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hes leaving to college and i dont know how to say what i feel about him
Posted Wednesday August 29 2012, 8:34 pm
Hey . My name is Stephanie im 16. I'm fallinq hard for a guy (he's 18) I've know him for about 6 years but started actually being friends for 2. When summer began about 3 months ago we started hanging out & going to the movies, he would take me bowlinq & we went to knotts berry farm together & stuff . We met because we go to the same church & our parents are friends so after church we always get to go out and eat all together as a big group and its great ! One time when we went to the movies we started holdinq hands and we kissed , he told me he liked me& I liked him and now every time we go out its the same he kisses me & we act like a couple ..People are always saying were a cute couple but actually he hasn't ask...
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Should I keep paying his bills?
Posted Wednesday August 29 2012, 8:30 pm
So, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and when he was working, he paid for some of my bills. He quit his job about a year ago due to the stress of the job and hasn't been able to find another one since. Since then I've been paying for his bills including his car insurance, internet, and phone. People often tell me that I shouldn't, or at least should cancel the insurance and internet.
I feel like it's a loyalty thing. He paid for some of my bills when I wasn't working so isn't it the right thing to do the same for him?
Also, when I talk to him about it he gets upset because it's more stress that he can't find work, and feels that things will be tougher for us if I cancel some of the stuff or don't p...
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What did my ex mean by this?
Posted Wednesday August 29 2012, 1:10 pm
So me and my ex of four years (off and on) broke up about three weeks ago because we couldn't handle the long distance relationship. I'll admit I was torn up at first cause this guy was my best friend and every time I meet someone it's nothing like what we had. Anyways when we broke up he pretty much told me not to talk to him again if I was going to get mad if he started dating other girls and of course I stopped talking to him but I felt like he was rude about it.. Well last night he texted me asking about something random that happened on the news in my area I didn't reply but then he sent me this "I know we aren't suppose to talk or whatever but I know we won't ever be together again so just talking won't hurt unless you can't let ...
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Is he cheating?
Posted Wednesday August 29 2012, 12:38 pm
Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 years, i have never had any clues that he has cheated or anything but the other night i saw on his phone that he had texted someone " you have a sexy voice" and alot of text after that like where are you going, i wish i could go and things like that, so when he came home i freaked and he said that this random number calls his phone all the time and text him asking for roger so he told them what his name was and said that he was just messing with them.... im not to sure if i should believe it or what, what got me the most was that he got anger immediately, and then turned it around on me that i should not be going through his phone, and let me just say that first off i never go th...
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I want my ex-boss but he is married
Posted Tuesday August 28 2012, 9:11 pm
Over the summer, I worked as an intern and my Manager was pretty young for his position -- he is 26 and I am 22. My internship has been over for about a month now.
We have always had a close relationship and over the summer we had a couple of "moments", I guess you could call them. But they were completely innocent.
His wife lives in a different city where she works. He has told me a couple times that he doesn't know if it will work out between them.
Well, last night, I ran into him at a bar and I was really upset about something so we started talking and we went back to his apartment to talk and hang out. We are friends so it wasn't weird that I went.
It got to be late...
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Another fight
Posted Tuesday August 28 2012, 10:31 am
We hit another rock in the road. He forgave me for our last fight, but this one, I'm torn over. Theres a kid who texts me and flirts. I have asked him to stop but its not my fault he wont listen. And I made fun of his ex girlfriend in front of his friends, I was jealous. And when I tried to explain about it, I asked why he cared so much about his ex. The fight escalated to where he even broke up with me, but we decided we love each other and want to make things right. But he doesn't trust me anymore.
I realize it's my fault, that I need to fix it. I love him, and I'm willing.
I need help, how can make things right? Please, I'm in tears and all I can do is hope.
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waiting till mariage
Posted Monday August 27 2012, 11:52 pm
im 17/f. i meet this guy a few days ago, he is amazing. seriously everything ive been waiting for and more, the best thing is he feels the same way. He is very religious but, not that ,that's a bad thing so am i. but last night he told me it would be unwise to date me cause im not catholic. he isnt a virgin and either am i, yet he wants to wait till marriage for sex. im not against that, i actually like it. but he thinks because i dont have the same religious views as him that he couldnt date me, cause i dont have the same views on marriage ( he dates people he intends to marry ) i really like him, and i dont want to be discharged because of my beliefs... what do i do?
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Pregnant and in need of guidance: Help! I need advise
Posted Monday August 27 2012, 6:00 pm
Dear readers i am a 28 yr old female in desparate need of an advise or someone to hear me out. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend of 1/6 from the begining we had trust issues cause he would do shady things like tex his ex and delete messages. For a whole year if it wasnt one thing it was another. Now this year 2 months ago i found out he cheated so now that has ruined our relationship. Cause although i forgave him i dont trust him. I work from morning till night at a boutique store and he works all day and a half at a deli. Bottom line we see each other about 20 minutes in a day. We are falling apart. The one day of the week that i get off instead of being happy we spend it fighting;,( i dont know what to do. I have a very strong self...
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Should I let go or hold on?
Posted Sunday August 26 2012, 9:54 pm
So I dont really know what to think or do and I'm hoping I can find some insight here.
Ill try to shorten it as much as possible. My boyfriend of two years who I am in love with and has already given me a ring has severe depression. We are both in our 20s and he realized he has very serious mental issues about 6 months ago that include anger (non violent) and he cannot enjoy anything anymore, including our relationship. While we talked about this and I know it is true, he admitted it to me, he also said that he still loves me and wants to be with me and only me, he just doesn't know where he is in his life or where his life is going.
He is getting professional help so he is on the track of getting better, but ...
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Is it weird that I'm only really attracted to nerdy sort of guys? and etc
Posted Sunday August 26 2012, 11:55 am
I mean, attractive ones, but they're sometimes the sort of guys who only get more attractive as I get to know them and then it's like I see them in a different way. cause it's easy to just see some jock and acknowledge he has good features but when he's dead inside that's like a total turn off, and I don't get why a lot of girls go for that, unless it's cause they're dead inside, too. the only problem is that these sorts of guys I like tend to be shy about the whole dating arena so what would I have to do to encourage one of these guys to ask me out? I like guys who are generally quiet in public (not really talkative like me, and definitely not cocky, or at least not overbearingly so) but with me I'd want him to generally be the dominant on...
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Boyfriend Left for College
Posted Saturday August 25 2012, 11:46 am
19/f
So yesterday, my boyfriend of a year and a half went to a college that is an hour and a half away. He is a freshman and i am a sophomore that is commuting to a community college. The problem is, the college he is at always has horrible traffic that would make visits really difficult. Both of us have been preparing for this for a while now, and we know that we are going to do whatever it takes to make it work because we love each other more than anything. It's just, yesterday made me really nervous because i barely heard from him at all. And when he finally called me, he was all frustrated because he couldn't find a private corner to talk to me in. I had to rush through the details of my day and so did he, and it left me with a r...
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What does it mean when a guy calls a girl a Ferrari? (Please help)
Posted Friday August 24 2012, 11:37 pm
Hey there(: well today, my boyfriends friends were apparently calling me a farrairi and other fancy car names, and he said it made him mad when they did that. I just really want to know what it means!! Please help thanks(:
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Have I lost a friend forever?
Posted Friday August 24 2012, 10:10 pm
I made out with one of my best friends one weekend. We didn't talk about it the following week.
Then the next weekend we both went to a party and I ended up staying at another friend's house and drunkenly had sex for the first time. The asshole didn't even use anything.
I told my best friend straight away and he stopped talking and looking at me altogether.
I then completely killed everything by drunk texting him 'I hate you'. I then went on to apologise and called myself a 'disgusting whore', to which he replied 'stop guilt tripping me', 'I can't even look at him (the guy I did it with) the same' before he said to 'never text or call' again and to 'go to hell'.
So I deleted his number to do just as he said. Abou...
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cuny portal. college/ love life
Posted Friday August 24 2012, 6:57 pm
20 f
Hey guys so this is probably going to sound really dumb to you guys but I need help. I took 2 years off college because I wanted to save up the money before going. And all of my friends were already going and I basically felt like a bum. Some of my "friends" would make fun of me and stuff so I just told then that I went back to school last semester. That was a big fat lie. I know I shouldn't have lied but I was desperate. El last year I met my current boyfriend by one of my friends. And she told him I was in school and he would always say how much he loved that I worked and did school so I felt horrible. I finally applied and im an upcoming freshman this September. Im really excited! But my boyfriend is done with coll...
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I Miss Him: he couldn't live without me and 7 months later he dumps me?
Posted Friday August 24 2012, 11:15 am
I'm sorry if this is long but I really need help...
My exhoydroend broke up with me due to different religions.... We are both strong about our religions however 7 months of being together I tried multiple times to end it but he would fight until I didn't end it, he would cry whenever we had to think about ending it... He convinced me that we would work out and we would last. Few days ago he broke up with me due to religion... He was crying whilst breaking up he said they he was being really
Selfish towards me and he knew I would be miserable and that he didn't want to let go but he was doing it for my benefit. I fought and fought but he still broke up with me. I feel low because I stopped so low and lowers my pride but he kep...
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stuck between my lover and my possible babys father
Posted Friday August 24 2012, 12:43 am
Hello. I am 18 years old and have 2 month old twins, the father of my twins left while i was pregnant with them. recently he told me he wants to get back into me and his babies life and wants us to be a family. we are not together but working on it. but on top of this i have recently slept with another boy and could possibly be pregnant by him. i really want to be with my twins father and we have even talked about our wedding but i know if he finds out about this other bot he is going to leave me. i honestly do not know what to do, HELP PLEASE!
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Boyfriend / pregnancy: How can i leave him? Or what should i do? Im 3 weeks before giving birth.
Posted Friday August 24 2012, 12:13 am
Hi, im a 19 year old girl, i been with these guy for a year, as a couple. But i know him since i was born, we were raised together. His 24 years old. Im also 37 weeks pregnant. We been living together for 6 months. The problem is, that i want to leave him but i dont know how. Im tired of everything. He spends the whole day critizing me and humiliating me. He berly touches me. He is not romantic, he doesnt even pay for my stuff when we go out. I have to pay for my part. He ignores me when ever he wants. And he thinks im his freaking maide. Point blank he treats me like shit. Theres nothing good i can say about him. He blames me for every little thing even if is not related to me. He berly shows any affection with me being pregnant. The only ...
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My Girlfriend Says That She Doesn't Deserve To Date Me
Posted Thursday August 23 2012, 10:58 pm
Tonight, my girlfriend of 4 months has told me that she doesn't deserve to date me. She has had some rather rough relationships where abuse (not physical but mental abuse) was involved. She also has the genital herpes STD, and she's not a virgin either and I'm still one. We are both 26 years old as well. But anyways, when she told me this, I did feel hurt and even angry that she would say this to me. Now usually like every month, she talks about her past. However, its getting to a point where her complaining about her past is beginning to frustrate me. Now I haven't gone through the things in my life that my girlfriend has gone through. Often it can be hard for me to help her too. We did date for a while back in 2010 for about 4 mo...
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He's leaving... im scared
Posted Thursday August 23 2012, 4:43 am
I've been friends with this guy for about 10 months now, and i've been sleeping with him for about 4/5. When we first started sleeping together, we were still really close friends for a long time, and it was great because we spent time together as friends and the slept together on the side. When his friends came back from uni (he's 22 and taking a year out, i'm 17) he pretty much ditched me as a friend, and just slept with me. I feel like he's used me, not for sex but for a friend until someone better came along.
Anyway... he's going back to uni in September, and i'm so scared. I'm going to be on my own again, and it's going to be worse than when his other friends came home because he wont be here at all. I know it sounds bad...
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Cute and flirty texts to send him.
Posted Wednesday August 22 2012, 11:18 pm
What are some cut and flirty text messages i can send to my boyfriend to make him blush or feel good? Nothing too cheesey tho.
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