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Moving in Saturday, so nervous.
Hello, I am moving into college on Saturday. I am so nervous. I don't have a lot of friends, I have about 8 BEST friends and I do everything with them. Two of them are going to the same college as me and I know that should calm me down a little but I am so nervous that I won't make a lot of friends because I am kinda introverted and quiet around new people. I know, "make friends by getting involved" but this is my first year, I don't know right now how much I can handle so I'm not sure I will be involved in a lot of clubs and such this year. Any help from people who've been in my shoes would be so appreciated. Thank you!
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Ok first of all friends aren't everything in this world. You are talking as if having no friends is something horrible. Why is it that you urge so much to have friends? Answer this to yourself. Was there a past event that made you think that having no friends is a bad thing?
I started this senior year with no friends. My best friends (as well as my girlfriend) moved out to another Country. We still talk each day and I miss her. What I've done is simply be grateful. I might not have friends, but on the bright side I have a lot of free time to study and my grades have gotten better. When I had my girlfriend around I wasn't able to concentrate on my studies and my grades lowered to the point I almost flunked in Math.
Now that my girlfriend is over at Florida I can concentrate in my studies, as well as her, and in our free times we can enjoy chatting together (in your case hanging out with friend).
Make it a habit to have conversations with classmates and your friends at least 3-5 times a day. Just remember to have a positive approach. Being positive attracts more positive thing and being negative attracts more negative things. Be positive and smile. :)
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