Member Since: April 2, 2012
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Last Update: April 2, 2012
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So as my previous question,,i took your all advices,,,but you won't believe what happened,,so i told my husband about my feelings,,that i dont love him anymore,,but didn't told him about the other guy,,,so he didn't talk to me at least two days,,so after that we talked and he was all angry and shouting that i am too selfish,all im thinking is about me, i dont take his feelings seriously nor his family's,....and all im putting him on a really an awkward situation,of course i couldn't speak a word and thats it ....i mean his not even concerning my feelings,, im in a big mess,,i mean what should i do now!! (link)
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You have no business even considering this. Sex with someone else always seems great in the begining but bring in kids aand bills and a little mix of ordinary. Do either of you have children, if so this is even worse now you are bringing your innocent children into a relationship that seems soo great because he makes your toes curl! Noyt fair that s the problem these days. Here is the ultimate test tell your lover you want to give your marriage a fair try. Now both men are hurting, I only care about your husbands feelings because he did not ask for this bs you are handing him. See if your lover will still love you enough to wait. If he does not this means he is selfish and true love is not selfish it is unconditional. Im not saying it wont be painful for him. Are you and this guy alone alot toghether? Does he wake up next to you when you have had a nasty cold or a case food poisoning. ? All these things you need to think about. Now you have to mend your husbands heart.There is a reason why you have not told him about the other Man it is because you are uncertain. Your marriage deserves a try. Lastly, the new dude lol?. A new
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It's like, there's still a part of me that worries about what society thinks. I'm black and like how I look, and who I am, and like this white guy, but a part of me feels embarrassed by it, and idk why. I'm attracted to guys with similar interests (regardless of culture), who are attractive, so I've crushed on guys from all over. I see us as all humans, and support love (whether it's with another guy of my culture or out) in general, and aren't racist at all, so why do I feel this way?
I think this is something that prevents me from getting into relationships. I'm 17 and have never been with anyone, and I feel like I have issues letting people getting close to me, because I'm afraid of rejection (and afraid of someone else being racist, when it's not like i'm ugly or anything, tbh). So I kind of shut them off early, even if I had a great connection with them before. And then I also fear possibly getting into a relationship, like how society would view it, if it's "unconventional". and in general, just like the idea of being in a relationship and showing PDA freaks me out. But if I'm with someone I really like why should I care what society thinks? Why do I feel this way when I know it is irrational? I know better, and yet my heart is afraid.
This is just complicated, and frustrating, please help (link)
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If you are considering this that MAN DESERVES A WOMAN WHO IS CONFIDENT AND SECURE. You also deserve to love who you want. Your life is soo short stand up and be a woman give him your all work that chocolate skin!! Show him what you are all about. Never allow anyone to tell you who is best for you. They are probably extremly miserable and they will love to bring you in as their company. Keep him chasing you mama! Practice going out with him first as friends and then work your way up the relationship ladder. Trust me you will see that it makes an easier transition. Allow yourself to be stared at. Breathe learn to enjoy his company and get lost in the moment only the two of you matter. If it helps at all i may bet a little catty but it may help if you give strangers a little something to really look at lol. This is of course after you guys have gone past the bff stage. Hopefully this helps.
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