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How long should I wait to text my ex
Posted Friday September 21 2012, 7:12 am
We broke up 5 days ago because I found out he still loved his ex. And we both decided he needed sometime to think. I was very good to him and he and I both know that so I know I can’t change his feelings about his ex but I do still like him a lot and want to get him back. He texted me yesterday and asked how I was doing how my day was and other stuff. Eventually the convo got boring to where he said “yep” and I never replied. Do you think it would be a bad idea to text him now? Or should I wait a couple of days?
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No Communication
Posted Friday September 21 2012, 4:01 am
Hi,
My boyfriend and I are both 18 and have been together for almost 6 years now. He's not really the type to express his feelings and that really bothers me. Lately things have been getting quite bad, where I'll ask him questions that can simply be answered with a yes or no like, 'Do you want me to come over tomorrow?' He won't give me an answer, he will just simply reply with 'What do you want to do?' or, 'I don't know.' It's getting really annoying, it's like I'm talking to a brick wall! I do admit that I get angry with him when he does this, which most of the time starts a fight. I've told him I have a problem with this and that I need him to communicate with me and answer my questions and he agreed to try, but he hasn't and abso...
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My ex broke up with me and texted me last night
Posted Thursday September 20 2012, 10:22 pm
He and I decided he needed time because I found out he still loved his ex. He never told me about this and I feel like he only dated me because 1. he did sort of like me but for the most part to get over his ex.
Any way, he broke up with me 4 days ago and he texted me last night. After the small talk of hey and what's up he asked me why were his ex ((who is how i found out he still loved her, she was so kind to tell me (not being sarcastic) ) and I texting the other morning and I told him she just wanted to make sure i was doing okay.
Then he has the nerve to ask me " are you ok" i told him I dont know I guess so. He says how do you not know and I told him I didn't want to talk about it. He asks why and I t...
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Boy at school
Posted Thursday September 20 2012, 9:35 pm
So I like this kid who is in my math class, he is a junior and I'm a senior, he is so nice and cute after class we always talk and walk to lunch together. He even holds the door open for me after class. I want to be able to talk to him more but I don't have his number and I dont want to seem to forward? And does it seem like he likes me?
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I hate my boyfriend... he has cheated on me many times, even when I was pregnant, but I love him and now we have a baby together.
Posted Thursday September 20 2012, 7:46 pm
Me and my boyfriend have been back together for 2 months now. After the birth of our child he broke up with me because I wanted to go to a concert event. Long story short he was with a girl he cheated on me with a year earlier. I wasn't aware how serious it was... But anyways. I'm still really not over it. He cheated on me while I was pregnant which I didn't know. He cheated on me 3 times before I ever got pregnant. In addition to being with the girl he cheated on me with he had sex with 2 other girls he let disrespect me on twitter. Also he lets his ex girlfriend from where he used to live disrespect me on twitter and other way. We have a child together so that's why we are still even together. We basically stay together he depends on me t...
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love is well... i've lost my girlfriend
Posted Thursday September 20 2012, 2:49 pm
i am not able to anything bcoz i've lost my girlfriend what shoud i do
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Does he like me?
Posted Thursday September 20 2012, 12:57 pm
So I'm a bit of a body language enthusiast and he's hitting all the marks: dilated pupils, flirtatious body language, like by the book, he's showing all the body language that indicates that he likes me. Thing is he never texts me and said he'd never date someone younger (I'm younger by 2 years). But he may have been joking/teasing, I'm not really sure...
But anyway, those two little things right there are making me believe that I am just reading him wrong and that he doesn't really like me...and then I remember one day I told him we should watch a movie together and he said "I'd really like that" but we never really finalized plans. And one day I dropped a folded piece of paper with writing on it, and he jokingly asked if ...
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Should I stay or should I go?
Posted Thursday September 20 2012, 7:50 am
Hi.
So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now. We're both 18 and have both almost finished our first year at University. Recently I've become very unhappy. I lost all my friends due to something really stupid and also because my boyfriend and I pretty much live in each others pockets, so I was always blowing my friends off to be with him. So anyway, next year is the year where Uni students usually venture out into the flatting world. My boyfriend and I have been planning to live together for the whole year, all up until a few weeks ago when I realised maybe this isn't the best idea. We've been fighting a lot lately because of my insecurities (I get super jealous super easily). He always goes out partying with his friends ...
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What is it really like in the oil rig camps of alberta? Why is my fiance texting the maid there?
Posted Wednesday September 19 2012, 6:42 pm
MY fiance has went to work on a oil rig camp. I thought everything was fine and i didnt think much of all the horror stories i heard...until a maid answered his phone one day...when he was in the shower and she was RIGHT there. why would the maid be right in his room or so near his bathroom? anf turns out they have been talking, and texting when he goes on his night shit ALLL night long as i saw his phone records. I cant see much reason to seek out the maid to be so close with when your engaged?
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Husband doesn't make contact
Posted Wednesday September 19 2012, 9:22 am
Hi all, I have been married for 8 yrs to a man that has been hospitalized on and off during this time due to high blood pressure and now kidney failure.He has recently gone back to hospital after not following up medical advice.So this is the thing that l am trying to understand whenever he is admitted to hospital which can sometimes be for up to 2 weeks he never calls to let me now how he is physically or how he is feeling nor me for that matter. When ever l call to speak to him l am put on the phone to a nurse either saying he is not in bed or asleep this has been going on for years we also have 3 children under 7 yrs of age so as his wife l am feeling in the dark we have both discussed this and he just rolls his eyes and walks away. l am...
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roomate slept with my friend
Posted Wednesday September 19 2012, 9:10 am
I'm a college freshman- I got here a few weeks ago. It's been great except my roomates (im in a triple) are a bit crazy. They drink 5 days of the week, do drugs, and constantly hook up with random people at parties. One of them had sex with a random person the day she moved in. Anyway, I became really good friends with this guy and we ended up hooking up- then we turned into a "thing"- we were always together, talked about everything, and really cared about each other. I went away last weekend and when I came back i found out my roommate (the one who has sex with anything that moves) got drunk and slept with my friend that i almost freaking love! She lied and said they kissed but everyone on my floor knew, and I ended up finding o...
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this boy really confuses me
Posted Wednesday September 19 2012, 7:52 am
Leah, 16, Female
I met this boy through school, but now we have been seperated and moved to different colleges. He was a great friend back then, but this year since we have left school, I have kind of fell for him, it's like he has got everything I am searching for, everyone has that type they picture in their head, don't they? Well it is him, sometimes he will be like "i love you" he always texts me everyday FIRST with out fail, he uses the words "babe" sometimes too. I am really confused because whenever I say something cute/sweet he goes all weird and like, changes the subject or ignores me for a while. I have tried to hint that I like him a lot, and he kind of fell out with me, he wouldn't text back, u...
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am i not girlfriend material?
Posted Wednesday September 19 2012, 3:16 am
ok so im 17/f he is 18/m
When i meet mitch he said he was looking for a relationship, but now im left wondering if he wants a relationship with me.so basically we have gone on 5 date, all went really well. ive already meet his family (mum,dad,sister, aunty uncle and cousins) he says he likes me ect and he seems geuine. but the thing that leaves me wondering is that he is always messaging other girls (generally this wouldnt fase me considering all my friends are guys, but this is different, i just have a gut feeling.) i really like him, but sometimes he bags me out to much beyond a joke, and im no closer to being his girlfriend. suggestions?
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My bf broke up with me saying he needed time. How do I deal
Posted Tuesday September 18 2012, 11:23 pm
Long story short he says he still loves his ex. His ex is fully committed to her boyfriend and she will never get back with him. I told him he needs time to think about all this and he agreed he said he would like some time and that he is still here for me.
In this case ... It is more than likely that he and I will never get back together correct?
I am so heart broken.. I have been on and off crying For the past hour i just feel so stupid and betrayed.
I am 17 and female
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Is that cheating? Getting a phone number from another girl and calling her?
Posted Tuesday September 18 2012, 8:10 pm
My boyfriend got a phone number from a chick. I found the number and confronted him. He says they only talked on the phone and never spent any time with her. When I called her she stated the same. Was he cheating by getting her number and calling her?
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My 'player' ex bf who I still love, HELP PLEASE!
Posted Tuesday September 18 2012, 5:25 pm
Hi!soo, long story short my ex bf(15, I'm 14) broke up with me a couple months ago, we were on and off since march this year, we had been friends since we were 7/8, I have to see him every week though, the thing is, I still love him. The last break up(we had broken up 4 times) went really well because the one before it I had really lost it, I acted almost happy though when he did it last. Problem is, is that he thinks he's a player, he's not(lol), but in a way he kinda is (if that makes any sense>.<), I want to get back with him but since of his 'player' ness if I show interest he prob will back off, what do I do? He told my friend this past sun that I was beautiful, but that he didn't want to date(he'll lie and say that), idk what to...
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Intentional evesdropping
Posted Tuesday September 18 2012, 1:32 pm
17/f
The other day I was sitting in a room studying at college, when I noticed an ex from a few years ago sitting outside the room (theres a window) on the computer.
He was telling some other random girl about how eheh wants to break up with his girlfriend of 8months ago oh how it was very pressurized. But he was practically shouting it-you know when its obvious he wants you to know.
Should I tell this girl because basically hes telling everyone else before her and I know how bad that made me feel.
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He just wants to be friends
Posted Tuesday September 18 2012, 11:38 am
20/f
i'll give you a little bit of background info: I have been on and off with my friend mark for about 2 years now. when we first met, he took me on a date and had a little fling before he went back to college. after i graduated high school i went to the same college as him and we still go there together. last year we would randomly hook up at parties and then at spring break he apologized for leading me on, and then we hooked up again a month later where he proceeded to ignore me again. i was extrememly hurt by this and would ignore him.
i have a class with him this year and on the first day he texted me which i ignored, and then at the end of class he pushed through a bunch of people just to say "hi&qu...
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Confused About My Sexuality
Posted Tuesday September 18 2012, 3:32 am
Well, my friend and I (I'll just call her T) went to a dance/disco thing on Friday night, and honestly, I knew that I was completely straight till then. We were dancing and everything and then we started "dirty dancing" and grinding and I found it kind of a turn on I guess. It was new, and exciting... I've never been sexually attracted to anyone other than guys so could this be something worth trying out further or was it just a one night fling. Oh and I'm 15/F and so is my friend, but she's bi as well.
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Crazy about guy
Posted Monday September 17 2012, 9:28 pm
I'm in college and starting to have crazy feelings for this guy I'm friends with. He has a girlfriend who lives far away but he's been paying more attention to me lately (but nothing physical or anything). I think the dynamic between us is awesome and we get along so well, I just love it. The thing is, I have no experience at all with any of this stuff. I've never hooked up and I've never had a boyfriend and now I have these crazy emotional feelings I've never had before. It's so strange. I cannot stop thinking about him and I've spent my past few days hoping I'll run into him all day or that he'll text me. I honestly don't think this is very healthy and may have the potential to give me an emotional breakdown.
I just can't help the...
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