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Missing someone
17/f
I have liked this guy since the end of my freshman year, more like off and on. I'm a senior right now. He's 19, he actually turned 20 today, and in college far away. I'll give you the whole story..sorry for it being long..
We've been good friends since then. I've been around him a lot since I'm best friends with his sister.
When I was a sophomore, he and I were close. I'd talk to him about everything and he'd help me with bf problems.
My junior year, I liked him a lot. We told each other we liked each other but he didn't know what to do cause he was going to college in the spring. We never really talked about it and then I got with another guy. He was angry, ect. But at that point I thought he wasn't interested in me anymore. Well I spent the night at my best friends house, and he and I had a moment and ended up making out..soo yeah.
Well eventually he left, we got in a fight over the phone, stopped talking for about 2 months, then he texted me and apologized.
He came back and we started up where we left off. Then he went back to college.
Okay..soo I miss him. We've been texting and he said he missed me, ect.
Guys like physical things. That's pretty much all we were except we talked all the time. I'm sure there were feelings there somewhere but it was a confusing friendship.
I always liked him but I'd keep it cool and act like it was nothing.
A couple weeks ago he texted me and we were talking. Somehow the subject came up about us and where we stood. I told him I'm not really into messing around anymore. He understood. At some point he asked why I couldn't see myself with him. I told him we wanted different things. He said he wants more than just physical things and told me he wished he dated me instead of just messing around.
I've dreamed of him being mine for a very, very long time. I don't know how to believe him. I feel like since I won't mess around with him that he won't come around and he's just saying that stuff. He is a good guy but I don't want to be fooled by all that. I'm graduating this year and I am going to that college.
I don't know what I'm supposed to do or what I'm supposed to say. I don't have the guts to ask him what's happening with us. Do you think he means what he says?
Sorry for the length. Thank you :)
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If he said that he doesn't only want physical things, and talks to you a lot about non physical things then it seems to me like he's in it for real.
Test out the waters, and see if you two can try something for a little while. It'll be a while until the summer before he comes home. If you're nervous to ask him what's happening with you two, wait for him to bring it up again. But, if I were you, i'd say, "hey can we talk about you saying you wished you'd date me." etc. If he really cares about you, he won't think it's weird or anything talk about it. Seems like he does care about you, and you def care about him. Good Luck, hope I helped!
-Bri
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