterflies and i was always so happy to be around them...can someone please tell me if its no...
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I met this guy at a party?
Posted Thursday February 23 2012, 10:33 pm
So I met this guy at a party and we chatted for 30 minutes. We had a lot in common and he really seemed to be interested in me. I had to leave so he gave me his number and told me to text or call him up so we could hang out. Two days later I text him, and texts back saying: whats up? How are you? I answered back and he never replied after that. I texted him today (4 days later) saying hey whats up? He hasnt replied. Should I give up?
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Is it time to break up?
Posted Thursday February 23 2012, 8:10 pm
Is it time for us to break up?
My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over 2 years. I am 19, he is 20. We started dating in high school, and have known each other for about 4.5 years total. I love him. We have a lot of fun being together.
Recently, however, we have both been thinking more about getting married in the next couple years. I always wanted to get married young so it's been exciting to think about. Because we have been talking more about marriage, I feel like things have gotten more stressful. I used to feel really good about marrying him, but now I am not so sure.
1. We fight a bit. We tend to argue, and we are both pretty stubborn so it usually doesn't end too happily.
2. I feel...
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I always feel like maybe I'm too young to be in a committed relationship.
Posted Thursday February 23 2012, 8:54 am
Well I really need some love advise. My ex has recently popped back into my life for the fourth time we have gone out three different times that only last a month or so each month in different years. Everytime we talk so many unsure feelings come back but everytime we say we should give it another try it never last mainly because of me. I'm only 19 and I always feel like maybe Im too young to be commited. But this time I'm more sure of who I am and so is he. we have gone through our little phases and we aren't really young and lost. So my question is if anyone can help me figure this out somehow, it is really confusing for me and I really do not want to hurt him in anyway or hurting myself
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I am quitting my job and I want him to quit his job too so we can just BE TOGETHER!
Posted Thursday February 23 2012, 2:52 am
I have a boyfriend for a year now and i can things are going great in general. We are officemates but we seldom see each other in the office (since we have to go to different clients). Our jobs are demanding most of the time, we can be sent to different places or we get to work really late. This brought up the hard part of our relationship. Everything in my job sucks right now (politic in the office) and there were times i just cant stop crying. During those time i just want to see him and hug him to make me feel a little better, but i cant. He's busy too with his work. He never fails to say 'love, things will be fine. just be strong.' but that's not enough for me. I want to see him so bad. We missed special occasions in the past because of...
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Does this smart, geeky guy like me?
Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 9:25 pm
He normally keeps to himself, and doesn't say anything during class, but ever since we started talking, he just talks more and more. sometimes it's almost like babbling, like he'll just say random things, and I'm the only one who sits right next to him, so I'm pretty sure they're directed at me. I talk to him, but when he starts babbling something random sometimes I don't know what to do and just smile at him or ignore it, and just like move my head, to acknowledge his words.
i'm really attracted to him (he's not ugly or anything, too but i think he's a bit insecure, but then again, so am I.), but I don't know. i thought guys were supposed to be shy around girls they liked "more than a friend"? but with him it's th...
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Should I go through with it? Or should I get away from this guy?
Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 7:54 pm
I need to figure this out by tomorrow night, so please help me out. I'm a 17 year old female. I'm 4'10 and quite skinny. I am pretty small (I say this because I might just be an easy target.. I don't know). At school today, during lunch, this black guy that I've never seen before came up to my friends and I and asked me if I had a boyfriend. I said no. He said his friend over at his table wanted my number and all that. Long story short, 3 guys at this guy's table got my number. I went over to them like 4 times because the guy asked me to and one of the times, they asked if my friends gave head. I said they'd have to ask them, in a sarcastic way. Then they asked if I did and I said "I'm gonna go now" and they said they were just ki...
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Wanting Sex with him too soon
Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 7:08 pm
So for a few weeks now I've been talking to this guy over Facebook and we seemed to get along quite well. Just last weekend we met each other for the first time (he lives an hour away) and we cuddled A LOT. At first he just had his arm around me and i laid my head against him, then he grabbed my wrist and put my arm around his stomach, later on, we were holding hands and at first i didnt realize it but the back of my hand was over his crotch, which is weird to me, i've never cuddled/ kissed/ dated anyone. The next day we were im'ing each other, he told me he had wanted to kiss me. Later in the conversation i told him i had been wet and then he told me he had gotten an erection ( i did notice his hand covering his crotch a few times). I can'...
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how to get him to stop being forward while trying to get him to kiss me
Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 5:53 pm
So, I have this boyfriend, we have been dating for 2 years and have not kissed... we rarely hold hands. We went out for dinner on valentines day and his dad was find with that but we were supposed to go to the movies with his sister and stuff yesterday but his dad would not let him. The reason we have not kissed is his dad, he just will not let us. The thing is recently he has been very up close and personal if you know what I mean, I will be standing somewhere and he will come up behind me and tickle my waist while pulling me in for a short hug, or he has been putting stickers on my legs during class, he starts at my knee then slowly tries to get farther and farther up my leg. today one of my friends noticed and said something then he sto...
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thoughts on engagement at 18 yet marry in 3 or 4 years?
Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 4:44 pm
Would there be anything harder or bad, if I would get engaged at 18 but wait to actually get married till towards the end of college?
He is my age and love him to death and he is my world. We give each other space and can do our own thing but also spend a lot of amazing time together. We are going to the same college and he doesn't want me to feel tied down but he wants me to know he's my world and there for me no matter what. We are both simple chill people but I have just done all the stupid things under the sun like smoking drinking drugs and he has never even touched a thing. He doesn’t hate me for it or even get mad when I do anything, he just helps me see the bad and even got me to stop smoking. He spent all he had on a ring....
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names: finding a nickname for my boyfriend
Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 4:41 pm
i need help finding a nickname for my boyfriend
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I screwed him over twice and he took me back. Now I want to dump him, should i?
Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 4:35 pm
i have screwed my bf over 2 times in the past year and we got back together, but i want to breakup should i?
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