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Is that cheating? Getting a phone number from another girl and calling her?


Question Posted Tuesday September 18 2012, 8:10 pm

My boyfriend got a phone number from a chick. I found the number and confronted him. He says they only talked on the phone and never spent any time with her. When I called her she stated the same. Was he cheating by getting her number and calling her?

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OneLove_OneHeart answered Friday May 9 2014, 4:42 pm:
Well, I would say that it's not cheating based on what you've said BUT that is kind of disrespectful since he's already in a relationship. Just tell him how you feel and hopefully he doesn't do that anymore.

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nillabean45 answered Thursday September 27 2012, 4:31 pm:
no he isnt and if you get to mad he might not like u anymore

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kaaitlyn31 answered Monday September 24 2012, 11:17 pm:
no, this is definitely not cheating because from what you know they didnt even hangout. but if he is dating you he should not be getting others girls #'s and talking to them on the phone, you definitely need to talk to her about that.
hope i helped! :)

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theyeeez7 answered Friday September 21 2012, 8:27 am:
This isn't cheating, but it is a little concerning that he is ringing her and not telling you. You both probably need to sit down and talk, tell him how you feel about this and ask him for his true intentions with this girl and why he is ringing her. Hopefully you can get some answers out of him and you can then make a decision about what to do next. Hope this helps :)

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Razhie answered Wednesday September 19 2012, 3:46 pm:
Did she know he had a girlfriend? Was he merely making a new friend, who happened to be female?

Cheating is about betrayal. It's about deceit.

If he was honest with her, then he wasn't being deceitful. He should have mentioned this new friend to you. That was a lie of omission that reduced trust.

Does it means he cheated? Or will cheat? Not necessarily.

But he did make a mistake, and it's one he should apologize for and not make again.

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Teen2TeenHelp answered Tuesday September 18 2012, 11:25 pm:
I would be a little concerned but I wouldn't say it's outright cheating. If he tried to hide it from you, then there should be suspicion behind that.

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kristiwaslike answered Tuesday September 18 2012, 10:25 pm:
Before you accuse him of cheating, ask yourself this question. Did he intend on hiding this number/girl from you? If so, you need to question his motives with her. Yes, this may just be an innocent friendship, but how exactly would he feel if you got a random guy's number and started calling him, regardless if you had hung out with him yet?

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