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Is it weird that I'm only really attracted to nerdy sort of guys? and etc
I mean, attractive ones, but they're sometimes the sort of guys who only get more attractive as I get to know them and then it's like I see them in a different way. cause it's easy to just see some jock and acknowledge he has good features but when he's dead inside that's like a total turn off, and I don't get why a lot of girls go for that, unless it's cause they're dead inside, too. the only problem is that these sorts of guys I like tend to be shy about the whole dating arena so what would I have to do to encourage one of these guys to ask me out? I like guys who are generally quiet in public (not really talkative like me, and definitely not cocky, or at least not overbearingly so) but with me I'd want him to generally be the dominant one, if that makes sense. I just feel like I just put myself in this weird situation cause sometimes I can tell that some guys like me.. but I'm definitely not going to make the first direct move, even though I think I'm giving them pretty good clues (just naturally). or did those guys really not like me, if they didn't take the chance to ask me out? or they were just too afraid and just kept things to themselves? cause it's not like i'd just shut someone's genuine offer like that, especially if we had been friends already
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no way is that wierd at all! every girl has a type. just dont overdo it, though. your smart to be friends with the guys first, because I know a girl who -literally- had sex with a guy she barely knew, and asked out a guy after 2 hours of talking to him! please, please (!) dont be like her, it'll ruin you. just be friends, and dont flirt to quickly, just be friends with a few guys for a while (but not to long or itll be awkward if you become like best friends) and then choose your pick and hopefully it'll work out :)
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