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im confused if i actually like him?
16/Female
So I thought i fell for my bestfriend about a month ago and now im not sure whats happening. We are basically in a relationship, (we hang out a lot, kiss, cuddle) and its been fine, we are both happy. since we have became more than friends he has changed. he isnt fun and doesnt joke around anymore, he has become really quiet. im confused because i thought i liked him but im never excited to see him or talk to him. i want to kiss him but when we do its nothing special. i know its normal for some people not to get butterflies in their stomach when they are around people they like, but the other two guys i liked before always gave me butterflies and i was always so happy to be around them...can someone please tell me if its normal to like someone and feel this way or if i just dont like him like i thought i did?
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Well I was friends with this guy once and we started dating and then I started acting differently I thought if I say 1 stupid thing he'll dump me and maybe that's what your guy thinks and maybe the butterfly thing is cause he isn't acting the same anymore maybe tell him that you want the guy you fell in love with not him
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I have the same situation right now, and he's acting like that because since things have changed he doesn't want to embarrass himself in front of you because it matters now. Maybe butterflies will come with time.
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Sometimes dating a friend can be complicated
It's either it turns out great and being friends before hand was the best thing you could of done. Or you two are just meant to be friends and only friends.
1, Sometimes dating a friend can end up ruining your friendship
2, Sometimes it's the best thing in the world
You two were friends before you dated, You are already used to one another. The excitement of dating someone is in the beginning generally people don't know enough about one another and therefore the spark is there that creates excitement. You and your boyfriend are already past that stage, You know one another.
Now that could be the issue, The other thing is maybe you both realize that you aren't as attracted to one another as you originally thought you were. This could also be another possibility which sounds to me like maybe you two are better off being friends. :/
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