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Love life!
Sometimes I go out with my friends and seem to catch him in there. today we were just having a conversation and he didn't even ask me oh you want to stay with me home and watch a movie. he just left to the party with his friends. I just feel a little embarrass because since a lot of people know we are going out, they are probably going to wonder "oh where is hes girl, I wonder why hes never with her" do you get what am saying. sometimes i feel as if i didn't have a boyfriend. I just don't know what to do. and i don't even know what he does at those party's. what do you suggest i should do ? :'(
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Well if it bothers you have you tried telling him how you feel? Communication is the number thing you need in a relationship and with out that its not going to work. Tell him how its making you feel. A lot of guys like their space and like to be able to hang out with their friends. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 and half years and I love him dearly. I push him to hang out with his friends because I want him to socialize. It's not healthy if he's just with me all the time you know? I don't know how long you've been with him but if its over a year than the 'honeymoon phase' is over. Maybe what you should do is start hanging out with your friends. Make yourself busy and maybe he'll start realizing he should hang out with you a little more. The first thing you should do though is to talk to him! Good luck!
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Communication
Your boyfriend doesnt know how you feel so you need to tell him. I understand why you wouldn't want to, you don't want to seem needy or annoy him but if he cares about you he'll hear you out and make an effort to make you feel less left out.
So I suggest the next time you talk to him on the phone or in person tell him there's something that's been bothering you and if you could talk to him about it (do not text about this, it's easy to take something differently in a text message, talking is more clear).
Other than that just work on your communication. Us guys aren't very good on picking up on stuff like girls are, this doesn't mean that we don't care, just means that sometimes we need to be told; what happens after that shows whether we care or not
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