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trying to fix relationship
Posted Wednesday April 4 2012, 12:00 pm
I recently got a tattoo done, without telling my boyfriend or asking him for permission. We've been dating for a year but he never had a problem with me getting a tattoo he never said I can't get it but now he doesn't want to be with me anymore because he says I lied to him and I let another man touch me, its really stupid what he's doing because I have apologised many times but he doesn't want to forgive me. I'm trying to make things right I even said I'll remove the tattoo but he's being so stubborn. What do I do? I really love him a lot and I want him in my life because he means a lot to me. How do I get him to forgive me? I don't want to lose him.
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Friends with Benefits
Posted Wednesday April 4 2012, 6:01 am
19/f
About six months ago I got out of a 3 year long relationship. He was my first for everything and he goes to the same university that I do. For the past 3 or so months, I have had a form of friends with benefits with a guy who is also one of my best friends.
The problem naturally is I do somewhat like the guy but with school ending in less than a month there would be no real point trying to start a long distance relationship. I am at the point now that I have sort of given up on needing a relationship and just want to have fun with someone I trust. He is the type of person who I can have fun with, without worrying about things being awkward afterwards. Only thing is that our makeout sessions tend to be very spaced out and ...
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does my boyfriend wants to marry me or not?
Posted Wednesday April 4 2012, 5:41 am
hi, we've been dating for two years now. my boyfriend is in late 40's. i asked him about whether if he's going to marry me or not and he said he's not going to get married, 'YET' and also he added, ''we're still together and we love each other so you never know'' after that i told him to consider coz there's no point being in a relationship if he's not serious about me and he said, ''yeah yeah, of course i will think about it.'' he is a single father and he was married once when he was in his 20's. so, guys, what is he actually saying? is he not committed to me? thank you all.
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I like this guy but he doesn't like me...
Posted Tuesday April 3 2012, 11:53 pm
I'm a 13 year old girl. I like this guy from school. At first we started off real close friends and then I told him that I liked him. He said he only liked me as a friend and began avoiding me from then on. He began seeing another girl and I'm really confused and hurt. After school he avoids me as well. We live on the same street and every time when he's outside and sees me playing basketball he'd go back home and pull down the curtains. And also at school, when I'm sitting in the cafeteria near where he and his mates are sitting, they'd go and find another spot. I really like him, and I suppose he just thinks I'm being stupid.
Any advice available?
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contact ex.. or never a good idea?
Posted Tuesday April 3 2012, 5:52 pm
My ex and me broke up a few months ago. It wasn't a nasty breakup but I was angry & upset. I did tell him that if we were seriously done, then we were to have no contact so I could move on. So, obviously, we've had absolutely no contact since then. I'm not completely over him and I admit it. I am at the point though, where I'd like to be in some contact with him. I'd like to see how he's doing, what's new, etc.. possibly even start to be friends. I really think I could do that. I just don't know whether I should try to contact him or just let it go/leave it alone. I think if I didn't, I'd always wonder 'what if'. How do I figure this out? What could I say that wouldn't sound dumb/pathetic and more along of the lines of upbeat/curious? I...
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How do i get him back?
Posted Tuesday April 3 2012, 5:16 pm
My boyfriend just recently broke up with me. How do i get him back?
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boyfriend just doesn't know anymore
Posted Monday April 2 2012, 11:40 pm
21/F
boyfriend is also 21
my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months. I know it doesn't seem long, but we were talking for 3 months before that. but officially been dating for 4 months. anyways, things were going really good we never really fought and if we did we would figure things out pretty quickly. we go to the same college and so we see each other a lot but we give each other space too so we don't get annoyed of each other. 2 weeks ago things started to get a little different and he told me that he just doesnt know anymore. he's super confused with himself and doesn't feel completely happy. i asked if i did anything to make him feel this way and he said no, that it's all him. he doesn't know whats wrong wit...
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too early to know if you're in love?
Posted Monday April 2 2012, 6:31 pm
Is it too early to know if you're in love?
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Bringing him back in my life ...
Posted Monday April 2 2012, 4:49 pm
I have recently lost the love of my life. I regret it . I know we still love eachother and i know we still both have deep feelings for eachother .&& i want to try this relationship thing again. but everytime i bring it up he just changes the subject or gets mad at me then doesnt talk to me for a month or so ...
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should i go back to my ex?
Posted Monday April 2 2012, 12:11 pm
Ok I know that's a question asked by a lot ot females but my ex ryan and I were together 4 years we have a beautiful little girl together afew months ago I left him cuz he didn't appreciate me he said he was going to change but still hasn't I'm with him almost always but when he gets a text or call from any other female he makes me leave I feel like his "if I don't have anyone else around" girl it hurts so bad he even kicks our daughter out for a female I also have another guy but he knows about ryan he loves me ane has been trying to get me to forget about ryan and be with him I just don't know what I should do should I give up on a 4 year relationship or keep trying?
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I want to go out with her, but she is into drugs, and I am not... what am i going to do?
Posted Monday April 2 2012, 10:24 am
on saturday night i asked out a very sweet girl from my school, thinking she was very innocent. Her random drug test this morning came back positive for many different narcotics. I am a sensible person who will never go near drugs, and quite afraid of this date with this girl. I want to go out with her, just don't know what to do with her situation.
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7 years tied down
Posted Monday April 2 2012, 8:01 am
Here is my current situation. I am a 20 year old female, been in my current relationship for 3 years with a girl I fell head over heals for, I never knew I was bisexual until I met her, she was so nice and caring towards others, she made me laugh all the time and she taught me a lot about life, she is my best friend and i love her very much. Just before we started dating I was getting out of a 4 year on and off relationship with my high school love (boy). We had the typical break up make up relationship until I left him for her. I have been thinking about how my life would be if I never jumped straight into a relationship with someone just before I graduated high shool. Her and i have been living together for about 2 years. She hates my fam...
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Why am I afraid to date interracially when I don't think it's bad?
Posted Monday April 2 2012, 3:54 am
It's like, there's still a part of me that worries about what society thinks. I'm black and like how I look, and who I am, and like this white guy, but a part of me feels embarrassed by it, and idk why. I'm attracted to guys with similar interests (regardless of culture), who are attractive, so I've crushed on guys from all over. I see us as all humans, and support love (whether it's with another guy of my culture or out) in general, and aren't racist at all, so why do I feel this way?
I think this is something that prevents me from getting into relationships. I'm 17 and have never been with anyone, and I feel like I have issues letting people getting close to me, because I'm afraid of rejection (and afraid of someone else be...
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I told my husband I don't love him, but not about the other guy yet... and he is mad and not even considering MY feeling! I really need some advices plzzzzz...
Posted Sunday April 1 2012, 6:50 pm
So as my previous question,,i took your all advices,,,but you won't believe what happened,,so i told my husband about my feelings,,that i dont love him anymore,,but didn't told him about the other guy,,,so he didn't talk to me at least two days,,so after that we talked and he was all angry and shouting that i am too selfish,all im thinking is about me, i dont take his feelings seriously nor his family's,....and all im putting him on a really an awkward situation,of course i couldn't speak a word and thats it ....i mean his not even concerning my feelings,, im in a big mess,,i mean what should i do now!!
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3 year relationship ended
Posted Sunday April 1 2012, 1:03 pm
I'm 24/F and my boyfriend of almost 3 years recently broke up with me. It was a very tumultuous relationship, but we had some amazing times & I truly loved him. I'm trying to move on, even though it's only been a couple months. My heart is still broken, and I'm finding it difficult to not think about him constantly. I've just never had this kind of heartbreak before, so I'm stuck in denial a bit, mixed with a lot of anger towards my ex. I feel like he just gave up on us, and I was willing to work things out. To add more to my misery, all my friends are settling down - moving in together with bfs, getting engaged, etc. I thought I was next for that, but obviously not anymore. It's hard talking to them about it because they can't relate. ...
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Missing someone
Posted Sunday April 1 2012, 4:13 am
17/f
I have liked this guy since the end of my freshman year, more like off and on. I'm a senior right now. He's 19, he actually turned 20 today, and in college far away. I'll give you the whole story..sorry for it being long..
We've been good friends since then. I've been around him a lot since I'm best friends with his sister.
When I was a sophomore, he and I were close. I'd talk to him about everything and he'd help me with bf problems.
My junior year, I liked him a lot. We told each other we liked each other but he didn't know what to do cause he was going to college in the spring. We never really talked about it and then I got with another guy. He was angry, ect. But at that point I thought h...
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Love life!
Posted Sunday April 1 2012, 1:18 am
Sometimes I go out with my friends and seem to catch him in there. today we were just having a conversation and he didn't even ask me oh you want to stay with me home and watch a movie. he just left to the party with his friends. I just feel a little embarrass because since a lot of people know we are going out, they are probably going to wonder "oh where is hes girl, I wonder why hes never with her" do you get what am saying. sometimes i feel as if i didn't have a boyfriend. I just don't know what to do. and i don't even know what he does at those party's. what do you suggest i should do ? :'(
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Boyfriend gets mad/upset about EVERYTHING.
Posted Saturday March 31 2012, 11:56 pm
I'm in love with my boyfriend but he literally gets mad or upset with me about everything. It's really bad he will get pissed off if I beat him in a video game, or if I don't stay over his house for an extra hour because I don't feel good, if I stop texting him for a couple hours because my hands are full. It's just ridiculous. Don't get me wrong, he's such a sweet guy and really nice to be, never abusive or anything like that...but it's just a bit ridiculous if you ask me and I don't know if I can handle this. I want a relationship where I don't have to worry so much about doing or saying the wrong thing because with this guy something always seems to make him mad or upset. Oh and were both 19 btw.
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Should I tell him I like him?
Posted Saturday March 31 2012, 5:59 pm
I'm not sure what to do here. I've had this HUGE crush for a year now. He's cute, funny, and super nice. I've told my parents about him and all my friends, but you know, I haven't told HIM! I'm nervous of what he might say or if he'd like me back. I always try to look pretty or act hard to get, but we're both tween age and I guess at that age, he doesn't like girls like that. His cousin tells me he likes me, but she lies sometimes so I dont know if I should trust her.
Should I tell him I like him and if so, how should I do it so it's not awkward? P.s. we're both friends.
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Is there hope?
Posted Saturday March 31 2012, 4:10 pm
I'm a female in 7th grade & I'm completely mature for this young age. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months, he's a freshman ( 9th grade ). We have had so many ups & downs but we've made it through. About 3 days ago he broke up with me. I was devistaded, torn, oh so lovesick. I'm nothing without him. He's also my neighbor which makes things worse. He tells my friend that he left me because he heard things about me, didn't have the same feelings anymore. He told me that he fucked up & broke my promises. A couple weeks ago I promised I would never cut or do anything dumb to myself, I put it down on his LIFE. He did the same with me except he couldn't do drugs, smoking, and drinking. I suppose he got " crossfaded " &a...
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