shesaidwhat answered Sunday February 26 2012, 12:37 am: A lot of what I have to say will mimic what flare said, but I'm going to say what I have to say anyway to add to the pot.
I don't think I have ever met a girl who didn't like a good sense of humor... but it has to come naturally. And, unfortunately, everyone has a different sense of humor, so "good" is subjective, so take that for what it's worth.
Girls like guys who don't try too hard.
Guys who are honest and genuine. Caring.
CONFIDENCE. Probably the biggest thing of all. That is true of both men and women, I've learned, and many people struggle with it.
But, like flare said, it all varies depending on the girl. I have odd taste in guys, like, really, my friends are usually confused.
Just being yourself and true and open to who you are and you'll generally attract the right people. :) [ shesaidwhat's advice column | Ask shesaidwhat A Question ]
orphans answered Saturday February 25 2012, 8:07 am: It depends on the girl, obviously. Saying that, it may be hard to find a girl who is attracted to a weird, angry, abusive jak*ss, and so avoid these qualities.
Conversely, most girls would say they like someone who is thoughtful, intelligent, kind, loving etc etc etc.
All the stuff you would expect. But not always of course. Just like how not all men like the same type of girl, the same is for women.
The thing to remember however is not to change yourself for anyone, and to just be yourself. If a girl doesn't like you, for you, then it will never work. How long will you keep up the charade? [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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