My boyfriend got a phone number from a chick. I found the number and confronted him. He says they only talked on the phone and never spent any time with her. When I called her she stated the same. Was he cheating by getting her number and calling her?
Before you accuse him of cheating, ask yourself this question. Did he intend on hiding this number/girl from you? If so, you need to question his motives with her. Yes, this may just be an innocent friendship, but how exactly would he feel if you got a random guy's number and started calling him, regardless if you had hung out with him yet?
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Bahahahaha I know stupid question, but I honestly don't know.
Like, with a stranger you see in a shop or something. I know you don't go up to them and be all over them, because not only is that an anti social thing to do, but they may have a girlfriend.
But how do you flirt? I really don't know, lol.
Showing any kind of interest in the guy can be considered flirting if done right. You know, ask him about personal interests, what he's involved in, the music or movies he likes, etc. Flirting doesn't necessarily mean twirling your hair or batting your eyes at him. Believe me, the talking part is a LOT easier and probably gets better results than that, haha.
Complimenting is big one too. A simple comment about his appearance or attire would hint off the interest in him as well. :)
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heyy
i'm a 17 yr. old girl (turning 18 in january too!)
i've never had a boyfriend
i have never kissed a boy
a boy has never been interested in me (to my knowledge)
the main issue is that i'm not really friends with many straght guys. i do theatre so almost all of my guy friends are gay and there aren't many opportunities for me to meet straight guys. i feel like such a loser. i mean i'm almost 18 and have never had anything close to a romantic relationship with a boy. am i doing something wrong? i keep telling myself that it's normal and a lot of girls my age have never hooked up with anyone but i'm starting to think it's not normal and my self confidence has hit rock bottom. i'm not ugly or fat or anything. my best friend (gay guy) told me last year that i got so pretty, but i feel like no guys (straight) will ever want to date me. it's not that i want to hook up with someone just for the sake of hooking up with someone. i just want someone to love me and make me feel good about myself so i don't feel so alone. ughhh i don't even know what to do. any advice would be greatly appreciated!
thanks
You're definitely not doing anything wrong, trust me. You're right about it being perfectly normal. I have plenty of girl friends who are nearly 18 and haven't experienced a real relationship of any sort before. But they're perfectly content with it because I've told them the same advice to just wait. Basically, you've still got all your college years ahead of you. Think of all the guys that will catch your attention (and vice versa!) when you head off somewhere new and have the chance to meet new people!
High school will always be high school. The guys are kind of "ehh..", so I strongly advise you NOT to rush into something just because you want to feel the thrill. Things tend to fall into place when you least expect it... but you know, just because I've mentioned to wait until college doesn't mean that's when it's guaranteed to happen. You could even meet a guy somewhere within this year and something might spark. You've just got to WAIT for it, you know? (:
If you've got anything else to ask or if that wasn't the advice you wanted, go ahead and reply, I'm willing to help you out as much as I can!
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well, i was in my la class a few days ago, and then my teacher dicides to open a discusion about the election. i really enjoy politics, and im a republican. but she gave us a run down of what each party was like. and she said that republicans are mostly rich white guys, dont like to think out of the box, want to start comunisium, want to raise taxes, think women should do house work, and that they dont want to go green. all of that stuff is very not true. then she said that demecrates are great thinkers who try to have new people in like blacks and women, and that they want to lower taxes and would love to go green, those are problably true...exept the taxes part (but ill try to keep my opinion out) and i come home, all made because she had put me down like that, and i told my mom who is AMAZING at politics and rights and logic. and she said that the teacher really shouldnt be doing that...she does have the freedom of speech, but she is also in a positon of athority, so everyone else could think that what she is saying is fact, but it is really opinion, but my question is, what should i do if she brings it up again, should i ask her after class to not be making stuff up about the republicans, or should i tell the princiable that shes basicly discriminating agains rep., or should i have my mom call, but i really dont want to just sit back and let her think that she can say what ever she wants, im just not like that
Whoa. What she is doing is definitely not right, and could put her in a serious position if people of higher authority found out. She's basically discriminating against you, and anyone else who shares the Republican belief. Serious action should be taken.
If you don't feel like challenging her on the spot and telling her in front of the class that she's got everything wrong, consider the other alternatives. Starting with the principal.
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There is this boy in school who I asked out but he said no because it was to earley for us but now i can't stop think ing about him but i don't want to stop thinking about him I want him to be all mine for ever boy friend and girlfriend but i need him to notice me plees need help boy trobles
If he doesn't want you right now, there's not much you can do about it. I strongly advise you not to continually throw yourself at him because it may cause him to lose all interest in you that could've grown into something bigger had you just given him some space.
Keep dropping hints, but not enough to cause him to believe you are obsessed with him, you know?
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Alright, first, i am sorry if this is really long but i have a lot to say. Okay, well i like this guy and he "supposedly" liked me. All my friends say he does. Also, he knows i like him. (we "talked" for a week over the summer.) Anyways, tonight i went to a party and he was tickling me and hugging me and picking me up...etc. Well, all my friends (which is a lot) told me they think he likes me because of the way he acts around me and he even told my friend he liked me. At the end of the party, my friend asked him if he liked me and he winked at her and came up to me and gave me a really big hug. He was like "I'll see ya later, bye!" Then, after the party my friend told him that i really liked him and he told her not to tell me but he was "talking" to someone else I mean, i even admit, he was flirting with me at the party and then he just tells my friend right after that he likes someone else and not to tell me. He kept saying to her "Don't say anything, i don't want her to know." I don't get it, i mean he told my friend he liked me a week ago and was flirting at the pary and now he is "talking" to someone else.
I really don't think he is a player. He really is a nice sweet sensitive guy and he dosen't have a "bad" reputation. I am so confused! He is always really nice to me and everything. I mean, all my friends were telling me that they hear he likes me. My questions are,
1. Why is he doing this?
2. Does he like me and the other girl or just her?
3. What do you think?
4. What do i do and how do i act around him now?
5. Should i still flirt or should i lay off?
Thanks!
To be quite honest, I really think this is something you're going to have to find out from him on your own. Maybe you could come up with the courage to ask him on a little one on one date, and if all goes well, at the end you could ask him how he feels about you.
He's probably acting this way because he is afraid of rushing into something like a relationship, and is using the girl as an excuse to stay away from the opportunity as much as he can. But the only real way to find out is to ask him.
Don't let this mess you up. Keep laying hints to him that you're interested, because there might still be a chance.
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i'm 5'3" and weigh 125lbs. i have boobs and an ass, haha. i was wondering that it's 125 too heavy for my height? i mean i look good but when it comes to the actual number, it freaks me out and makes me want to lose so much weight! ahh help!
If you believe that you look good, then DO NOT go out of your way to lose weight just because of the numbers. In all reality, 125 is not too heavy for your height, it probably just means you have a lot of muscle mass... you ought be proud of that! :)
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Ok so its been about 2 years since me and my best friend have been friends. Well back in Oct. 2007 i moved and he moved. He stopped talking to me casue he got a girlfriend. but i moved back in Dec. and we started talking, but he was still acting funny. well then when they broke up we became Best friends again.Him and i have been through Alot, ALOT of things together. But now the last two mounths we stopped talking all together i don't even know who he is anymore. Should i just move on? I mean im just upset cause we've been through alot and he acts like he forgot about our friendship. PLEASE HELP!
The best thing you can do in this situation is sit down and have a talk with him. Explain to him exactly how you feel and how else it has affected you. If he still acts like it's no big loss to him, than unfortunately it looks like it's time to find another friend. These things happen, and when they do you have to learn to accept how people choose to be even when you are involved.
Of course, there is still the chance that he will also open up to you, and maybe with that you will both be able to catch up with each other and create even a stronger bond. Time will only tell.
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Okay, this is sort of awkward, but here goes.
My boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while now and he used to go pretty fast and hard and I loved it. Lately though, he tends to go slower and deeper, which is also great to an extent, but I prefer it when along with that he finishes off going faster and harder. But, I'm too shy to flat out say it to him.
So, my question is how can a subtly get him to start doing it faster like he used to, without flat out saying it?
Communication is always something you need to have when you're having sex with someone. If you're afraid to tell him about something you actually enjoy, what's going to happen if he does something that you don't like or you find painful?
I can tell you one thing, he is not going to be offended or even seriously tease you when he hears your preference. In fact, he'll appreciate hearing some positive feedback from you! So gather up the courage to tell him, because you know that you'll be rewarded for it soon enough. (;
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