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being sexy; &friends with benefits.
19/f
how can a girl be really sexy? ive heard confidence, but i mean there has got to be more than that. what can a girl to do make a guy go crazy?
ALSO..dont preach me or anything about this just please answer the question: me and my guy friend have been attracted to each other and have wanted to hook up for a while now but never had and that was my fault. i havent talked to him in like a month, how can i tell him i want him now and want to hook up with him without being SO random. like if i just texted him and said...lets have sex? it might be a little weird. any of you girls have something you say to a guy whose your "friend with benefits" or something of that sort that lets him know you want him!!
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Wow...
I just read the poster below me's answer. Wow. That looks like 50s "how to be a good housewife" propaganda.
My girlfriend curses like a drunken coked out sailor, dresses on the classy side of revealing, and makes sexual banter with everyone she comes across who isn't creepy or assholeish. And I love her for it.
God help the world that was filled with soft spoken proper women who never wore something that showed a little leg.
Ignore her, please.
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"Don't preach"
Thats teen-speak for "I've made my decision and don't want to be told how stupid I am, I already know"
Sweetheart, you're going to fuck yourself up in the head. You want to drive him crazy, you like him, and if you fuck him and all you are to him is sex, it is going to hurt you.
Guaran-fucking-teed.
If you want to fuck him, be blunt about it. Put on something cute and ask him to go home with you. Be aggressive, it shouldn't be hard to manage.
I'd suggest something else. Why would you fuck him when you definitely like him enough to support more? Do you not know how guys work? If you don't require anything except being alive and meeting some arbitrary standard of "cool" and "sexually attractive" to have sex with a guy, guys aren't going to react well when you develop feelings and suddenly sex has strings it didn't have before.
To answer your "how do I be sexy" question, the answer is again confidence. Well, confidence and experience. If you're as inexperienced as you sound, you can throw out all the moves you want and its still going to look like a girl who doesn't know what she's doing trying to be sexy.
Don't try to pretend you know what you're doing if you aren't. Ask a guy what he likes, give it a shot, be open to new things, and if an idea occurs to you, talk to him about it.
This is why relationship is better than friends with benefits. Friends with benefits doesn't usually include alot of talking or discussion, it usually just devolves into "I'm horny, I'll call them now I guess"
Do you really feel like being a walking fleshlight?
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i wont prech to ill tell you how.How to Look Graceful
By Tena Green, eHow Member
I'VE GOT IT! Rate: (8 Ratings)
There are people in the world who are truly beautiful but born clumsy. This fact can cause some of us to feel self conscious or have low self esteem; but there are ways to cover looking inept and look beautiful, graceful and balanced instead. Looking awkward can be avoided. You just need to know how to look graceful even when you’re not. Try these steps to attain that graceful beauty we all desire.
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Laugh at yourself. Not only does laughing make a person look beautiful, but laughter is contagious and brightens a person's day. When you make someone laugh that is how they will remember you, not as a lumbering ox.
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2When you run into a wall keep going, don’t stop and make a scene. Chances are witnesses will simply smile and forget about it.
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3Take dance, yoga or ballet; anything that will help with balance and coordination.
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4When you drop something remember it isn’t your clumsiness they’re considering, it’s your butt, so stay in shape and take your time standing up!
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5Make up a funny story about how you dropped that cup of water on purpose. If you manage to make a joke of it they will laugh at the joke and not at you.
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6Always appear confident. Remember, confidence is
is attractive. Grace and beauty are in the eyes of the beholder.
How to Be More Graceful
By JMKnudson, eHow Member
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There is grace in disposition or acts and there is physical grace. Here we will discuss the latter and how to be more graceful. Natural physical grace isn't something everyone is born with. Many of us tend to rush, slouch and move with less grace than we'd like. You can be more graceful by being aware of your body and training yourself to move in a more self-assured manner.
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Stand tall. Bad posture is the anathema of physical grace. Practice standing tall, with your shoulders back and abdomen pulled in. Not only does this make you appear more graceful, it elongates your body and has a thinning affect.
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2Slow down. Many of us rush through our day moving quickly from task to task and place to place. Slow down and become aware of your surroundings. Graceful people don’t rush into a room looking harried, they move slowly and purposefully. Slowing down will also help you avoid falls, spills and other less graceful mishaps.
How to Be an Attractive Woman
The power of attraction is a very useful thing. There is a common misconception that physical appearance completely determines attractiveness, but this is simply not true. If you want people to be drawn to you, there are a variety of things you can do as a woman that will have others flocking to you in time.
1.Love yourself. You can be pretty but still unattractive if you don't start to love yourself. Nobody will care how shiny and thick your hair is, for example, if you keep complaining about your waist size. Confidence is a powerful attractant, so you need to learn how to be confident.
2.Be distinctly you. Be yourself. If you ever observe people at a party or any social gathering, you'll always see the majority of guys drawn to women with unique (but not intimidating) personalities. It's never a plain Jane, following the herd, who they all gravitate to, now is it? So ask yourself, is there anything you could improve about your personality or who you are to make yourself more interesting and fun to talk to?
3.Be healthy. Eyes take kindly to a woman who takes care of herself, and that means finding a happy medium for your weight, eating well, getting enough sleep and exercising. Plus, being healthy makes you more energetic, as well as adding to your confidence--who can resist that?
4.Take care of your skin. Blemishes (especially on your face) can be very distracting. Wear sunblock daily to prevent future wrinkles and sunspots. Wash your face regularly, and apply makeup to accentuate your complexion.
5.Be hygienic. Maintain yourself so that you always smell and look fresh and lovely. Take showers, brush your teeth after every meal, wear clean clothes, etc.
6.Keep your hair healthy and styled. They say that the hair is the portrait of the face, so it has to look great. Greasy, frizzy or damaged hair is always unattractive. Always comb and brush your hair very well, every day. Get a haircut or style that fits your facial shape.
7.Be nice. A rude person turns ugly in the eyes of whoever sees her, but a nice person turns into a prettier person in the eyes of everyone who sees her. Try to be nice to everyone, but know to defend yourself against any rude attitudes, since letting people walk all over you is not very attractive, now is it?yourself against any rude attitudes, since letting people walk all over you is not very attractive, now is it?
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Smile. Don't walk around all the time with a frown or even a neutral expression on your face. Even a little smile will make you more attractive. What else could be more inviting and approachable? All in all, be readable. You don't have to be predictable, but for goodness sake, do not keep a poker face when it comes to emotions. Guys do not like to feel unsure. As bad as it is asking for directions, asking a woman how she feels can be dangerous! This is why so many guys won't do it if they can't already tell if a girl is into them or not.
9.Be willing to participate. Whether it's talking, eating, gaming, dancing, or snorkeling, it's only polite to join in. A person who just sits there watching might as well be wearing a flashing neon sign that says "I'm a boring person who doesn't like fun!" However, this does NOT mean you should join in drinking or partying if you're not into those things.
10.Be capable of carrying on a conversation. You don't necessarily have to have something in common with a guy for him to take interest in you but if he tries to talk to you and you just stand there, he's going to move on. A good conversation starter is to ask his opinion about something superficial, such as whether INXS picked the right guy or if the nice weather will hold out through the weekend. Important: avoid asking for input about your looks, such as your outfit or your hair. Keep the conversation light. Above all don't put yourself down, it's a huge turnoff.
How to Be a Lady
A lady out and about dresses nicely and has good posture.From its roots in British nobility as the female equivalent of "Lord", the term "lady" carries a connotation of elegance and class. If you'd like to be thought of as a lady, they key is to mix traditional feminine ideals with modern reality in a way that works for you.
1.Dress the part: You don't have to wear a suit or dress but a lady always wears clean, coordinated clothing - free of wrinkles. No sweat pants! All clothes should fit properly - not too baggy, not too tight. Always wear underwear and a bra. One is not usually considered classy if she exposes an intimate body part. A lady will dress for her body type and not try to get ahead using her physical attributes.
2.Cleanliness is key: Shower on a regular basis. Blow-dry and style hair before leaving your house. Apply a subtle amount of perfume. Apply a modest amount of make-up or just enough to cover skin imperfections and to accent your strong points. Your beauty should look effortless. Smile!
3.Choose your words wisely: What you say and how you say it are two very important factors in exuding class. Always speak at a soft to moderate tone--you shouldn't need to raise your voice. If you're dealing with a person who won't listen unless you speak forcefully, then they aren't worth dealing with. If you have nothing good to say then don't say anything at all - take that to heart! Cursing is also inappropriate.
4.Actions speak louder than words: Now that you look the part, you should act it too. For example, pull your skirt under your legs when sitting down. Always sit with legs crossed or together. Do not overindulge in food or alcohol at a party or business function. Gluttony or drunkenness shows one's lack of self-control and can cause a loss of respect or potentially embarrassing moment in front of your peers. Burping or passing gas in the presence of others is bad etiquette as well.
5.Sharpen your mind: Keep yourself informed of world events, politics, selected movies, plays, and music. Being cultured expands one's knowledge and interests, while opening doors to stimulating conversations with new people that can develop into meaningful business or romantic relationships.
6.Practice martyr-free modesty: In everything she does, a lady will acknowledge those who helped her before she takes any credit for herself. A lady will not flaunt herself, her valuables, or her accomplishments. A good reputation can surpass all of those things. Do not correct others unless they ask your advice. Do not act like you are better than anyone else. A lady is not self-absorbed. But be careful not to seem overly modest--do not be weak and submissive. You are too intelligent and classy for that.
7.Never lose your cool: Don't let people get under your skin, no matter how much they try. Keep your composure. Express your surprise or disappointment at someone's behavior in a gentle way to show that their actions have affected you and to show that you have feelings, or else people might think you're cold.
8.Be well mannered. Manners are a necessity to being ladylike. Read up on books that teach etiquette and always be nice to everyone, but at the same time, don't be a doormat.
Be well mannered. Manners are a necessity to
How to Walk in High Heels
Wearing high heels can make you stand so that your legs looks slimmer, your stomach is flatter, and your femininity is unstoppable. It can also do wonders for your stride, but walking in high heels is not a natural talent--it's learned skill, perfected by practice and discipline.
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[edit] Steps1.Start with small heels. If you've never walked in heels, you should start small and work your way up. There are many heels to choose from, varying in height, thickness and shape.
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If you are just beginning, then you should probably start off with kitten heels before you begin to strut in those spiky, 4-inch tall shoes.
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Move up to high wedge heels, where the heel is fully attached to the sole of the shoe, giving you increased balance and comfort while still allowing you to get used to having the heel of your foot placed high above the level of your toes.
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Dare to wear high stiletto heels (also known as spike heels) when you are an expert.
2.Match your heels to the occasion. Don't torture yourself. Your heels won't look so glamorous if you're wearing a grimace of pain on your face. Will you be walking or standing for long periods of time? Or are you going to a dinner party where you'll be sitting for most of the evening? The more you'll be standing and walking, the shorter your heel should be.
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Test the heels before you buy them. Stand in your shoes on a hard floor with your knees straight, and see if you can raise yourself on toes at least an inch. If you can't, the heels are too high, and you shouldn't wear them. If you try to wear heels this tall, you'll end up walking with your knees bent forward, and that's a good way to get very sore, not to mention looking rather daft.
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Heel first, toes secondTake baby steps. Take small, slow steps, making sure not to bend your knees any more than you normally would. Put your heel down first, then your toes (don't plop them down at the same time, and don't put your toes down first). For extra balance, put one foot about a foot directly ahead of the other.
◦You'll notice that heels tend to shorten your stride a bit. The taller the heel, the shorter the stride ends up being.
◦Walking in heels will also give your hips a side-to-side sway. This cannot and should not be avoided; when worked correctly, it grants a graceful, womanly stride.
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Practice. Wear your heels for a day around the house before you wear them out. This will not only allow you to get used to wearing them, but it will also break in your shoes. Make sure you practice doing all the things you would normally hope this helps
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