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Dealing with sexual abuse (Sorry kind of long)


Posted Monday April 20 2009, 6:31 am

Okay. I'm 25yrs old. Married. I came across this site while googling "How do I know if I was sexually abused". I've wondered for years. The details are fuzzy. I don't know what I really remember, or what I've made up to cope with it, or cope with myself. I've only told one person in my life EVER. My mom always told me she thought I showed signs of being sexually abused. I always assured her I wasn't. Too ashamed I guess. After reading tonight I've kind of decided that the answer is most likely yes, but I don't know what to do now? Do I really want to know ALL the details? I do want to deal with this... Everything just says "Talk to a professional". For one, that cost money I don't have. I just don't think I could ever ta...

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College


Posted Monday April 20 2009, 2:13 am

Can you own a business with only 2 years of college experience?

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Mystery shoppers


Posted Monday April 20 2009, 1:59 am

Are they legit? Is anybody or does anybody know a mystery shopper? Any websites that are legit? Any info. welcomed!

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hillary duff's teeth


Posted Monday April 20 2009, 1:41 am

i heard that hillary chipped her tooth
so she fixed her teeth but it was too big
than she shrunk it i think
so what did she do?
i heard it wasnt surgery but it was something else
did she have surgery?
if she didnt what was it called that she did?

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Let's Boneeee


Posted Monday April 20 2009, 12:30 am

What does 'Let's Bone' mean? I assume it means let's f*ck? haha, i hear it in this one song all the time and i'm not entirely sure.

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Hair cut


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:50 pm

I want to get my hair cut to my shoulders and pretty blonde, it's blonde already but more blonde. But how blonde is too blonde? Because I know some people are like "that girl is such a blonde, and like wow look how bright her hair is" etc...

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being sexy; &friends with benefits.


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:48 pm

19/f

how can a girl be really sexy? ive heard confidence, but i mean there has got to be more than that. what can a girl to do make a guy go crazy?

ALSO..dont preach me or anything about this just please answer the question: me and my guy friend have been attracted to each other and have wanted to hook up for a while now but never had and that was my fault. i havent talked to him in like a month, how can i tell him i want him now and want to hook up with him without being SO random. like if i just texted him and said...lets have sex? it might be a little weird. any of you girls have something you say to a guy whose your "friend with benefits" or something of that sort that lets him know you want him!!

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Eat out.


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:47 pm

My boyfriend never wants to eat me out, he used to, but now he's just like "everyone at school makes fun of people that do it", and he says it's kind of gross. But I love it. What should I do?

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Golf


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:45 pm

I play golf, and I want to know what types of clubs are like the best brands you can have, and ratings on brands for things like gloves, clothes, jackets, etc..
By the way, I'm a girl

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Me and my boyfriend


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:44 pm

We have been dating for 7 months, we are true and strong. We don't fight about stupid little things, we don't do drugs or drink or party like a normal teenager. We truly want to grow old together. We talk every chance we get, we never grow annoyed of each other, and we never get sick of hanging out. We have a promise to never break up and truly try and solve the problem. But since I'm a teenager, I feel immature, but I'm not. And I can sense that people think we wont last (adults).
Is it possible that we will one day be married, and have a happy ever after?

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Chances


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:42 pm

If the chances of becoming pregnant are around 25% likely each month, would it be 75% likely after 3 months?
Is that how it works?

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the ex


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:41 pm

So I have veen talking to this guy and we are pretty much together but havent made if official. Well he up in disappeard for a week he finally called sayin he worked a lot the past week and that he found out he might be a daddy. The girl is like a month in a half pregnant which was before me and him so I am not gonna judge him for it. But this girl is only like 17 still in high school she told him she would get an abortion but he said if its his he dont want her to. She thinks that because shes pregnant and its supposed to be his they are gonna be together but he wants to be with me. He idea is for her to have it then try and get full custody because she doesnt really want it unless shes with him. How should I take this?

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Painful


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:24 pm

I have been having sex a lot with my boyfriend since November of this year, recently after sex, it's burning and stinging especially when I go to the bathroom. What could this be?
Today after sex it was almost unbearable. It feels good during, but not after.

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Can't Get Over Him


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 10:59 pm

Ugh. He was perfect, but ended up cheating on me with his ex.

I just can't get over him. I broke up with him last Saturday and EVERY night I dream about him-- us getting back together, arguing, or being happy together. I know he doesn't want me back because he HASN'T called or anything. I can still smell him (in a good way, lol), I can't get his kisses out of my head or the way he held me or the laughs we had, and especially his smile. This is my first heartbreak it SURE hurts a lot. I'm SO SICK of love songs, every song reminds me of him. I'm athletic and try to stay busy, but nothing is working. I do NOT want to talk to any other guys because I'm not over him/I'm scared of getting hurt again. I don't know what to do!
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Credit Cards


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 10:32 pm

I was wondering, if someone over the age of 18 gets a credit card account, i know they can add additional cards, but can you get a card in someones name that is under the age of 18 as long as there is permission?

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Photoshop


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 10:12 pm

I love editing pictures and editing photography pictures i take, but photobucket doesn't have all the things I need on it. What photoshop can i buy thats around $60 dollars? It needs to be good and have a lot of features ? It needs to be easy to use too.

Please and Thank You!

lyss.

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Worried


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 10:08 pm

Well to start off...my best friend, who goes to a different high school than me, has...changed. I mean, she's still very nice and the most kind-hearted person I know and we've been BFFs for almost 6 years now. But, lately she's been doing bad things that she normally wouldn't do. Just a few days ago we were talking to each other on the phone (which we haven't done for almost a whole year now), and I asked how high school is going for her (we're both in freshmen year). She says it's going great and I'm glad she likes it...but what concerns me the most is that she started drinking and skipping a lot of days from school to hang out with her friends. I was really shocked and surprised because she always talks about not doing those things. But w...

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I Feel Stuck. What Should i do?


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 10:08 pm

Ive liked this girl for a really long time, all through school since middle school and now at the end of HS, but she doesn't like me back and i know this for a fact so why can't i let it go and move on? I try and try but something has a hold on me. What should i do? I know i should find someone else but its hard.

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is being quiet weird?


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 9:52 pm

i've always been a really shy and quiet person. people who don't even know me think i'm weird because of it, am i? i'm not unfriendly or antisocial, i talk when people talk to me, i'm just not always the first one to speak up. i'm not very confident but when you get to know me i open up to people. i'm afraid of how other people percieve me and it makes me shy sometimes. is there something wrong with me? am i weird because of this? or is it their problem if they don't like me?

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Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 9:35 pm

ok well. me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago, i ended it... i was prob the best girlfriend i could ever be.. like not to sound cocky of myself. we had been fighting for awhile about stuff, like he one time kissed a girl so cheated on me, and then other things "rumors"were told to me along our relationship.. that might have or might have not been true. Either way im not a stupid girl, so eventually i ended it. I wont lie, ususaly when we were together i could def tell how much he loved me, and some things he did for me... but a couple months ago before our relationship ended.. he had been drinking a lot, and it bothered me so much, causehe would drink everyday and somtimes by himself.. idk, so when i broke up with him he got w...

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