Member Since: September 20, 2012
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Last Update: September 21, 2012
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My boyfriend got a phone number from a chick. I found the number and confronted him. He says they only talked on the phone and never spent any time with her. When I called her she stated the same. Was he cheating by getting her number and calling her? (link)
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This isn't cheating, but it is a little concerning that he is ringing her and not telling you. You both probably need to sit down and talk, tell him how you feel about this and ask him for his true intentions with this girl and why he is ringing her. Hopefully you can get some answers out of him and you can then make a decision about what to do next. Hope this helps :)
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i am not able to anything bcoz i've lost my girlfriend what shoud i do (link)
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Hi. You should try and keep yourself busy, take up a hobby or play a sport. This should also be something you love to do, as it will be fun and it will keep your mind occupied. You should also try and surround yourself with friends, hanging out with your friends can also get your mind off things too. Going out and doing things with them like swimming or playing a sport is a bonus. Try not to mope around and don't convince yourself that you'd rather sit at home and mull things over and over in your head. If you truly want to get your life back, you need to make yourself get up and do things. Doing these things will also remind you of how fun life used to be when you were single, and you will slowly get back into the gist of things. Just remember time heals, no pain if forever. If you keep yourself occupied, you will soon find that you can happy on your own, without thinking about her and the what ifs. Hope this helped :)
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We broke up 5 days ago because I found out he still loved his ex. And we both decided he needed sometime to think. I was very good to him and he and I both know that so I know I can’t change his feelings about his ex but I do still like him a lot and want to get him back. He texted me yesterday and asked how I was doing how my day was and other stuff. Eventually the convo got boring to where he said “yep” and I never replied. Do you think it would be a bad idea to text him now? Or should I wait a couple of days? (link)
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Hi,
It really depends on what you want to do. There isn't a time limit on when to text him back or not.. If you feel like you want to text him then do so. Also about you wanting him back. It looks to me that if he is texting you after only 5 days of being broken up, he is starting to miss you. Maybe you could text him when you're ready and see if you can both work it out. But yeah, there isn't a time limit on when it's okay to text him back or whatever, it's just whenever you're ready to. Hope this helps :)
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17/f . I have been with my 21 year old boyfriend for a year and 4 months. About 8 months ago, I got pregnant and had to get a medical abortion.. probably the worst mistake ever :/ since then, we have had this tension between us. I understand he might be hurt (especially since younger guys are never as mature when it comes to this kind of stuff)but at the same time, i didnt decide to go to that extent for myself, it was for US. That day was the last day i saw him cry. He used to treat me like a princess. Lately in these past 4 months, I have seen him completely change. He is extremely jealous, paranoid, treats me like CRAP, never stands up for me, and blames all our problems on me. Just yesterday, he told me that the reason why i got pregnant is because i couldnt keep my legs shut. that was the most horrible thing anyone has ever said to me. i dont know what to do, i'm seriously emotionally scarred from him and all the things that have happened between us but i dont feel strong enough to leave him. I told him today it was over because i cant take the mental abuse, and all he said was "ok" and hung up. should i actually let him go or get back with him? (link)
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Hi there. That really sucks about having to get an abortion :( I'm 18 and have many pregnancy scares with my boyfriend, I think you're brave for doing what you did. By the sounds of things, his change is a sort of reaction to the what you both had to go through. Maybe he's grieving, I'm not 100% sure but treating you badly is not okay at all. I think maybe you both should have an adult conversation and lay everything out on the table. Tell him how you feel about what happened and how you feel about how he's acting toward you. Hopefully he can do the same. Maybe you will be able to fully understand why he's acting the way he is and if it is because he is grieving or something like that then if you're willing to stay with him, you could both get help together. Maybe couples therapy? Otherwise if he acts defensive and doesn't have any valid reasons as to why he's treating you like this then maybe it is time for you to let him go. Nobody deserves to be treated like this :( Just see if you both can sit down and talk like adults and maybe go from there? Good luck with whatever decision you make.
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