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He's leaving... im scared
I've been friends with this guy for about 10 months now, and i've been sleeping with him for about 4/5. When we first started sleeping together, we were still really close friends for a long time, and it was great because we spent time together as friends and the slept together on the side. When his friends came back from uni (he's 22 and taking a year out, i'm 17) he pretty much ditched me as a friend, and just slept with me. I feel like he's used me, not for sex but for a friend until someone better came along.
Anyway... he's going back to uni in September, and i'm so scared. I'm going to be on my own again, and it's going to be worse than when his other friends came home because he wont be here at all. I know it sounds bad, but i'm quite a horny persona and it depresses me when he says no to sex too, so i will be terrible when i cant have any sex with him. We also agreed when we started this that when he comes home we'll just resume things as normal, but i feel like he's changed so much he wont want to. What do i do???
I feel like i love him and i'm scared to lose him, but a relationship is really not something i want right now.
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Sometimes the worst things that happen to us are those things in which years from now we will be grateful for. A common error we youngsters make is to only see how we feel now and not the fact that we will have a life ahead. The reason people date is to MARRY. Since you said you guys are just casually having sex then I suggest you end it because you seem to be nurturing feelings for him which seem that won't be returned back.
He might say he loves you but never listen to a mans mouth but rather observe his actions. And I love to have sex too but I'm a lesbian and I have a girlfriend so I can't get pregnant. Don't know how if to tell you to either stop having sex as to evade pregnancy(My Advice) or to have safe sex. If all you want is the sex then masturbate. Masturbating tends to feel better than sex anyways.
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