Member Since: August 24, 2012
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Last Update: August 24, 2012
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I've been friends with this guy for about 10 months now, and i've been sleeping with him for about 4/5. When we first started sleeping together, we were still really close friends for a long time, and it was great because we spent time together as friends and the slept together on the side. When his friends came back from uni (he's 22 and taking a year out, i'm 17) he pretty much ditched me as a friend, and just slept with me. I feel like he's used me, not for sex but for a friend until someone better came along.
Anyway... he's going back to uni in September, and i'm so scared. I'm going to be on my own again, and it's going to be worse than when his other friends came home because he wont be here at all. I know it sounds bad, but i'm quite a horny persona and it depresses me when he says no to sex too, so i will be terrible when i cant have any sex with him. We also agreed when we started this that when he comes home we'll just resume things as normal, but i feel like he's changed so much he wont want to. What do i do???
I feel like i love him and i'm scared to lose him, but a relationship is really not something i want right now. (link)
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Sometimes the worst things that happen to us are those things in which years from now we will be grateful for. A common error we youngsters make is to only see how we feel now and not the fact that we will have a life ahead. The reason people date is to MARRY. Since you said you guys are just casually having sex then I suggest you end it because you seem to be nurturing feelings for him which seem that won't be returned back.
He might say he loves you but never listen to a mans mouth but rather observe his actions. And I love to have sex too but I'm a lesbian and I have a girlfriend so I can't get pregnant. Don't know how if to tell you to either stop having sex as to evade pregnancy(My Advice) or to have safe sex. If all you want is the sex then masturbate. Masturbating tends to feel better than sex anyways.
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Hello, I am moving into college on Saturday. I am so nervous. I don't have a lot of friends, I have about 8 BEST friends and I do everything with them. Two of them are going to the same college as me and I know that should calm me down a little but I am so nervous that I won't make a lot of friends because I am kinda introverted and quiet around new people. I know, "make friends by getting involved" but this is my first year, I don't know right now how much I can handle so I'm not sure I will be involved in a lot of clubs and such this year. Any help from people who've been in my shoes would be so appreciated. Thank you! (link)
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Ok first of all friends aren't everything in this world. You are talking as if having no friends is something horrible. Why is it that you urge so much to have friends? Answer this to yourself. Was there a past event that made you think that having no friends is a bad thing?
I started this senior year with no friends. My best friends (as well as my girlfriend) moved out to another Country. We still talk each day and I miss her. What I've done is simply be grateful. I might not have friends, but on the bright side I have a lot of free time to study and my grades have gotten better. When I had my girlfriend around I wasn't able to concentrate on my studies and my grades lowered to the point I almost flunked in Math.
Now that my girlfriend is over at Florida I can concentrate in my studies, as well as her, and in our free times we can enjoy chatting together (in your case hanging out with friend).
Make it a habit to have conversations with classmates and your friends at least 3-5 times a day. Just remember to have a positive approach. Being positive attracts more positive thing and being negative attracts more negative things. Be positive and smile. :)
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I was away on a residential trip a few weeks ago and came back with insanely itchy toes. This goes beyond your average itch; they were literally itchy all the time, and it was impossible to ignore. I spoke to my mum about it, and she thought it might either be athletes foot or chilblains. They're not itchy any more, I think it healed after I learnt to resist scratching my toes and it went away. The only problem is that I've got horrible excess dry skin all over my toes which keeps peeling. It feels and looks disgusting and is making me feel quite self conscious. How can I make my feet look normal again? Would it be a good idea to go and see a doctor about it, even though I'm not having any itching symptoms any more? Thank you!x (link)
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Talk to your mom and go to a doctor. Tell her each day you want to go and that you want to make sure that what you have isn't something serious.
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I have known my friend for about 4years, his 32 and I am 20... I have been in love with him for about 2years and after a while we lost contact because he went to a different country, he contacted me and we are friends again... But the feelings won't go, I finally summoned the courage to tell him how I feel about him,and I felt a bit awkward after I told him and this was what he said "You are my darling & there's no need to be uncomfortable okay...I've known you forever & watched you start to blossom like a woman...so you can simply relax, trust me & watch the story unfold...& stop being so hard on yourself... (link)
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Ok, I'm going to tell you something that hurts but it's better an ugly truth than a beautiful lie. There's no way I or anybody in the web can assure you that this guy likes you or not because we don't know him and every person in this world is different. But supposing he is the typical guy his response might mean he doesn't like you but was trying to be nice when rejecting you. I've been there, done that. It hurts - I know - and it's hard to get out of that feeling of emptiness and disbelief. My advice for you today is...if you haven't asked him yet I want you to tell him "___ I told you that I love you and I want a proper answer from you. If you like me say you like me and if you don't say you don't like me flat out. Don't get my hopes up by telling me pretty words as to not hurt my feelings. I know that as a friend you care about me and because of that you should be 100% honest with me."
If he still evades the question you can be assured that it's a NO. Honey it's ok. You just have to understand that one guy doesn't mean everything. Remember that the one who lost his opportunity to be with you was him. You offered him that chance and he lost it. He wasn't worth your time or your feelings. Know that everything happens for a reason and that if it didn't work out with him then someplace - somewhere there's something even better waiting for you that will make you understand why it didn't work out with him. And one lat advice for you: ALWAYS be grateful for what you have. Before bedtime write 5 things you are grateful about each day. For example: He might not love you but he is a dear friend and a friendship is something very beautiful in itself. If you stop having expectations and instead see the world as it is and only see the things you do have rather then the things you don't have the world will become a much beautiful place. I assure you. I learned this lesson the hard way. I wish the best for you. Good luck. :)
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