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what does it mean when a guy says this!!
I have known my friend for about 4years, his 32 and I am 20... I have been in love with him for about 2years and after a while we lost contact because he went to a different country, he contacted me and we are friends again... But the feelings won't go, I finally summoned the courage to tell him how I feel about him,and I felt a bit awkward after I told him and this was what he said "You are my darling & there's no need to be uncomfortable okay...I've known you forever & watched you start to blossom like a woman...so you can simply relax, trust me & watch the story unfold...& stop being so hard on yourself...<3... Does it mean he feels the same way too!! Cuz I am scared he just said it to make me feel better!!
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That's typical guy talk, it does not necessarily mean he is not interested, but it does mean he is not interested in anything serious with you. Don't get your hopes up sweet heart.
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Ok, I'm going to tell you something that hurts but it's better an ugly truth than a beautiful lie. There's no way I or anybody in the web can assure you that this guy likes you or not because we don't know him and every person in this world is different. But supposing he is the typical guy his response might mean he doesn't like you but was trying to be nice when rejecting you. I've been there, done that. It hurts - I know - and it's hard to get out of that feeling of emptiness and disbelief. My advice for you today is...if you haven't asked him yet I want you to tell him "___ I told you that I love you and I want a proper answer from you. If you like me say you like me and if you don't say you don't like me flat out. Don't get my hopes up by telling me pretty words as to not hurt my feelings. I know that as a friend you care about me and because of that you should be 100% honest with me."
If he still evades the question you can be assured that it's a NO. Honey it's ok. You just have to understand that one guy doesn't mean everything. Remember that the one who lost his opportunity to be with you was him. You offered him that chance and he lost it. He wasn't worth your time or your feelings. Know that everything happens for a reason and that if it didn't work out with him then someplace - somewhere there's something even better waiting for you that will make you understand why it didn't work out with him. And one lat advice for you: ALWAYS be grateful for what you have. Before bedtime write 5 things you are grateful about each day. For example: He might not love you but he is a dear friend and a friendship is something very beautiful in itself. If you stop having expectations and instead see the world as it is and only see the things you do have rather then the things you don't have the world will become a much beautiful place. I assure you. I learned this lesson the hard way. I wish the best for you. Good luck. :)
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