I told my husband I don't love him, but not about the other guy yet... and he is mad and not even considering MY feeling! I really need some advices plzzzzz...
Question Posted Sunday April 1 2012, 6:50 pm
So as my previous question,,i took your all advices,,,but you won't believe what happened,,so i told my husband about my feelings,,that i dont love him anymore,,but didn't told him about the other guy,,,so he didn't talk to me at least two days,,so after that we talked and he was all angry and shouting that i am too selfish,all im thinking is about me, i dont take his feelings seriously nor his family's,....and all im putting him on a really an awkward situation,of course i couldn't speak a word and thats it ....i mean his not even concerning my feelings,, im in a big mess,,i mean what should i do now!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? wadaboy answered Monday April 2 2012, 10:47 am: You have no business even considering this. Sex with someone else always seems great in the begining but bring in kids aand bills and a little mix of ordinary. Do either of you have children, if so this is even worse now you are bringing your innocent children into a relationship that seems soo great because he makes your toes curl! Noyt fair that s the problem these days. Here is the ultimate test tell your lover you want to give your marriage a fair try. Now both men are hurting, I only care about your husbands feelings because he did not ask for this bs you are handing him. See if your lover will still love you enough to wait. If he does not this means he is selfish and true love is not selfish it is unconditional. Im not saying it wont be painful for him. Are you and this guy alone alot toghether? Does he wake up next to you when you have had a nasty cold or a case food poisoning. ? All these things you need to think about. Now you have to mend your husbands heart.There is a reason why you have not told him about the other Man it is because you are uncertain. Your marriage deserves a try. Lastly, the new dude lol?. A new [ wadaboy's advice column | Ask wadaboy A Question ]
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