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Friends with Benefits
19/f
About six months ago I got out of a 3 year long relationship. He was my first for everything and he goes to the same university that I do. For the past 3 or so months, I have had a form of friends with benefits with a guy who is also one of my best friends.
The problem naturally is I do somewhat like the guy but with school ending in less than a month there would be no real point trying to start a long distance relationship. I am at the point now that I have sort of given up on needing a relationship and just want to have fun with someone I trust. He is the type of person who I can have fun with, without worrying about things being awkward afterwards. Only thing is that our makeout sessions tend to be very spaced out and always whenever he makes the move. I feel if I were to he may react badly and I am scared to. Should I talk to him about this?
The way I see it, there is only a month left of school and I'd like to spend more time with him, even if it just means in a physical way. Should I just make a move myself or should I just talk to him and see if he agrees?
Any advice will do
Thanks
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I don't know your friend with benefits, but I don't think a lot of people enjoy always making the first move (I could be wrong). Try it some day. Maybe not full-fledged but initiate a kiss or something and gauge his reaction. If you two are very comfortable, this shouldn't be much of a problem. And talking about it shouldn't hurt either.
If you do not want to start anything serious, that's up to you but this thing you have with your friend could be a rebound relationship. Sex to get over the ex. It is only possible, I'm not saying this is the case. (:
Be freeeeee! (: But don't lose track of your studies haha. Hopefully the end to this FWB & school isn't ugly.
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