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Should I tell him I like him?
I'm not sure what to do here. I've had this HUGE crush for a year now. He's cute, funny, and super nice. I've told my parents about him and all my friends, but you know, I haven't told HIM! I'm nervous of what he might say or if he'd like me back. I always try to look pretty or act hard to get, but we're both tween age and I guess at that age, he doesn't like girls like that. His cousin tells me he likes me, but she lies sometimes so I dont know if I should trust her.
Should I tell him I like him and if so, how should I do it so it's not awkward? P.s. we're both friends.
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Well since he is your friend, you have to think about what would happen if he didn't feel the same way about you. You wouldn't want to lose him as a friend.
Maybe you should hint around it and see how he is. Check and see if he's a little flirty with you and likes talking to you and lots of eye contact, ect.
If you do think he might like you, you should tell him but be sure to accept it if he doesn't.
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I say you should. Guys love it when they don't have to make the first move! And plus, what if he does like you and he's too scared to tell you, life is either an adventure or nothing. Let this be the start of an adventure! I told my crush I liked him after I invited him to play soccer with me and we have been together for 3 months now. Show him your confident and brave. The best way to tell him would be somewhere there aren't so many people and in a calm, likeable environment to chill you both out. Don't do it over the phone though, just go for it and even if he doesn't like you back, you'll be happy that you told him finally. I promise. Good luck! :)
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If you are friends you have to consider whether or not you would lose that if you told him and he said no. If he's a true friend he won't allow it to.
I'm a firm believer that if you feel something is right in your heart of hearts go after it. He may feel the same way. Someone has to make a move or nothing will happen.
You just have to be honest with him and let the chips fall where they may. Even if he said no it's not the end of the world. He may well say yes.
It's something you have held secret for a year. You have to let it out and at least you'll know. Just tell him what you said to us.
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