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Pregnant and in need of guidance: Help! I need advise
Dear readers i am a 28 yr old female in desparate need of an advise or someone to hear me out. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend of 1/6 from the begining we had trust issues cause he would do shady things like tex his ex and delete messages. For a whole year if it wasnt one thing it was another. Now this year 2 months ago i found out he cheated so now that has ruined our relationship. Cause although i forgave him i dont trust him. I work from morning till night at a boutique store and he works all day and a half at a deli. Bottom line we see each other about 20 minutes in a day. We are falling apart. The one day of the week that i get off instead of being happy we spend it fighting;,( i dont know what to do. I have a very strong self will and so does he so we always clash. What scares me the most is im 2 months pregnant and instead of taking it easy and being happy. Instead i think we no longer love each other. As im writing this tex im crying because i am in so much pain. I had a rough childhood and for that reason i want my baby to have a better life than i did. But the way things are going i think ill be seeing myself as a single parent. Any good advise will help. And thank you for your time
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be good with your bf and let him see you the best girl or mabye he cheated because you can't see him enough
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It's difficult. But you must consider your child. If your child is female, you don't want her growing up believing that this is how a relationship is suppose to be. And if it's a boy, you want him growing up knowing how to properly treat a lady. Being a single mother isn't always easy, but it can be done. I know many single mothers. One of my friends has FOUR children, and raising them on her own. But in relationships, without trust, there can't be real love. So if you wish to truly stay with him, work out your problems. I can't say what you did was wrong, (staying with him after all that he's done), because everyone has their reasons, but you have to think about your child. If being a single mother is all you can do, then so be it. There are organizations that help single mothers. Public aid for example helps with food and may even help with cash assistance. Just look into all your options just in case. Also, there are other places than can help you get started with diapers, baby foods, clothes, and such. I hope things work out for the best.
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