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curiosity or dilusional
this is not re: a relationship that I am currently in, but I need more of a realistic perspective to ensure that I am not overanalyzing/overthinking the situation. Last year I began attending a new church, and a guy caught my eye and vice versa (as there was an indefinite blank stare). This wen on (more from his end than me) until recently. Now I notice that if I discern he is watching/staring, I can never catch him. It appears that he "just" turns his head before I can see him. We have never conversed but I noticed he seemingly gets upset if a male sits next to me/near me i.e. he will turn his body in disapproval (in such an obvious way). Could it be that I remind him of someone, or am I over-analyzing the situation.
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You are over-analyzing the situation.
Eve if he is interested (and your evidence for this is pretty thin) a guy who has never spoken to you isn't all that interested at all.
Speak to him, or learn to ignore it. At this point, your brain likely making up many of these events just to justify your belief that they are happening. It's not healthy and it's not productive.
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